How would you react?

[qms]

KoalaMummy:

it doesn't matter what question. what i m puzzled is why a person can give 2 different answer/account to the same question.


does it mean that she prefers to the person to you? if you were there at the scene, how would you react to it? walk away or listen anyway.

If the other person is someone higher in the hierarchy than your friend, then your friend is probably polishing apple.

If the other person is asking about personal issue, then, perhaps your friend prefers to talk to the other person?

Just stay and listen, if you are interested, and clarify with your friend thereafter. If you are not bothered with how your friend feels, just walk away.

[hquek]

KoalaMummy:

Imp75:

what kind of question and what kind of answer are you expecting?

If you don't feel satisfied by the answer and still feel baffled, then probe more to get your answer?

it doesn't matter what question. what i m puzzled is why a person can give 2 different answer/account to the same question.

does it mean that she prefers to the person to you? if you were there at the scene, how would you react to it? walk away or listen anyway.

Actually a lot boils down to the question asked. It could be:

1. that person think you already have the answers, so nonid to say so much;

2. that person think you are not keen on her answer, so again, nonid to say so much;

3. that person prefer the other person, so didn't say much to you.

Although since you are around the whole time, if she was showing favour, then shouldn't she have directed the other fella away before giving her the whole load? :?

[ChiefKiasu]

KoalaMummy:

How would you react if you ask a friend something and she give u a short reply? But when your other friend came and ask her the same question, she told her a lot of details. And you are also present then, how do you react to it?

I will say \"Oi! Lu kwa limpeh no up arh?\"

[penglee]

why bother about what your \"friend\" say :roll:

We got other things to worry about

Your friend can say whatever she want, but u decide what u prefer to hear

[peterch]

:?


I think 2 different persons will not have identical answer, short answer or long answer

[buds]

ChiefKiasu:

KoalaMummy:

How would you react if you ask a friend something and she give u a short reply? But when your other friend came and ask her the same question, she told her a lot of details. And you are also present then, how do you react to it?

I will say \"Oi! Lu kwa limpeh no up arh?\"

I honestly cannot imagine myself hearing or seeing you say that in person. :faint:

You not scared later peeper \"really\" see you no up arh?

[jedamum]

KoalaMummy:

How would you react if you ask a friend something and she give u a short reply? But when your other friend came and ask her the same question, she told her a lot of details. And you are also present then, how do you react to it?

if the 'other friend' is a closer friend to that friend, then i probably brush it off that she is not comfy talking to me.

[kiddo]

ChiefKiasu:

KoalaMummy:

How would you react if you ask a friend something and she give u a short reply? But when your other friend came and ask her the same question, she told her a lot of details. And you are also present then, how do you react to it?

I will say \"Oi! Lu kwa limpeh no up arh?\"

Wat u talking boss :shock:

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

good one Chief :nunchuk:

[blueblue]

or could it be that u were asking the question at the wrong time? ppl hv moods…sometimes I juz feel I want to hv some quiet time and will only give a short and quick reply…


however if this happens to u all the time, most probably she doesn’t want to share info with u…

[mrswongtuition]

My hub’s group of friends, got one of their wife is like that.

If person A ask her, she give short reply.
If I ask her, she will tell me more.

Person A got offended and asked me why she tell me so much more but never tell her.
All my hubs told her was, "My wife is professional sweet talker. She is trained to sweet talk ppl to give info. How you think she manage to milk so much info from her students that even parents don’t know about? Don’t feel bad. You want to learn, you can ask her to teach you."