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    In-law problems?

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      auntieM
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      Willow:
      my MIL loves to give us stuff that she doesnt want anymore like:

      - dirty muddy slippers ( for me to use it in the bathroom...first time didnt know ...whole floor all muddy :yikes: )
      -her clothes which she thinks fits me ( :roll: i 'm not that old yet k)
      - fruits ( strongly hinting that i never feed my family fruits at all)
      - pillowcases tt are a tad too yellow for me ....
      etc etc
      sometimes i think she is trying to see how i will react only :roll:
      He..hee...MIL undergarments definitely not the 'glam' type.. :faint:
      Just received some expired $2.80 ringgit chinese cookies from her, all broken up in bits and pieces.. ...wondering why she needs to do that really :roll:

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        sall
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        Last time, my mil gave me fruits that are rotten or cannot be eaten. These fruits were on display at the altar table for 2 weeks. Then she packed and asked her filial son to gave me. When I showed him how rotten the fruits were and what she meant by giving me rotten fruits, he insisted that the dearest mom didn't know. :mad:

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          Willow
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          yeah, sometime she packs the leftover food on sunday ( when we go back)& start saying everyone must eat more fruit & fish cos throughout the week never eat a lot so poor thing ...... :mad:

          hello there....my cooking might not be look fantastic but it is nutrious food okay ( confirm got fish,greens,meat & fruits ! i have to tell her that without losing it everytime ) it's not like i starve them ....
          i myself barely touch her food every week....i just eat for show & finish...dun even want to eat her fish / deep fried meat/chicken wings/etc etc...( okay she's a great cook but i am not going to learn cooking from her, rather go to thr RC to learn) i just plain stubborn :oops:

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            auntieM
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            When I was pregnant my MIL gave me opened braised peanut from the fridge still in the tin.. ..In and out of the fridge don't know for how long liao.. ... :sad:

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              PrincessAriel
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              glup I don’t know how many people have MIL having overnight food heat up and eat the next day?

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                coolit
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                Mine too. Her food when given to me always not fresh.

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                  LOLMum
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                  PrincessAriel:
                  *glup* I don't know how many people have MIL having overnight food heat up and eat the next day?


                  what is wrong with heating up overnight food and eat it the next day :?

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                    PrincessAriel
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                    the most i dread is when the soup is not finished in a bowl, she will pour it back to the pot again. when i saw that, I told my hubby straight and no way, I allow my kids to drink that. It’s so unhygienic. Lucky, my hubby will shoot her so not so bad.

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                      sall
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                      LOLMum:
                      PrincessAriel:

                      *glup* I don't know how many people have MIL having overnight food heat up and eat the next day?



                      what is wrong with heating up overnight food and eat it the next day :?

                      I think it's all right if there is a serving spoon and it is hygienic. If everybody dips their chopsticks in and then suck their chopstick or lick their spoons and then take the food again, it is so gross and disgusting. :yikes:
                      I eat overnight food too. Normally, if there's any leftover noodle or fried rice, I'll eat them for breakfast the next day.

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                        Admummy
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                        How abt mil who practise favoritism? Unfortunately, you’re married to a less favored son of hers…so you’re the "less privileged dil" eg when CNY, mil will specially reserve good food for the "favorite" son’s potential girl friend (now dil), etc… This dil enjoy all the "first-class treatment…think if she gets pregnant, she’ll be served like Queen by mil…actually I’m not so much of jealous, just feel unjust and besides, this dil is not appreciative of mil effort at all (although appear to be sweet and thankful in front of her…how fake)!

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