Catholic High (Primary)

[pecalis]

Last yr, we requested tt DS be put in the same group as a difficult/annoying boy. Form teacher was surprised but gladly obliged


When he gets upset with sisters, hubby made them sit on the bench of settlement to talk things out, share what is it that cause frustrations (without getting emotional or raising voice), learn to listen to the other party without interrupting, apologise for the wrong done, forgive the other party and make up. I find this method very useful but can be rather tedious. We will be somewhere nearby and listening to them. We'll step in to help settle if they are stuck and couldn't move on.

I also quarrel with DS, so sometimes also got to be on the bench of settlement, hee hee.

[morriselma]

my P1 son came home today to tell his mother he was punched in the chest and had his hair pulled after he picked up a ball in the parade square during his recess break. we taught him that if ever he got into such things, to tell them to stop. according to him, he did say stop, but he had to make a run for it just for it to end.


i’m trying to stay calm, but I need to ask what do you suggest I do? I tried calling the form teacher’s hp today, but no answer. Can I just go to school and ask about it? please advice

[syshi]

pecalis:

When he gets upset with sisters, hubby made them sit on the bench of settlement to talk things out, share what is it that cause frustrations (without getting emotional or raising voice), learn to listen to the other party without interrupting, apologise for the wrong done, forgive the other party and make up. I find this method very useful but can be rather tedious. We will be somewhere nearby and listening to them. We'll step in to help settle if they are stuck and couldn't move on.


I also quarrel with DS, so sometimes also got to be on the bench of settlement, hee hee.

not sure whether mine will work... Might end up physical fight cause once emotional high, all logic gone already... Normally will pull them aside till both cool down before letting them to talk to each other. By that time, both will feel sorry to each other...

[dreammom]

morriselma:

my P1 son came home today to tell his mother he was punched in the chest and had his hair pulled after he picked up a ball in the parade square during his recess break. we taught him that if ever he got into such things, to tell them to stop. according to him, he did say stop, but he had to make a run for it just for it to end.


i'm trying to stay calm, but I need to ask what do you suggest I do? I tried calling the form teacher's hp today, but no answer. Can I just go to school and ask about it? please advice

oh dear! Hope yr DS is okay. Is the upper primary boys? cos usually those upper primary boys will play with balls before assembly & during recess time. U can inform the tçher but i dun think they can do anything unless yr boy can recongnise the culprit. U may also tell yr DS to remember the name on the name tag & inform his form tçher immediately after the incident happen. For me, I told my DS to go down for assembly only after the bell rings..& stay in group during recess time to avoid bullies.

[syshi]

morriselma:

my P1 son came home today to tell his mother he was punched in the chest and had his hair pulled after he picked up a ball in the parade square during his recess break. we taught him that if ever he got into such things, to tell them to stop. according to him, he did say stop, but he had to make a run for it just for it to end.


i'm trying to stay calm, but I need to ask what do you suggest I do? I tried calling the form teacher's hp today, but no answer. Can I just go to school and ask about it? please advice

any culprit he can point to? If yes, can go all the way to the principal...

If not, you can only feedback to the form teacher for info... Need to tell him if such thing happened look for any teacher to run to... Else can run to the teacher room for help...

[JonC]

Every level has bully/bullies, not necessary from upper pri boys bullying lower pri boys.


My boy during his lower mid pri got bully during PE lesson right under the nose of teacher and teacher did not notice. Even my boy tell teacher, teacher also thought is children \"masa masa\" play play only. Sometime like this have to \"settle offline\". :evil:

Also that same year, same class, my boy's favourite toy kanna stolen. This time my boy (introvert) knows who the culprit and he got so angry until \"his hair caught fire\" and scolded the boy right in front of teacher. Lucky the teacher found the evidence hidden outside the classroom. There are eye witness in the class. How do I know, the teacher told us. I also use this opportunity to lecture my boy not to bring toys to school.

[Blessedmum]

morriselma:

my P1 son came home today to tell his mother he was punched in the chest and had his hair pulled after he picked up a ball in the parade square during his recess break. we taught him that if ever he got into such things, to tell them to stop. according to him, he did say stop, but he had to make a run for it just for it to end.


i'm trying to stay calm, but I need to ask what do you suggest I do? I tried calling the form teacher's hp today, but no answer. Can I just go to school and ask about it? please advice

Hi, my P1 Ds likes to play soccer with the older boys..... today he picked up launguage that is not too nice like 'kana sai'... i asked him whom he learnt it from, he said when he kicked the ball, the older one commented that.... I didn't feel good of cos. I told him not to join them in future since he wasn't welcome, but he likes the game..... what to do:(

[syshi]

This morning saw them playing… seems very rowdy… even when the ball rolled to the canteen, one of the boy just went there and kicked directly without bothering that a lot of people eating and walking in and out. Almost hit 1 boy and his mother…

[ooptimizer]

That’s the behaviour of boys normally…

[dreammom]

ooptimizer:

That's the behaviour of boys normally...

Yap...boys are all like dat...haiz...
Just have to tell our own DS to be careful & protect themselves.