In-law problems?

[buds]

Agree! :celebrate:

[auntieM]

Funz:

hapydino:

MIL brought my DD to the altar to pray to FIL and she forgot my gal's name!! :x

:idea: Early stages of Alzheimers? Actually, choy choy choy.

Nevermind lah. Better than calling your DD by pet names that can make your hair stand.

My ILs never get my DS's name right since day 1.. ..
Always end up with the 'darling darling' thingy... ...
My hair not only stand.. ...break into two.. :x

[bigsnoopy]

Hi all, me too have MIL problems ever since my DD was born. Different opinion in rasing the child and now we are not on talking terms.

[auntieM]

YKVT:

Hi all, me too have MIL problems ever since my DD was born. Different opinion in rasing the child and now we are not on talking terms.

You can release some steam by 'ranting' here.. ...

[KSmom8]

YKVT:

Hi all, me too have MIL problems ever since my DD was born. Different opinion in rasing the child and now we are not on talking terms.

Yes, have MIL and SIL problems since I was pregnant with first child. My SIL is unmarried but thinks that she is qualified to give advice on children. Have had cold wars with MIL, so now even though we are on cordial terms, she usually watches what she says and does, for fear that she won't get to see her grandchildren that so often. Am quite the bad DIL. :oops: However, sometimes especially after we meet too often (like during CNY), my MIL and SIL will revert to their old ways and pass remarks to me or my hubby... that make my blood boil. I usually retaliate by not seeing them much after that... how to keep a smiley face when I meet them when I am boiling inside :x

[janet88]

KSmom8:

YKVT:

Hi all, me too have MIL problems ever since my DD was born. Different opinion in rasing the child and now we are not on talking terms.

I usually retaliate by not seeing them much after that... how to keep a smiley face when I meet them when I am boiling inside :x

I really salute you for holding a smiley face despite boiling inside.
My face colour would in somewhat charcoal if they pass any comments to me, esp that sickening SIL who thinks she is damn filial.

[hapydino]

Example


My gal is Ping Guo (Apple)

She carried her, went to the altar, and goes 'Ye Ye bao you (bless) er… er… Mang Guo (Mango)…

got 1 character wrong… and den goes Mango Mango a few times…

only ONE grand-daughter and she cannot be bothered to remember her name…

[bigsnoopy]

KSmom8:

YKVT:

Hi all, me too have MIL problems ever since my DD was born. Different opinion in rasing the child and now we are not on talking terms.

Yes, have MIL and SIL problems since I was pregnant with first child. My SIL is unmarried but thinks that she is qualified to give advice on children. Have had cold wars with MIL, so now even though we are on cordial terms, she usually watches what she says and does, for fear that she won't get to see her grandchildren that so often. Am quite the bad DIL. :oops: However, sometimes especially after we meet too often (like during CNY), my MIL and SIL will revert to their old ways and pass remarks to me or my hubby... that make my blood boil. I usually retaliate by not seeing them much after that... how to keep a smiley face when I meet them when I am boiling inside :x

Now I have phobia in having another child. For me, it is an obligation to bring DD to my IL place for half a day every week and if we were to go on a holiday, we have to make up for that week using another day.

[janet88]

YKVT:

KSmom8:

[quote=\"YKVT\"]Hi all, me too have MIL problems ever since my DD was born. Different opinion in rasing the child and now we are not on talking terms.

I usually retaliate by not seeing them much after that... how to keep a smiley face when I meet them when I am boiling inside :x

Now I have phobia in having another child. For me, it is an obligation to bring DD to my IL place for half a day every week and if we were to go on a holiday, we have to make up for that week using another day.[/quote]How do you bring your daughter to in-law's place when you are not on talking terms ? Must be very hard on you to suffer half a day.
This mother-daughter in law issue is a never-ending thing.

[bigsnoopy]

janet_lee88:

YKVT:

[quote=\"KSmom8\"]
I usually retaliate by not seeing them much after that... how to keep a smiley face when I meet them when I am boiling inside :x

Now I have phobia in having another child. For me, it is an obligation to bring DD to my IL place for half a day every week and if we were to go on a holiday, we have to make up for that week using another day.

How do you bring your daughter to in-law's place when you are not on talking terms ? Must be very hard on you to suffer half a day.
This mother-daughter in law issue is a never-ending thing.[/quote]My DH will pick my DD from CC and bring my DD to my IL house from afternoon to at night then they will sent my DD back home. And it does not just end there. Sometimes during PH, they also request (ask my DH of course) my DD to go over to their house for the whole day.