In-law problems?
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I am having problem with my sister in law…my mother in law & father in law has always side her…
My parents in law have talk bad about me to my husband, say i dislike her to come to our house…but it true lah…
she has purposely move to stay beside us…everytime find opportunity to make herself exist…like talking loud outside…scare ppl dun know she back…act innocent…as if she is a caring person like she asked the whole family want to eat bird nest or not…but except me… -
garam:
Your in-laws will definitely side their own daughter. After all, blood is thicker than water.I am having problem with my sister in law...my mother in law & father in law has always side her....
My parents in law have talk bad about me to my husband, say i dislike her to come to our house...but it true lah...
she has purposely move to stay beside us....everytime find opportunity to make herself exist..like talking loud outside...scare ppl dun know she back...act innocent...as if she is a caring person like she asked the whole family want to eat bird nest or not...but except me...
As for shifting to stay next to you, well, at least they never move in to stay with you. Just pretend you didn't hear her when she talks loudly outside your flat. She must be an attention-seeker, so don't give her the attention she wants. -
garam:
I hate my sil too. She has no respect for me and exploits her own parents. No consideration for other people only her own interest.I am having problem with my sister in law...my mother in law & father in law has always side her....
My parents in law have talk bad about me to my husband, say i dislike her to come to our house...but it true lah...
she has purposely move to stay beside us....everytime find opportunity to make herself exist..like talking loud outside...scare ppl dun know she back...act innocent...as if she is a caring person like she asked the whole family want to eat bird nest or not...but except me... -
mummy of 2:
Yes, hate my SIL too. She thinks she damn smart and very filial.
I hate my sil too. She has no respect for me and exploits her own parents. No consideration for other people only her own interest.garam:
I am having problem with my sister in law...my mother in law & father in law has always side her....
she has purposely move to stay beside us....everytime find opportunity to make herself exist..like talking loud outside...scare ppl dun know she back...act innocent...as if she is a caring person like she asked the whole family want to eat bird nest or not...but except me...
Has no bloody manners (sorry) and has no respect. She better not come back to Singapore...since marry angmoh, stay there FOR GOOD. -
wooooo…I am considered lucky then…only has 2 irritating old fellas, no SIL to add fuel. Phew.
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janet_lee88:
Wish I can just let go....but they in my house.....
Report police no use...if kena fine, the MIL will sob buckets and get everyone to pity her...in the end the SON will have to pay the fine.cwc:
ha ha.....DH just caught MIL red-handed ---->> spitting out of window. :evil:
He told her nicely not to but she tried changing topic, denied even!!! (DH ever told her off saying she's the biggest liar in the family, always lie and deny with eyes wide open. Anyway, DH just remind her she is behaving exactly like the FIL and yet she yell at him for doing it.
I washed my hands off his family bcos there is nothing I can do and they make me upset and spoil my day.
Let my hubby handle...I have meaningful things to do.
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sall:
Precisely. Last time, FIL does that, she has stacks of tissue placed next to window and a bin to let him spit into tissue then throw into bin ..... he din. Now she also same, god damn inconsiderate!!! She would also hang dripping wet clothes out loh. There's a whole list of things that I cannot stand....feel like listing them down and see who can relate
So disgusting! The sink is just nearby, why is she so mean and selfish?cwc:
ha ha.....DH just caught MIL red-handed ---->> spitting out of window. :evil:
He told her nicely not to but she tried changing topic, denied even!!! (DH ever told her off saying she's the biggest liar in the family, always lie and deny with eyes wide open. Anyway, DH just remind her she is behaving exactly like the FIL and yet she yell at him for doing it.
Can I report police?
Maybe you let us know your block number, so we won't walk near it.
Ya, very tempting to make a police report, then make her pay fine. But she may make your dh pay it.
My block now safer, last time FIL spit and throw cigarette butt....damn dangerous. Now only MIL spit.....FIL can only spit saliva and phelgm onto hand and fling at home. :yikes: :faint: -
sall:
she wanted to move in when she re-married that time..she been telling her mother & my hubby that she worried that can't find a place to rent...it me that I have a big fight saying no matter what she can't move in... then she got no choice...she approach my hubby 2x but i insist of not letting her move in as I can't believe wat she say...
Your in-laws will definitely side their own daughter. After all, blood is thicker than water.garam:
I am having problem with my sister in law...my mother in law & father in law has always side her....
My parents in law have talk bad about me to my husband, say i dislike her to come to our house...but it true lah...
she has purposely move to stay beside us....everytime find opportunity to make herself exist..like talking loud outside...scare ppl dun know she back...act innocent...as if she is a caring person like she asked the whole family want to eat bird nest or not...but except me...
As for shifting to stay next to you, well, at least they never move in to stay with you. Just pretend you didn't hear her when she talks loudly outside your flat. She must be an attention-seeker, so don't give her the attention she wants. -
janet_lee88:
Yes, hate my SIL too. She thinks she damn smart and very filial.
I hate my sil too. She has no respect for me and exploits her own parents. No consideration for other people only her own interest.mummy of 2:
[quote=\"garam\"]I am having problem with my sister in law...my mother in law & father in law has always side her....
she has purposely move to stay beside us....everytime find opportunity to make herself exist..like talking loud outside...scare ppl dun know she back...act innocent...as if she is a caring person like she asked the whole family want to eat bird nest or not...but except me...
Has no bloody manners (sorry) and has no respect. She better not come back to Singapore...since marry angmoh, stay there FOR GOOD.[/quote]Mine also married an angmo...@ least yours move to overseas...mine stay here.. she herself also act angmo....never drink boiled water only buy mineral water to drink...act class...she forgot she is a chinese.. -
Oooohhhh dear.....war outside while me in room.
DH has lost his cool......usually quite obliging to MIL, but guess he is stretched & upset. FIL has little time left & DH has requested one of his siblings to spend more time with the dad, not just 3 mins a week. Dunno how it went but suddenly heard raised voices and then banging and throwing of chopsticks which the sibling yelled \"I'm not eating already\" followed by banging of gate.
I dare not leave the room......only heard MIL again siding with the brat & scolding DH. DH fedup and told her off, that's how the brat is, been treated like king, cannot be 'scolded', totally spoilt by you. DH is finally giving her a piece of his mind, but alas, dun think her thick skull can think, probably now tearing away and heartache over her fav kid being 'treated badly and no food to eat'. Probably blaming DH now & maybe even turn her arrow to me cos' I have recently voiced out that she is too biased.
Wonder if I should really be the bad guy once FIL goes, refused to let her stay and send her over to the brat :scratchhead: :evil: MIL needs to learn her lesson, and if the brat treats her well, good for her, blessing in disguise to her then. If not, at the end, my door will still be re-opened.......but hope she'll realised her mistake and not become worse.
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