pirate:Notice how people can have doubts about the admission of a 13 year old, but have no doubt about the admission of a 6 year old. See how even when there is a CCTV recording, people can have doubts about whether a 13 yo molested a 12 yo, but have no doubt when it is alleged that a 6 yo molested another 6 yo.
A 13 yo is presumed to be innocent until proven guilty, while a 6 yo is presumed to be guilty until proven innocent.
It is wrong not to let a 13 yo attend some camp, but it is perfectly ok to suspend a 6 yo from childcare.
I have come to the conclusion that in a spat involving children, the one with parents who make the loudest and most emotive noises wins.
Not the same people and not the same situation.
One is admission to the IO who is a stranger to the 14yo, the other is admission to his childcare principal or teacher whom he should know well.
One has an eye witness, the other could be your word against my word (no doubt the police subsequently said that the CCTV recorded the act itself, but this wasn't clear at the start).
And one big difference, the parents of the 6yo have not bothered to check if he did it or not, and if he did, was it purely a plank or something more sinister as some are inclined to think. That's the missing link here. No one knows his side of the story, except that his preschool said he admitted to it.
I do, however, agree with you that a 6yo or a 8yo (if they aren't matured enough or intelligent enough, sorry to say this), could have very unreliable recollection of events, which makes their statements or admissions very unreliable. When asked leading questions, could give the kind of answers that the adult is looking for. (I am back to the old point where a minor should not have statements taken from him without the presence of someone whom the minor is familiar with).
I have personally witnessed an incident in my ds' childcare. I was hanging around after a celebration. Most parents had left; I hadn't as my ds was unwilling to remain in cc after the celebration, but I told him no one was free to look after him at home that day. He started playing some cars with 2 other children. Soon, a couple more children joined in and the original group of children had to share the cars around with each having 2 cars. One particular girl (A) liked a car that another girl (B) was holding, but B refused to give up that car. After some time, B wandered off, leaving her cars behind. Meanwhile, A took over the car that she liked. About 5 mins later, B returned. B wanted the car back but A refused to give to her. B tried to snatch it back and at this point, it was starting to get physical. I alerted a teacher who was nearby but speaking to a parent. She asked the 2 girls what had happened and guess what, B who was the one snatching the car, was very quick to say that A snatched her car. :roll: A, on the other hand, was not as eloquent and when the teacher told her nicely that she should not snatch her friend's toys, she just nodded silently.
By the way, these children are 4yo. But B is clearly the intelligent and more \"matured\" one while A is no match for B. :razz: