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      vinegar
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      In the past,my DH used to raise his voice.Now he could control beta.


      We also agreed to discuss after children sleep.I do not wanna the kiddo to be affected by our argument.

      That was once my DH smashed the glass door n my boy still remem after few yrs.That was also signs that my boy started to throw temper.So i told my DH if he doesn't wanna kiddo to grow up unable to control anger,he has to change n lead by example.上樑不正,下樑歪.Children watch-& they will emulate what they see.

      Ultimately,I still wanna kiddo to respect my DH n treat him as role model. 😄

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        vinegar
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        KSmom8:
        Agree. Different breed must use different approach.

        haha.... 😂 good answer!....look for experience dog trainer??

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          janet88
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          vinegar:
          KSmom8:

          Agree. Different breed must use different approach.


          haha.... 😂 good answer!....look for experience dog trainer??

          If this mad dog wants to end, then he better THINK of a solution...bcos I am capable of showing black face. I don't suffer, he does. He blasted in front of the kids...how will kids think of him ?

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            KSmom8
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            TheAnswer:


            Wah.. Diamonds! Great idea! :rahrah:
            Still thinking about it... Can't be toooooo expensive otherwise will start another fight.

            Already bought some household stuff that's nice to have ( didn't look at price tag ), will be used but not necessarily needed. 😂

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              KSmom8
              last edited by

              vinegar:
              KSmom8:

              Agree. Different breed must use different approach.


              haha.... 😂 good answer!....look for experience dog trainer??

              Yah. Should include such training courses in those pre-marital programs, to tame all breeds, especially males. :rotflmao:

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                KSmom8
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                janet_lee88:
                vinegar:

                [quote=\"KSmom8\"]Agree. Different breed must use different approach.


                haha.... 😂 good answer!....look for experience dog trainer??

                If this mad dog wants to end, then he better THINK of a solution...bcos I am capable of showing black face. I don't suffer, he does. He blasted in front of the kids...how will kids think of him ?[/quote]My DH still behaves like nothing happened. Has not apologized. Talks to me and gets no reaction. I'm the expressionless wall. I'll probably get him to apologise after I've stopped fuming.... which will be after I've made myself happy with something new....hopefully.

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                  highheels
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                  At least your husbands apologise. Mine doesn’t apologise AT ALL, even when he is obviously in the wrong.

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                    smartmummy
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                    Moms pls forgive them and move on.Don’t expect you can change them.They can change if they wanted to change.I give up.Accepted my DH with his minus and appreciate his plus.Of course, sometimes dissapointed.I tell myself don’t expect anything from my DH.So I can be happy without dissapointments.Our happiness most important than changing our DH’s attitude.

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                      TheAnswer
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                      My DH won’t say sorry unless he is obviously in the wrong. Usually he just do something sweet to appease my anger.

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                        janet88
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                        That fella smsed to say sorry…replied him…if he doesn’t apologize in front of kids, then Cold War will continue for as long as possible.

                        He did…daughter told him if he shouted at me again, I will not talk to him for a longer period. She reminded the father again…don’t raise your voice. Talk nicely.

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