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      micollh
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      peapot:
      Eventhough I may complain alot about my work but I still prefer working than staying at home. I realised I don't mean it when I say \"wow!! tai tai...wish I was one\" Just say for the sake of saying. I m really odd, I guess many would prefer not to work.

      i ever tried taking 2 weeks leave to stay at home with my DD (when she was much younger) and i swear i will not want to be a SAHM.. i feel it's very very tiring, worst than working, no rest time. u can only rest when our child is sleeping. and when u are at home u tend to \"over-stress\" by trying to do more things to entertain our kids, so ended up i was tired out. i feel when we work on weekdays, we some how balance out. we spend \"quality\" with them in the morning/evening/night/weekends, we will cherish more and we wont throw tantrum/shout at them that much cos u know kids sometimes drive us up the wall. i mean ceiling.. really.

      and u r not odd at all. we are very \"useful\" to the society, we contribute, we make sure our husband are not being burden, we help ourselfs to a better retirement with cpf and of course more MONEY in our account. i feel i still find it hard if i need to ask money from my husband for my meal.. i used to pay on my own, cos hey, i can afford it, why should i ask? muahah..

      and u may be surprised that many SAHM wanted to work but as they have no choice/choose to.. they stay home lor.. it's a choice.

      and im glad i choose to work be it FTWM or Part-TimeWM.

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        poppy15
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        how i wish to hv the luxury of workin part time & getting a full time pay... muahahahah... dream on.


        actually, working part time means i wld hv more time to surf KSP forum, :cheeky:
        donch nid to worry if boss will breathe down ur neck; :rant:
        donch hv to twist & turn ur head numerous time in case ur boss walk in all of a sudden :oops:

        but i agree what micollh said - being a SAHM can drive us up the ceiling, even away from planet earth if we hv a choice :roll:

        but again its up to the individual, choice or no choice. πŸ˜‰

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          tigger88
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          LKVM:
          poppy15:

          but i agree what micollh said - being a SAHM can drive us up the ceiling, even away from planet earth if we hv a choice :roll:

          Yes agree with u and micollh... i am quite happy being FTWM cause that gives me freedom to spend my money however i want :dancing: :imcool: :boogie:

          Totally agree...Though I would love to be a SAHM once in a while, i prefer to work as it gives me financial freedom and also some me time away from my kids to keep my sanity. :rahrah:

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            peapot
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            Not just having to look after the kids but also the need to face the maid!!! It will drive me crazy.

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              poppy15
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              LKVM:
              peapot:

              Not just having to look after the kids but also the need to face the maid!!! It will drive me crazy.


              oh yeah... i think every weekend i surely have one heaty discussion with her :nailbite:

              thot shd be arguement liao.. :lol:

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                poppy15
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                Happy \"Dumpling \" Festival to all mummies here πŸ˜„

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                  poppy15
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                  shout back in her heart lor..


                  my aunty's maid once kenna scolding by my aunt. yes she stand there, quiet, listening to my aunt :rant:

                  then afterwards my aunt went out.

                  the maid, as she was washing the dishes, suddenly cursed & swear. luckily she didnt break those bowl & plates.

                  i :siam: one side & retreat to my room.

                  after awhile, i saw the maid went into her room & start writing vigrously in her diary.

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                    tigger88
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                    poppy15:
                    shout back in her heart lor..


                    my aunty's maid once kenna scolding by my aunt. yes she stand there, quiet, listening to my aunt :rant:

                    then afterwards my aunt went out.

                    the maid, as she was washing the dishes, suddenly cursed & swear. luckily she didnt break those bowl & plates.

                    i :siam: one side & retreat to my room.

                    after awhile, i saw the maid went into her room & start writing vigrously in her diary.
                    Same like us lah...if we kana from our bosses, we cannot talk back, so we just rant elsewhere... :evil:

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                      poppy15
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                      tigger88:
                      poppy15:

                      shout back in her heart lor..


                      my aunty's maid once kenna scolding by my aunt. yes she stand there, quiet, listening to my aunt :rant:

                      then afterwards my aunt went out.

                      the maid, as she was washing the dishes, suddenly cursed & swear. luckily she didnt break those bowl & plates.

                      i :siam: one side & retreat to my room.

                      after awhile, i saw the maid went into her room & start writing vigrously in her diary.

                      Same like us lah...if we kana from our bosses, we cannot talk back, so we just rant elsewhere... :evil:

                      hehe, come into KSP forum & rant
                      (in the appropriate thread) :evil:

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                        tigger88
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