In-law problems?

[janet88]

Happy New Year to all of you.

Sorry for the ranting.

[Imami]

Things may change de. My mil was not very nice to me too until recently. But these days, she is much nicer.


We, as younger generation, still need to do what we shd do. Last time when people tell me this, I thought - don’t bull shit la, where got such thing? They won’t change de lah.but now, I see it for myself.

[KSmom8]

janet_lee88:

Happy New Year to all of you.

Sorry for the ranting.

Happy new year!
Don't worry about the ranting... It's good to let off steam... Better to let it off here than amongst family members which could lead to further disharmony.

DH also lost his temper over something my mother said... and blasted at us. Son in law and mil issues. :slapshead: Spoilt CNY for me .... But will look on the bright side there's 15 days to CNY.

[cherrygal]

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[TheAnswer]

:grphug: for everyone!

[DesertWind]

Imami:

Things may change de. My mil was not very nice to me too until recently. But these days, she is much nicer.


We, as younger generation, still need to do what we shd do. Last time when people tell me this, I thought - don't bull shit la, where got such thing? They won't change de lah.but now, I see it for myself.

Yes, especially when they get older and suddenly realized they would need you more than you need them eventually.

[Imami]

DesertWind:

Imami:

Things may change de. My mil was not very nice to me too until recently. But these days, she is much nicer.


We, as younger generation, still need to do what we shd do. Last time when people tell me this, I thought - don't bull shit la, where got such thing? They won't change de lah.but now, I see it for myself.

Yes, especially when they get older and suddenly realized they would need you more than you need them eventually.

:hi5: my mil only changed after she fell very very sick. Her children were either very busy (daughter working shifts, got maid and kid prob, younger son's wife in and out of hospital due to complicated pregnancy) or not in sg (my hubby). I try to help where I can.

[DesertWind]

Imami:

my mil only changed after she fell very very sick. Her children were either very busy (daughter working shifts, got maid and kid prob, younger son's wife in and out of hospital due to complicated pregnancy) or not in sg (my hubby). I try to help where I can.

You are a good DIL, Imami! :salute:

[Imami]

DesertWind:

Imami:

my mil only changed after she fell very very sick. Her children were either very busy (daughter working shifts, got maid and kid prob, younger son's wife in and out of hospital due to complicated pregnancy) or not in sg (my hubby). I try to help where I can.

You are a good DIL, Imami! :salute:

Nah... No la. Not being humble here, but really no la. My parents in law didn't accept much of my help. I believe they know/feel guilty that I am saddled with a lot since my hubby travels a lot for work. But at least they appreciates my thoughts.

[SarChar]

I hope u have enjoyed your CNY gatherings as much as I did.


I am aching all over from cooking for more than 40 people today…DH has 12 siblings & 20 nieces/nephews!

We have met up for the last 3 days and will be meeting again with more than 1/2 the clan tomorrow…and then everyone again for the next 2 weekends!