In-law problems?

[LOLMum]

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One thing they never learn is basic hygiene. This woman who displays her used sanitary pad is a NURSE.

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LKVM:

sall:

One thing they never learn is basic hygiene. This woman who displays her used sanitary pad is a NURSE.

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Doing this while my MIL sitting here and yakking away and she did it while interrupting my DS who was asking me some work. CHAMPION!!!!

[janet88]

cwc:

Angelight:

janet, your spoilt BIL sounds like mine too. MIL also spoilt him and his wife rotten, as a result the 2 of them have no respect or regards for DH (his bro) and me. :roll:

[quote=\"janet_lee88\"]Hi cwc,
She gave eldest SIL and myself a damn hard time before we got married.
For youngest son, she doesn't involve and that fella goes scot free for everything. So that fella is a damn spoilt brat and totally lacks manners.

Hey, same fate here. But sometimes I think the 'resentment' arose all becos' of MIL mishandling of the situation.[/quote]That spoilt brat takes my hubby as his beck and call...and my stupid hubby here allows it. Old lady takes joy creating misunderstandings between her sons and DILs. Hubby & I quarrelled often after our wedding.

[sall]

cwc:

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Doing this while my MIL sitting here and yakking away and she did it while interrupting my DS who was asking me some work. CHAMPION!!!!

How you tahan all her yakking??

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sall:

cwc:

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Doing this while my MIL sitting here and yakking away and she did it while interrupting my DS who was asking me some work. CHAMPION!!!!

How you tahan all her yakking??

Behave like teens.....耳边风
I already have no solution, despite telling her off numerous times, simply ignore. Anyway, like DH says, she has very low EQ....think she quite used to it, her sons do it to her quite frequently. But just dun tell her off, that she'll get pissed and react more. I just kena last month.

[janet88]

Hi cwc,

It’s really hard to deal with a MIL with low EQ. If low IQ, it would be easier. At this point, I’m stressed with son’s exams and just couldn’t be bothered with the ‘package’ which just returned from US.

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janet_lee88:

Hi cwc,

It's really hard to deal with a MIL with low EQ. If low IQ, it would be easier. At this point, I'm stressed with son's exams and just couldn't be bothered with the 'package' which just returned from US.

Concentrate on son more important With so much training，wonder next time can we achieve 慧根, oh弥陀佛

[janet88]

cwc:

janet_lee88:

Hi cwc,

It's really hard to deal with a MIL with low EQ. If low IQ, it would be easier. At this point, I'm stressed with son's exams and just couldn't be bothered with the 'package' which just returned from US.

Concentrate on son more important With so much training，wonder next time can we achieve 慧根, oh弥陀佛

Son more important anytime...after all, it's her same old crap.

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janet_lee88:

Hi cwc,
2 of them cause enough problems...another maid added on means 3 sets of PROBLEMS. :?:

Hi Janet,
my 3rd set of problem has reached new level liao.....both are accusing each other more & more. Just yesterday, both dunno do what and made my DD cried while I was out. Then both keep trying to take me to a corner & whisper & blame each other. Xiong.

Today, basin stuck....straightaway MIL accused Maid never do good job last week & showed me her pail which was rather clear.....actually maid cleared a lot the other day, I witnessed. MIL rant and rant until DH stopped her. Then still curse and swear under her breath for quite a while....irritating.

Think at the rate it goes....it'll escalate soon. All my previous maid.....every time ~6 months they will start asking to quit.

[sall]

cwc, your tolerance level is very high. :salute: