Club FTWM

[sembgal]

If your husband studied full-time, he should at least work part-time to earn some expense for himself. He can’t be stretching out his hand for pocket money. A woman should never allow a man to control her spending or control her money. Either the man has low self-esteem or the woman has low self-esteem. Working full-time is so tiring, not to mention going back home to your household to do chores and take care of the kid. It’s too taxing, stressful and either you stopped doing the unnecessary chores and leave it till weekends or get a part time domestic helper to help u out. Do not neglect your child. Spend more time with the child. Time flies. If your husband studies full-time, can he commit that he will not go astray with his classmate and develop an affair. After all, a working woman and a student husband have different priorities. Issues and differences have to be ironed out now before any decision is to be made.

[TheAnswer]

Sometimes I really wonder how many sons I have. I have 2 sons. 1 currently 34 and the other currently 7 going 8.

[vinegar]

my dh was in engineering,then he wanted to explore career in banking.He quit his job n went for studies full time.


despite he has the qualification,he doesn’t hv experience,couldn’t find any job in banking.So he has no choice but to switch bk to eng.

what made him choose acct?

[TheAnswer]

sembgal:

If your husband studied full-time, he should at least work part-time to earn some expense for himself. He can't be stretching out his hand for pocket money. A woman should never allow a man to control her spending or control her money. Either the man has low self-esteem or the woman has low self-esteem. Working full-time is so tiring, not to mention going back home to your household to do chores and take care of the kid. It's too taxing, stressful and either you stopped doing the unnecessary chores and leave it till weekends or get a part time domestic helper to help u out. Do not neglect your child. Spend more time with the child. Time flies. If your husband studies full-time, can he commit that he will not go astray with his classmate and develop an affair. After all, a working woman and a student husband have different priorities. Issues and differences have to be ironed out now before any decision is to be made.

If this happens, he will be thrown out. No second chances. I'm already against going back to studying because I have serious doubts he can manage accounting. Honestly, I do not understand why he cannot manage his stress.
Housework, we have part time helper but it isn't sufficient.

[TheAnswer]

vinegar:

my dh was in engineering,then he wanted to explore career in banking.He quit his job n went for studies full time.


despite he has the qualification,he doesn't hv experience,couldn't find any job in banking.So he has no choice but to switch bk to eng.

what made him choose acct?

His dear sister whom he adores. He still meets his married sister once a week. Can you believe it?

[TheAnswer]

Vinegar, how long did your DH take to decide that he can’t find a banking job and he should go back to engineering?

[TheAnswer]

Sembgal, I spend time with my son daily before I go to work. Try to coach him with his studies and play with him.

[sembgal]

Accounting is stressful and if he can’t take stress, how is he going to cope during month end closing reports etc?

[sembgal]

TheAnswer:

Sembgal, I spend time with my son daily before I go to work. Try to coach him with his studies and play with him.

Don't you start work in the morning?

[vinegar]

haha…i only meet my brother once per "year".not very close wf my brother ever since i married.


Hmm…i’ve frds in accounting…work late all the times.Most of them r still single.

He nid to seriously considers his personality n interests b4 making career decisions.Suggest him to read up on wat he might expect fr. life as accountant,such as working hour,pays,social life(none?),work environment(stressful n fast paced?)

this morning,i just highlighted to my dh if he wanted to switch job(coz he finds his current job very stressful),make sure if he finds out more abt the job b4 deciding to take it up.