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    All About Life Without Maids

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    • janet88J Offline
      janet88
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      vinegar:
      janet_lee88:


      When maid becomes a burden or problem, he will push blame to me. Handling a maid is not easy.

      Yes,exactly.He asked why u didn't teach or explain to her properly?why she always so unhappy?did u scold her?

      told him oredi explained to her,even wrote on a paper to remind her;cooked fr her n bot her favourite jam.she not happy,not my prob.Mayb she nids a bangladesh bf to make her happy?

      he gets to be angel at home after work...we have to put up with the maid's attitude the whole day...exactly like his mother...in front of him, act angel...horns appear when he is out. at most i suffer doing housework, but i sent maid off when she did a double-headed act.

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        vinegar
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        janet_lee88:

        he gets to be angel at home after work...we have to put up with the maid's attitude the whole day...exactly like his mother...in front of him, act angel...horns appear when he is out. at most i suffer doing housework, but i sent maid off when she did a double-headed act.
        That is the thing.I also do not like my DH to be angel,either wf maid or kids,make my job difficult.

        my ex Phil maid liked to talk to my DH directly.She did it on purpose coz she knew i would reject her.

        I issued a final warning to DH:if u wanna manage,i'll leave everything to u,don't \"counter-manage\"if i'm in charge,or else u create double std.Since that day,he leaves everything to me.If maid/kids go to him,he'll ask them to come to me.

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          janet88
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          vinegar:
          janet_lee88:


          I issued a final warning to DH:if u wanna manage,i'll leave everything to u,don't \"counter-manage\"if i'm in charge,or else u create double std.Since that day,he leaves everything to me.If maid/kids go to him,he'll ask them to come to me.

          I also issued that warning several times...if he wants to be in control, he controls EVERYTHING...if not, don't act smart.
          In terms of this, kids will not approach him. But if there was any maid who bypassed me, she would be sent off. Don't try to 'hiao' with sir. I am not blind.

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            MintyMin
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            Mine is opp… My ex-maid doesn’t dare to tok to dh at all… even if it is dh tings, n when dh ard… she will come to me… which i dun like… as it is not my items but dh… so i rather ex-maid ask him directly den come to me…

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              janet88
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              MintyMin:
              Mine is opp.. My ex-maid doesn't dare to tok to dh at all.. even if it is dh tings, n when dh ard.. she will come to me.. which i dun like.. as it is not my items but dh.. so i rather ex-maid ask him directly den come to me...

              Try bypassing me and approach 'sir' and off she goes.
              Luckily, my maids were stressed with him at home....bcos he will be walking around house...scaring the hell out of them if they were ironing or cleaning something...good in a way, can't day dream.

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                janet_lee88:
                MintyMin:

                Mine is opp.. My ex-maid doesn't dare to tok to dh at all.. even if it is dh tings, n when dh ard.. she will come to me.. which i dun like.. as it is not my items but dh.. so i rather ex-maid ask him directly den come to me...


                Try bypassing me and approach 'sir' and off she goes.
                Luckily, my maids were stressed with him at home....bcos he will be walking around house...scaring the hell out of them if they were ironing or cleaning something...good in a way, can't day dream.

                :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

                I tink my all my ex-maids dislike dh to b home not bcoz he monitors them.. but he mess the hse more when he is home.. :evil: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

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                  vinegar
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                  mess up the hse? How does he do it? Throw newspaper everywhere?

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                  • janet88J Offline
                    janet88
                    last edited by

                    vinegar:
                    mess up the hse? How does he do it? Throw newspaper everywhere?

                    Leave newspapers everywhere...tell maid to make coffee when she is doing something. Or else suddenly suggest going out for dinner when she has taken food out to defrost.

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                      MintyMin
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                      janet_lee88:
                      vinegar:

                      mess up the hse? How does he do it? Throw newspaper everywhere?


                      Leave newspapers everywhere...tell maid to make coffee when she is doing something. Or else suddenly suggest going out for dinner when she has taken food out to defrost.

                      Yupz! Janet is right! Den eat d melon seeds... D shells will drop on floor.. He will throw in dustbin but still will b dirty.. Can drinks... Clothes... Every where...

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                        vinegar
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                        eeeeee..lucky my DH not like that...he is tidier than me. :oops:

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