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    The Real Reason Why We Send Our Children to Tuition

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    • D Offline
      Dilbert_A1
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      You should have a good talk with your daughter's teachers, not to find fault, but rather, to discover for yourself the challenges the teacher is facing. That piece of info is very crucial, somewhat like the missing part of a jigsaw puzzle.


      A beginning teacher usually has no resources and has to develop from scratch. Many more experienced teachers often are not willing to share, simply because of a ranking system in school that encourages competition rather than cooperation. So, the quality of the notes may differ from teacher to teacher. Not all schools use standardized teaching materials across the board.

      Even if a teacher is experienced, the teacher is very distracted. Admin work is just one part. There are department projects, CCA, competition, school plays, science projects, Action Research thesis/projects.

      If you really want your child's teacher to improve dramatically on quality of teaching, talk to the principal and school leaders. Tell them to stop pressuring their teachers to do more in order to score points for promotion and performance bonus. Tell them to save the crap of 'all-rounded' education.

      Everyone has the same 24 hours a day. If the teacher spends more time on CCA and other school projects, it simply means that the teacher will spend less time on marking, lesson preparation and remedial. In school, the phrase 'time management' simply means bring the work home to do.

      Just for your info, turnover rate is high, despite outsiders envying teachers as having 'iron rice bowl'. If you want your school teachers to teach better so that you can spend less on tuition, then you need to apply pressure on the school leaders and get them to focus on teaching, and stop the wayang.

      BTW, when Minister Heng said he wanted to focus more on moral education and less on results, it simply means teachers have to set aside more time to plan and draft more Civics Education lesson packages. There is no reduction in other workload. 🙂

      As parents, you would ask yourself if the school system (including top primary and secondary) is so good, why do you need to spend so much on tuition still?

      I hope I shed some light on what is happening on in the schools. Most teachers would really want to focus on teaching. But circumstances and higher powers decided otherwise.

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        longmao.029846irene
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        Dilbert_A1:
        You should have a good talk with your daughter's teachers, not to find fault, but rather, to discover for yourself the challenges the teacher is facing. That piece of info is very crucial, somewhat like the missing part of a jigsaw puzzle.


        A beginning teacher usually has no resources and has to develop from scratch. Many more experienced teachers often are not willing to share, simply because of a ranking system in school that encourages competition rather than cooperation. So, the quality of the notes may differ from teacher to teacher. Not all schools use standardized teaching materials across the board.

        Even if a teacher is experienced, the teacher is very distracted. Admin work is just one part. There are department projects, CCA, competition, school plays, science projects, Action Research thesis/projects.

        If you really want your child's teacher to improve dramatically on quality of teaching, talk to the principal and school leaders. Tell them to stop pressuring their teachers to do more in order to score points for promotion and performance bonus. Tell them to save the crap of 'all-rounded' education.

        Everyone has the same 24 hours a day. If the teacher spends more time on CCA and other school projects, it simply means that the teacher will spend less time on marking, lesson preparation and remedial. In school, the phrase 'time management' simply means bring the work home to do.

        Just for your info, turnover rate is high, despite outsiders envying teachers as having 'iron rice bowl'. If you want your school teachers to teach better so that you can spend less on tuition, then you need to apply pressure on the school leaders and get them to focus on teaching, and stop the wayang.

        BTW, when Minister Heng said he wanted to focus more on moral education and less on results, it simply means teachers have to set aside more time to plan and draft more Civics Education lesson packages. There is no reduction in other workload. 🙂

        As parents, you would ask yourself if the school system (including top primary and secondary) is so good, why do you need to spend so much on tuition still?

        I hope I shed some light on what is happening on in the schools. Most teachers would really want to focus on teaching. But circumstances and higher powers decided otherwise.
        Agreed totally! U forgot to mention d tons of paper / admin work they r facing as compare to our times as well.. I really feel for them, especially d kids & parents r nOt as easy to teach n deal wif as compare to olden days. True, technology bring upon efficiency etc.. Bt come on teaching is abt passion aka \"software cant b overload\"

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          janet88
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          Dilbert_A1:

          If you really want your child's teacher to improve dramatically on quality of teaching, talk to the principal and school leaders. Tell them to stop pressuring their teachers to do more in order to score points for promotion and performance bonus. Tell them to save the crap of 'all-rounded' education.

          Just for your info, turnover rate is high, despite outsiders envying teachers as having 'iron rice bowl'. If you want your school teachers to teach better so that you can spend less on tuition, then you need to apply pressure on the school leaders and get them to focus on teaching, and stop the wayang.

          BTW, when Minister Heng said he wanted to focus more on moral education and less on results, it simply means teachers have to set aside more time to plan and draft more Civics Education lesson packages. There is no reduction in other workload. 🙂

          As parents, you would ask yourself if the school system (including top primary and secondary) is so good, why do you need to spend so much on tuition still?

          I hope I shed some light on what is happening on in the schools. Most teachers would really want to focus on teaching. But circumstances and higher powers decided otherwise.
          I am sure most teachers want to do what they set out to...ie TEACH. Pressuring school leaders to allow their teachers to teach more and cut down on non-core teaching is not going to work if their bosses in MOE think otherwise. Strange thing is, schools want to engage parents as partners in their children's education.

          The wayang, sad to say, will continue. Tuition will continue to be part of most children's lives. School/miscellaneous fees are cheap for Singaporeans...money to pass major exams is paid to tuition centers/tutors.

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            AdonciaTang
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            longmao.irene:
            Dilbert_A1:

            You should have a good talk with your daughter's teachers, not to find fault, but rather, to discover for yourself the challenges the teacher is facing. That piece of info is very crucial, somewhat like the missing part of a jigsaw puzzle.


            A beginning teacher usually has no resources and has to develop from scratch. Many more experienced teachers often are not willing to share, simply because of a ranking system in school that encourages competition rather than cooperation. So, the quality of the notes may differ from teacher to teacher. Not all schools use standardized teaching materials across the board.

            Even if a teacher is experienced, the teacher is very distracted. Admin work is just one part. There are department projects, CCA, competition, school plays, science projects, Action Research thesis/projects.

            If you really want your child's teacher to improve dramatically on quality of teaching, talk to the principal and school leaders. Tell them to stop pressuring their teachers to do more in order to score points for promotion and performance bonus. Tell them to save the crap of 'all-rounded' education.

            Everyone has the same 24 hours a day. If the teacher spends more time on CCA and other school projects, it simply means that the teacher will spend less time on marking, lesson preparation and remedial. In school, the phrase 'time management' simply means bring the work home to do.

            Just for your info, turnover rate is high, despite outsiders envying teachers as having 'iron rice bowl'. If you want your school teachers to teach better so that you can spend less on tuition, then you need to apply pressure on the school leaders and get them to focus on teaching, and stop the wayang.

            BTW, when Minister Heng said he wanted to focus more on moral education and less on results, it simply means teachers have to set aside more time to plan and draft more Civics Education lesson packages. There is no reduction in other workload. 🙂

            As parents, you would ask yourself if the school system (including top primary and secondary) is so good, why do you need to spend so much on tuition still?

            I hope I shed some light on what is happening on in the schools. Most teachers would really want to focus on teaching. But circumstances and higher powers decided otherwise.

            Agreed totally! U forgot to mention d tons of paper / admin work they r facing as compare to our times as well.. I really feel for them, especially d kids & parents r nOt as easy to teach n deal wif as compare to olden days. True, technology bring upon efficiency etc.. Bt come on teaching is abt passion aka \"software cant b overload\"

            I agree too! There are just so many things for them to do now as compared to our time

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              janet88
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              peanut_butter:
              How did those leaders ended up in MOE when they know nothing about education?


              Parents, do your part, give your school teacher an allowance, so that they may be allowed to fail the MOE system and teach freely.
              Cannot give teachers allowance...or we get treated to coffee at CPIB.

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                SchoolOfTutors
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                A report by a research firm in Singapore (Blackbox Research) reveals just how parents think of having private tuition for their kids. Check out the report and key stats: http://schooloftutors.com/blog/how-about-another-white-paper-on-private-tuition-in-singapore-that-is/.


                Are we really a Tuition nation?

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                  janet88
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                  SchoolOfTutors:

                  Are we really a Tuition nation?
                  We are NOT the only tuition nation. Asian countries like Hong Kong, Korea, Taiwan are all the same.

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                    Dilbert_A1
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                    Beautyful Minds:
                    Dilbert_A1:

                    You should have a good talk with your daughter's teachers, not to find fault, but rather, to discover for yourself the challenges the teacher is facing. That piece of info is very crucial, somewhat like the missing part of a jigsaw puzzle.


                    A beginning teacher usually has no resources and has to develop from scratch. Many more experienced teachers often are not willing to share, simply because of a ranking system in school that encourages competition rather than cooperation. So, the quality of the notes may differ from teacher to teacher. Not all schools use standardized teaching materials across the board.

                    Even if a teacher is experienced, the teacher is very distracted. Admin work is just one part. There are department projects, CCA, competition, school plays, science projects, Action Research thesis/projects.

                    If you really want your child's teacher to improve dramatically on quality of teaching, talk to the principal and school leaders. Tell them to stop pressuring their teachers to do more in order to score points for promotion and performance bonus. Tell them to save the crap of 'all-rounded' education.

                    Everyone has the same 24 hours a day. If the teacher spends more time on CCA and other school projects, it simply means that the teacher will spend less time on marking, lesson preparation and remedial. In school, the phrase 'time management' simply means bring the work home to do.

                    Just for your info, turnover rate is high, despite outsiders envying teachers as having 'iron rice bowl'. If you want your school teachers to teach better so that you can spend less on tuition, then you need to apply pressure on the school leaders and get them to focus on teaching, and stop the wayang.

                    BTW, when Minister Heng said he wanted to focus more on moral education and less on results, it simply means teachers have to set aside more time to plan and draft more Civics Education lesson packages. There is no reduction in other workload. 🙂

                    As parents, you would ask yourself if the school system (including top primary and secondary) is so good, why do you need to spend so much on tuition still?

                    I hope I shed some light on what is happening on in the schools. Most teachers would really want to focus on teaching. But circumstances and higher powers decided otherwise.

                    That's very insightful, are you a teacher?

                    Let's just say I got a lot of inside info. 🙂

                    Key problem is that there are too many demands made on the same teacher. The demands can be met, but it means cutting on quality. Regardless of how much you pay teachers, teachers are humans, not God.

                    If you make someone do too many different things, quality has to go down because time is spread out more thinly over all the different matters. Time management can only help so much.

                    A less qualified tutor can often teach better than a more qualified teacher. The main reason is because the tutor needs only to focus on teaching, while for the teacher, teaching is only one of the many duties. And given the current trend in schools, it is gradually becoming not the most important duty anymore.

                    Most teachers I know of, personally or casual acquaintances, spend a lot more time on their CCA and various school projects than they do on marking and lesson preparation. So, kids have to fend for themselves more and more, or fork out money for tuition.

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                    • janet88J Offline
                      janet88
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                      Times have changed…education standards/expectations have increased tremendously. Even parents now are more demanding. Teachers are saddled with either project or CCA/admin work…they also have to teach several classes…how can kids go without tuition? Come exams, are the kids prepared if they do not have tutors??? Tutors can remember child’s weaknesses and target those areas…can a teacher possibly do that? She can’t…bcos her hands are full.

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                        rains
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                        Parents have every right to know what’s going on in order to provide support for their children, but questioning someone’s professionalism and competence is quite different from genuinely wanting to know what’s going on.


                        A friend told me that during a meet-the-parents session, a rude parent ‘asked’ him,"Is it because the teachers are very lazy, that’s why you all don’t do compos on a weekly basis?"

                        If you are a teacher and a parent tells that right into your face, would you think that’s a genuine question?

                        And she’s just a lowly-educated housewife.

                        I once heard a retired teacher say this:

                        In the past, teachers are gods;
                        Now, teachers are dogs.

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