In-law problems?

[buds]

She is. :roll:


You should read from the beginning of this thread.
Yes, from Pg 1. :lol: Then, you'll know how i've
suffered... how my marriage has suffered from
all her nastiness and unnecessary interventions.

Aniwaes, we just shifted abt a mth ago to our own
place after 10 years. I'm lovin' it... :love:

Your hubby is so sweet and understanding. I'm
with #3 coming, my hubs will be more understanding.

[jasmineong]

I started reading and am still reading…it really sounds like a soap opera…I did not read till the part that your DH started to stand up for you, did it happen? I really really appreciate my own MIL and hubbie after reading your story. But now that you have moved out, I believe things will be much better!! I really could not believe it when you wrote about the incident about the cat fur and the one when she took your child out from the ‘blue light’. Aiyoo, my heart really aches when i read that!

[janet88]

I envy those wives who have loving and protective hubbies…protecting them from crazy sisters-in-law or their mothers.

[kiasume]

WOW! When I read all the MIL and SIL problem really freak me out. Thank goodness I did not have that.


In contrary, nobody will ever believe that my own mother and sister are like that towards me. :!:

[janet88]

Really sian. Thank goodness I stay in the opposite part of Singapore from her. BUT still there is handphone which can irritate me. Anyway, I just stay arms length…to stay sane and avoid picking up calls from crazy people.

[3Boys]

kiasume:

In contrary, nobody will ever believe that my own mother and sister are like that towards me. :!:

Heh, my wife gets along better with my sis than her own sister.

[janet88]

3Boys:

kiasume:

In contrary, nobody will ever believe that my own mother and sister are like that towards me. :!:

Heh, my wife gets along better with my sis than her own sister.

You lucky guy. Hubby's sister bullies him all the time. After we got married, she has no more privilege to do so. Told hubby if she doesn't learn have manners, I am going to teach her.

[kiasume]

3Boys:

kiasume:

In contrary, nobody will ever believe that my own mother and sister are like that towards me. :!:

Heh, my wife gets along better with my sis than her own sister.

Yeah! I have a good relationship with my in laws, BIL and SIL. We even travel together. We don't gossip each other.

As for my own mum and sis, I rest my case. Tension brew especially after my sis manged to get preggie and that is when hell breaks out. Jealousy starts to brew. I was in such a difficult situation that I developed depression after birth.

Now I just stay away from them, as I had enough of them. That was my brother advise to me.

If need be, better don't meet. It was so peaceful when I was like that back then in my early marriage w/o kids then.

While I am typing away, I just felt sad that I never have a good relationship with my mum despite me being the one who always help out the household chores in my younger days. I don't know why she hates me so much, other than she mentioned to me so many times that I look \"sickening\". Always reminding her of her SIL!

Can't imagine a mother saying that to her own child. I was only 5 years old.

[kiasume]

Anybody has this problem of sharing maid? My advise.....NEVER NEVER EVER SHARE MAID.


My sis suggested sharing maid when she knows that I am preggie. Keep asking me who will look after the child once I have given birth. I was thinking....wow! My sis is getting nicer to me already eh. So I thought might as well. Since I am the kind who don't really plan ahead.

Things got bad when she returns to work. Everyday after work, she will secretly asked the maid \"what's going on at home\". The maid told her that I let her child cry and cry and did not even go and attend to him. Can you believe it that she actually believes the maid! So that is how my sis started to think that I \"ill-treat\" her son.

When in actual fact, it is po po who does that to her child.

The maid also one kind, starts to come up with her story almost everyday.

Worse, she even told the maid to look after her son only. She started to shout at her and throws her weight around. Of course the maid listen to her lah.

When the maid was about to board the plane (she does not want to extend anymore), she actually called my handphone from the airport. She confessed everything to me and apologised for stirring up the problem. BOY! How mad I was with her. I told her to \"FUXX off\" and I hang her up. :!:

It was all too late.

I will never ever call her \"sis\". Because I never had one in the first place.
:faint:

[autumnbronze]

kiasume:

While I am typing away, I just felt sad that I never have a good relationship with my mum despite me being the one who always help out the household chores in my younger days.

You are not alone, dear :hugs:

If you need to talk, here's where you can unburden your woes

http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?p=143202#143202