In-law problems?

[Sunflower03]

SAHM Chew:

janet_lee88:

Wow, how do you do that? Staying together and yet have freedom to do own things. If I have to face them for 2 hours, my BP will shoot, especially with that spoilt brat daughter.

I just stay in my room :rahrah:

Even if we see each other, we just ignore each other. I am the bad DIL. But i cannot be bothered already. If not, i will have high BP everyday. And die earlier.

I am practising see no evil, hear no evil.
:rotflmao: just stayed in my room n watch my drama..... Better to have drama at home.

But will u still help in household chores? The other DIL of my mil, stay in her room n never help to do the chores. My mil keep grumble abt her.

[Sunflower03]

SAHM Chew:

janet_lee88:

Wow, how do you do that? Staying together and yet have freedom to do own things. If I have to face them for 2 hours, my BP will shoot, especially with that spoilt brat daughter.

I just stay in my room :rahrah:

Even if we see each other, we just ignore each other. I am the bad DIL. But i cannot be bothered already. If not, i will have high BP everyday. And die earlier.

I am practising see no evil, hear no evil.
:rotflmao: just stayed in my room n watch my drama..... Better to have drama at home.

But will u still help in household chores? The other DIL of my mil, stay in her room n never help to do the chores. My mil keep grumble abt her.

[SAHM Chew]

I will do my own chores, eg, clean up the kitchen after i cooked. My PIL do not eat the food i cooked and they packet everyday. I washed the clothes for myself n DH n 3 kids, iron our own clothes. Basically, we are living together, but not sharing household chores. We do our own chores. Anyway, i do not sit in living room n chit chat n watch tv, n my kids do not stay in living room too. Nothing in the living room belongs to us, so i do not maintain it too, as i do not want to mess or tidy up their things.


We are basically using our own area in the hse. As long as i keep my area clean, the rest, i do not bother. :rotflmao: if not, there are too many things that will shoot my bp up.

Sunflower03:

SAHM Chew:

[quote=\"janet_lee88\"]Wow, how do you do that? Staying together and yet have freedom to do own things. If I have to face them for 2 hours, my BP will shoot, especially with that spoilt brat daughter.

I just stay in my room :rahrah:

Even if we see each other, we just ignore each other. I am the bad DIL. But i cannot be bothered already. If not, i will have high BP everyday. And die earlier.

I am practising see no evil, hear no evil.
:rotflmao: just stayed in my room n watch my drama..... Better to have drama at home.

But will u still help in household chores? The other DIL of my mil, stay in her room n never help to do the chores. My mil keep grumble abt her.[/quote]

[janet88]

SAHM Chew,

It must really take a lot of patience and tolerance to do what you are doing. Stay under same roof and yet living separate lives. :salute:
You wash clothes and cook. They packet own food.

[buds]

SAHM Chew, i've been in your shoes before. :hugs: I can understand perfectly how it feels. I once told hubs that the house does not feel like home. I was sad when he said, \"It's not a home. It's just a house where everybody can have a roof over their heads.\" It's a *deal with it* diplomatic answer. I choked on my tears that day when he said that. That day was a few years ago but seems just like yesterday. Time heals all wounds? Think i need more time.


We now have our own HOME.
Not without a fight of course.
But i suppose it has been worth it.

[fightingmom]

buds:

SAHM Chew, i've been in your shoes before. :hugs: I can understand perfectly how it feels. I once told hubs that the house does not feel like home. I was sad when he said, \"It's not a home. It's just a house where everybody can have a roof over their heads.\" It's a *deal with it* diplomatic answer. I choked on my tears that day when he said that. That day was a few years ago but seems just like yesterday. Time heals all wounds? Think i need more time.


We now have our own HOME.
Not without a fight of course.
But i suppose it has been worth it.

Budsy, :hugs: !

And hey! Sexy catwoman is back, huh? :evil: :evil:

[mamago]

fightingmom:

buds:

SAHM Chew, i've been in your shoes before. :hugs: I can understand perfectly how it feels. I once told hubs that the house does not feel like home. I was sad when he said, \"It's not a home. It's just a house where everybody can have a roof over their heads.\" It's a *deal with it* diplomatic answer. I choked on my tears that day when he said that. That day was a few years ago but seems just like yesterday. Time heals all wounds? Think i need more time.


We now have our own HOME.
Not without a fight of course.
But i suppose it has been worth it.

Budsy, :hugs: !

And hey! Sexy catwoman is back, huh? :evil: :evil:

**Hugs** Budsy and Fightingmom. :hugs: :hugs:

[buds]

Many have requested the sequel...


The Return of Catwoman. :rotflmao:

So.....

Hope it didn't disappoint. :politebleah:

*hugs* back to both of ya. :hugs:

[SAHM Chew]

janet_lee88:

SAHM Chew,

It must really take a lot of patience and tolerance to do what you are doing. Stay under same roof and yet living separate lives. :salute:
You wash clothes and cook. They packet own food.

Janet, it takes a lot of effort to close both eyes. But what to do? DH n me do not take the same stand. Sometimes, i wonder y i am the one suffering? :faint:

[SAHM Chew]

buds:

SAHM Chew, i've been in your shoes before. :hugs: I can understand perfectly how it feels. I once told hubs that the house does not feel like home. I was sad when he said, \"It's not a home. It's just a house where everybody can have a roof over their heads.\" It's a *deal with it* diplomatic answer. I choked on my tears that day when he said that. That day was a few years ago but seems just like yesterday. Time heals all wounds? Think i need more time.


We now have our own HOME.
Not without a fight of course.
But i suppose it has been worth it.

Hi buds,

My house do not feel like a HOME too. But no matter how many fights we have, we will not have our own house as long as PIL are around. That is a true fact and i can not deny it. Even if i put up 1000 fights, the reality still remind. :sad:
Now, i just remind quiet n keep to myself :sad: nobody to pour my woes to. But luckily, i find this forum, if not, i will get mad.

Thanks to all the sis that are willing to hear my woes. :boogie: