No Problem is problem

[Angelight]

Hi Janet,


Why not you try creating some personal time with your hubby away from the kids? Like a date-night or a heart-to-heart chat just b4 bedtime? Sometimes men can also be so caught up with daily work routines and providing for the family that romance and intimacy flew out of the window. Men are such problem solver (bringing home the bacon) that romance may not rank high in their life and they have to be reminded.

[buds]

Sun_2010:

Eagle-Ladybird:

[quote=\"autumnbronze\"]
I mean, yeah, he does the \"I love you babe\" but hardly ever reveals how much.

Wow, must also mention intensity ?? :shock:

OK, wifey, I love You, 266kW !! HID xenon beam :lol:

Aarrrgghhhh!
Men I tell ya!! :x

Ok laydeez, lets define units of love for them Martians.... :|[/quote]Heyya Sun_2010, i'm pulling out hairs with this one as well. :frustrated:
Men, i tell ya! :roll: Xenon-beams and what nots.. http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys.php

They like their women to 'teh' them sometime here and there feel that
their efforts are appreciated... and yet... aaarrggh.. http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys.php

Autumnbronze, i get the i love you babe too.. as for the intensity, i'd
rather he \"show\" me rather than tell me.. :evil:

Sun_2010... guess some eagle out there needs to be whipped by moi
and be permanently changed into that ladybird after all! http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys.php

Meeeeowwrrgh! http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys.php

You know i love ya right, Eagle-Ladybird? http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys.php

[autumnbronze]

buds:

Autumnbronze, i get the i love you babe too.. as for the intensity, i'd
rather he \"show\" me rather than tell me.. :evil:

Same sentiments la dear :hi5:

We do have intense games nites, like ya :evil: :evil:

Thats why I conceded later on that I shd find something else better to do nxt time and that I asked for it.

Haiz, I was, how can I put it, emotionally 'heated up' at the moment after reading 3boys' post lah ....

[buds]

duriz:

Now we are back to holding hands.

Yep.. Hubs now just declares directly...
\"Can i just hold mummy's hand today
while you hold your sister's? I just
want to hold my wife's hand today
can?\"

At which the two dd's will give each
other the usual :evil: nudge..Geez..
it's just holding hands. :roll: :lol:

[autumnbronze]

buds,



I LURRRRRVE your emoticons :rahrah: :rahrah:

[buds]

autumnbronze:

Same sentiments la dear :hi5:


We do have intense games nites, like ya :evil: :evil:

:evil:

:hi5:

autumnbronze:

Thats why I conceded later on that I shd find something else better to do nxt time and that I asked for it.

I hear ya girl.. :lol:

The key words in the earlier postings were : \"with nothing better to do... :laugh: Isn't it?

autumnbronze:

Haiz, I was, how can I put it, emotionally 'heated up' at the moment after reading 3boys' post lah ....

I was too. So i totally feel ya girl.. http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys.php

3Boys may not realize that his words doesn't fall on deaf ears of us
learning housewifeys... his words make emotional impact when you
take time to truly read between the lines. I mean, like how not to be
or get emotional when you hear him saying how intensely he loves
his wife? The lucky chick.. :celebrate: This toast for you, Mrs3Boys. :lol:

Now, still waiting for 3Boys to share some tips from his wrap-around-pinky
manual... :please:

[buds]

Autumnbronze and LKVM... i LUUUURRRRVE them too!


Emoticons are a fantastic way to express how i'm
actually feeling typing all these feeling postings. :lol:

[3Boys]

buds:

3Boys may not realize that his words doesn't fall on deaf ears of us
learning housewifeys... his words make emotional impact when you
take time to truly read between the lines. I mean, like how not to be
or get emotional when you hear him saying how intensely he loves
his wife? The lucky chick.. :celebrate: This toast for you, Mrs3Boys. :lol:

Now, still waiting for 3Boys to share some tips from his wrap-around-pinky
manual... :please:

Urrr......pay attention to the simple stuff ladies. Men are simple folk, turned on by a few things :evil:

All the tricks you used you used whilst courting, well, dust them off....

Also, you know the adage about women hitting their s....l prime in middle age, let me tell ya, its all true... :drool:

C'mon, take some time out for yourself, get your hair done, start an exercise program, eat well. Feel good about yourself, start looking good. Sorry if it is a little superficial, and obviously this is not all there is, for a loving relationship requires other pieces as well, but this is important.

Another, the was a blog article about the 5 Love Languages. It is a good read and worth paying attention to. Sometimes what we do seems to miss the mark with our spouse, because we react to and perceive things differently. I ran through it with my wife and I have to say it has made moderate impact, so I recommend it.

Intensity of Love? Measures by Cs, as in something that rhymes with an orange coloured conical root.....

[Angelight]

Good sharing, 3Boys!


And thanks for recommending my blog article on the 5 Love Languages. DH and I benefitted from it and I thot I should share it on KSP Forum. Good stuff must share share rite?

[DesertWind]

3Boys:

C'mon, take some time out for yourself, get your hair done, start an exercise program, eat well. Feel good about yourself, start looking good. Sorry if it is a little superficial, and obviously this is not all there is, for a loving relationship requires other pieces as well, but this is important..

Hear, hear, 3Boys!
Yeh, this is my challenge, to look good!
Somehow my hair perm gets out-dated really fast and after colouring, soon the colour changed or out-grow and hair looks bad again! Sigh....! No time to go hair-dresser too!

Also, I desperately need a tailor to tailor clothes that looks good on me. Necklines that fit me best are those square-neck types but you won't believe how difficult it is to get ready-made ones! Anybody with a good and reliable tailor to recommend please let me know!

As for putting on make-up, yes, I diligently do it daily but lets just say it is more to make sure I maintain my image at work (so that boss won't see me and think of me as passe or \"over the hill\" or \"no longer\" young and put me on the chopping board). Yeh, I know I should do it for my hubby but that's what I am driven by lor... :oops:

Every morning my husband will peck me on my cheek before leaving for work. I can't peck him back with lipstick on so I try to do it other times at home.
It is an effort yes but heart-warming to the recipient so lets do it! :love: