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    • C Offline
      carebear
      last edited by

      ksi:
      Maybe you can ask them if they love daddy more or mummy more? If this is tough for them, it may help them to understand why it is tough for you.

      Yeap, ask already.
      They can't answer.

      So I told them \"gotcha\" 😆 !

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        Pen88n
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        Somedays I love you more, somedays I love her more, somedays I love daddy more, somedays I love myself more........... :oops: 😉

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          vlim
          last edited by

          Pen88n:
          Somedays I love you more, somedays I love her more, somedays I love daddy more, somedays I love myself more........... :oops: 😉

          I like your answer.... 😉

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            schweppes
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            carebear:

            They keep asking me who I love more and I always maintain my stand that I love them both equally, but they don't believe me.
            My 2 kids ask that of me all the time. I say that I love them both equally. But if they continue to bug me as to who I love most, then my reply is

            \"whoever annoys me the least\"

            They pretty much leave me alone for some peace and quiet after that. 😉

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              sleepy
              last edited by

              In the morning, when I spend time with dd2, I love dd2 more

              In the afternoon, when I spend time with dd1, I love dd1 more
              In the evening, when I spend time with dh, I love dh more

              dh also kanna same question. His answer is love mummy more 😆

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                kiddo
                last edited by

                ask DS my only child you love Daddy or Mommy more... :romance:


                he :scared:
                what a question 🦆
                😉 just pulling DS leg for a response ............
                a family is to love everyone in it no more and no less........ :hugs:

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                  cnimed
                  last edited by

                  carebear:

                  I have 2 kids, DS 14 years old and DD 12 years old.
                  DS thinks I love him more. 😄
                  DD thinks I love her more. 😄
                  wah, how do u do that?? Share share leh...

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                    zara30
                    last edited by

                    carebear:
                    For those with 2 or more kids, do your children think you show favouritism?

                    Does one kid think you love the other more?

                    I have 2 kids, DS 14 years old and DD 12 years old.
                    DS thinks I love him more. 😄
                    DD thinks I love her more. 😄

                    They keep asking me who I love more and I always maintain my stand that I love them both equally, but they don't believe me.


                    well i have 2 kids so does my MIL and my husband clearly thinks she loves his younger brother more (kind of evident)

                    I really hope all kids get equal love
                    from their family cos each child is so worth it!

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                      flyfree
                      last edited by

                      It is "very common for parents to practise favouritism" if they hv two or more kids. Sometimes parents themselves say they r "equally fair", but their actions/ words reflect the opposite.


                      Thanks to say, I have 1 child, I will be definitely 100% favouritism to my only child. haha…

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                        carebear
                        last edited by

                        deminc:
                        carebear:


                        I have 2 kids, DS 14 years old and DD 12 years old.
                        DS thinks I love him more. 😄
                        DD thinks I love her more. 😄

                        wah, how do u do that?? Share share leh...

                        Perhaps I treat them equally when it comes to scolding and pampering, so each think he/she is more loved than the other.

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