Zen 禅悟人生 -My way of Seeking a Balance life

[dolphinsiah]

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生气时，绝对不开口讲超过三句话

当一个人生气时，往往会失去理智，意气用事，讲出来的大多是'气话'，甚至是'错话'，'脏话'……，到时不免坏了事！所以，为了不让怒气坏了正事，在生气的时候，克制自己少说话！

人在生气的时候，多半是讲不出什么\"好\"话的！与其等到伤了人，误了事，赔了形象……后，再来懊悔，还不如早些选择默然不语。

　　人，要懂得\"说话\"的艺术，更要有\"不说话\"的自制力，如果您不确定自己在生气之时还能否勒得住自己的舌头，那么，干脆暂时闭口，少说几句吧！

[cimman]

dolphinsiah:

cimman:

well, my way of seeking a Balance Life is to login to Kiasuparents forum in the wee hours of the morning. Works very well for me and I'll balance it off with 2 jugs of coffee in the morning.

Just Curious ...you are a Night Owl or a Early Riser?

Me ...I am a Early Riser...my day start before 4am....
Like a farmer.....

Have a great Weekend.... :xedfingers:

I'm a late person. Just so happens I'm currently in a different timezone.

[osim]

dolphin,


I have wanted to wake up at 4am for a long time but just couldn't. How do you do it? It is very nice to experience the break of day, the daylight slowly coming on and that feeling of a new beginning, a new day.

But then hor, it's also very nice to stay up late. Lately, I take some Melatonin to help me sleep earlier but after sleeping earlier, still cannot wake up earlier :stupid:

[CloudeeDaz]

dolphinsiah:

cimman:

well, my way of seeking a Balance Life is to login to Kiasuparents forum in the wee hours of the morning. Works very well for me and I'll balance it off with 2 jugs of coffee in the morning.

Just Curious ...you are a Night Owl or a Early Riser?

Me ...I am a Early Riser...my day start before 4am....
Like a farmer.....

Have a great Weekend.... :xedfingers:

hihi
Just curious....what time do you go to bed?

[cimman]

CloudeeDaz:

dolphinsiah:

[quote=\"cimman\"]well, my way of seeking a Balance Life is to login to Kiasuparents forum in the wee hours of the morning. Works very well for me and I'll balance it off with 2 jugs of coffee in the morning.

Just Curious ...you are a Night Owl or a Early Riser?

Me ...I am a Early Riser...my day start before 4am....
Like a farmer.....

Have a great Weekend.... :xedfingers:

hihi
Just curious....what time do you go to bed? [/quote]some people just needs 5 hours of sleep. I can do that for a few days, but not on a long term basis. Maybe dolphin is like that.

[dolphinsiah]

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价值观

成功同心圆的中心是价值观，这也是判断一个人能否取得成功的最重要的标准。

价值观是人生的基石，是成功的前提。

　　拥有正确的价值观意味着一个人可以在大是大非的问题上做出正确的抉择（KNOW RIGHT FROM WRONG），意味着他是一个有道德、讲诚信、负责任的人，是一个值得信赖、值得托付 的人。
　　

[dolphinsiah]

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你是一个宽容的人吗？

宽容是一种修养，一种处变不惊的气度，一种坦荡，一种豁达。
宽容自己，也许就不会自卑，也许就不会自伤；
宽容他人，也许就不会苛求，也许就不会挑剔，也许就开始学会理解和聆听；
宽容他人，就是解放自己，还心灵一份纯净。
宽容是一种非凡的气度、宽广的胸怀，是对人对事的包容和接纳。

[dolphinsiah]

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~幸福不是因为拥有的多，而是计较的少~

幸福源于内心的简约。
只有内心简约，幸福才会降临，
欲望过度，只会徒增烦恼。

简单使人宁静，宁静使人幸福。
简单宁静的人，才能拥有持久的幸福。

[dolphinsiah]

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人生态度：

不要抄近道,否则会白跑.
不要绕远道,否则会迟到.
不要走邪道,否则会坐牢.
不要走黑道，否则会挨刀。
不要只想要，付出不能少。
不要急着要，一定要戒躁。
不要求回报，该到自然到。
不要急得到，心静便无恼。
不要怕人笑，看谁笑到老。
不要装知道，不懂就请教。
不要放大炮说话要可靠

[dolphinsiah]

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最幸福的人不是拥有一切，而是把一切当是最好.

拥有不一定非要将鸟儿关在笼子中，并非一定要将动物变为食物，并非一定要将缓慢的树木能量转化为快速的树木能量，这些都无异于杀鸡取卵。

最好的拥有就是去用心收藏，用爱关心，用智慧保护，如此将比你真正的拥有更加真切，因为永远要比短暂真切的多。

It is not Happy People who are Thankful.
It is Thankful People who are Happy. :xedfingers: