Principal of PCF Sparkletots is doing little to help the vic
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What do you suggest the principal should do or should be doing?
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Child psychiatrist or counsellor to step in.
http://www.channelnewsasia.com/news/singapore/children-in-alleged/2705416.html?cid=fbsg
Girl must have been badly traumatised!
Child molestor: A case of bad upbringing/parenting.
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Scary for a little boy to do such!
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I do not want to think that a 6yr old truly harbour those kind of urges and are truly aware of the implications of their actions.
It is scary if that is the case.
I have come across cases of inappropriate behaviours along such lines by pre-schoolers but mostly, they are one offs where the perpetrator is mirroring something that he/she has seen, be it from their family members or some inappropriate shows. -
With this happening, I feel that the boys and girls should be segregated during nap time (are they not?)
But that being said, same sex molest can also happen... -
I doubt that the boy even understands what the fuss is all about. I see a bunch of adults projecting their adult mentality to pre-schoolers.
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Based on that FB posting, it seemed deliberate action. The boy may have been doing what he saw. But if left unchecked, I am not sure what he will grow up to be. For sure, no one’s daughter/son should be the subject of such contact. 6 year old is young, but not all that young in these days.
Unfortunately it seemed to have taken social media to come into play before action was done. Not sure if I missed anything but I had impression the P wasn’t going to do anything further, and the mother was advised by our men in blue to transfer her kid out of the school. Do they not fear the same may happen to OTHER kids? -
limlim:
What do you suggest the principal should do or should be doing?
Can at least face the victim's parents and assure them investigations will be done and ensure them she'll follow-up the case instead of avoiding the parents? -
Nebbermind:
With this happening, I feel that the boys and girls should be segregated during nap time (are they not?)
But that being said, same sex molest can also happen...
Shower is segregated. Bio breaks too.
Same sex molest can happen, u bet! -
The boy may have to attend Play Therapy to ascertain his absurd behaviour. Some children who have complicated family background do not know how to express themselves in words or they may just imitate what they have seen happening at home. Help is definitely needed for both the boy and the girl. If the school let the boy stays, other girls may suffer same fate if the boy’s problem is not solved. Is better to isolate this boy for the time being.
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Society has changed so much....
I do not know whether it is right to make this comment...
The 'P' of this Childcare should have handled this case properly...
Unfortunately , we did not hear her side of the story.
Hope the 'P' Superior is able to resolve this issue...
Recall ! Many Donkey years ago... when DD attended Preschool , she suffered a bad CUT on her forehead....due to a naughty classmate snatching her LEGO...and smashing the LEGO on her forehead!
I was very devastated...rushed down....instead of my child crying non- stop...me as a young mother then was crying non -stop.... :scared:
But the Principal of that PCF ....handled the situation well ....getting both side of the parents to calm down in her office...
The Principal even followed up how my child was recovering from her forehead CUT.
Hope both side of Parents and the 'P\" will resolve this issue tactfully. -
hquek:
:goodpost:Based on that FB posting, it seemed deliberate action. The boy may have been doing what he saw. But if left unchecked, I am not sure what he will grow up to be. For sure, no one's daughter/son should be the subject of such contact. 6 year old is young, but not all that young in these days.
Unfortunately it seemed to have taken social media to come into play before action was done. Not sure if I missed anything but I had impression the P wasn't going to do anything further, and the mother was advised by our men in blue to transfer her kid out of the school. Do they not fear the same may happen to OTHER kids?
Totally agree with Hquek.
Think about it.
干‘案’时间/状况 => 动机: You were supposed to be sleeping, but you somehow knew nap time was the best time to carry such an act as:
(a) teachers were 'off duty' and everyone's sleeping (i.e. no eye witness);
(b) you cleverly picked the right circumstance when the target was most vulnerable, i.e. not conscious to defend herself;
(c) you knew exactly where to touch, and how to manoeuvre to the area you wanted to touch. You didn't stroke her hair or arms but zeroed in on one specific part;
(d) despite the resistance later, after the victim woke up, you continued to \"force (your) way through\". It was not an accidental touch.
(e) you immediately stopped when housekeeper appeared. This shows you were AWARE it's NOT RIGHT.
Based on mom's narrative, it could have been a premeditated/deliberate act of stealth for boy knew it could not be committed in broad day light, in the presence of many eye witnesses and adults. Boy clearly has the mentality of an adult. What a brazen act. -
jetsetter:
Wah! Your dissection/analysis reminds me of a certain forummer!
:goodpost:
Totally agree with Hquek.
Think about it.
干‘案’时间/状况 => 动机: You were supposed to be sleeping, but you somehow knew nap time was the best time to carry such an act as:
(a) teachers were 'off duty' and everyone's sleeping (i.e. no eye witness);
(b) you cleverly picked the right circumstance when the target was most vulnerable, i.e. not conscious to defend herself;
(c) you knew exactly where to touch, and how to manoeuvre to the area you wanted to touch. You didn't stroke her hair or arms but zeroed in on one specific part;
(d) despite the resistance later, after the victim woke up, you continued to \"force (your) way through\". It was not an accidental touch.
(e) you immediately stopped when housekeeper appeared. This shows you were AWARE it's NOT RIGHT.
Based on mom's narrative, it could have been a premeditated/deliberate act of stealth for boy knew it could not be committed in broad day light, in the presence of many eye witnesses and adults. Boy clearly has the mentality of an adult. What a brazen act. -
Ikid:
The boy may have to attend Play Therapy to ascertain his absurd behaviour. Some children who have complicated family background do not know how to express themselves in words or they may just imitate what they have seen happening at home. Help is definitely needed for both the boy and the girl. If the school let the boy stays, other girls may suffer same fate if the boy's problem is not solved. Is better to isolate this boy for the time being.
:goodpost:
This kind of smooth operation has to be picked up from somewhere, either he was emulating someone doing this to another person at home, or he's exposed to porn materials at home.
Hope the child psychiatrists and counsellor can probe further. Might be from a dysfunctional family, for all we know. Boy's mom got headache and refused to go to preschool to apologise to the victim's parents. Evasion? -
Nebbermind:
Wah! Your dissection/analysis reminds me of a certain forummer!jetsetter:
:goodpost:
Totally agree with Hquek.
Think about it.
干‘案’时间/状况 => 动机: You were supposed to be sleeping, but you somehow knew nap time was the best time to carry such an act as:
(a) teachers were 'off duty' and everyone's sleeping (i.e. no eye witness);
(b) you cleverly picked the right circumstance when the target was most vulnerable, i.e. not conscious to defend herself;
(c) you knew exactly where to touch, and how to manoeuvre to the area you wanted to touch. You didn't stroke her hair or arms but zeroed in on one specific part;
(d) despite the resistance later, after the victim woke up, you continued to \"force (your) way through\". It was not an accidental touch.
(e) you immediately stopped when housekeeper appeared. This shows you were AWARE it's NOT RIGHT.
Based on mom's narrative, it could have been a premeditated/deliberate act of stealth for boy knew it could not be committed in broad day light, in the presence of many eye witnesses and adults. Boy clearly has the mentality of an adult. What a brazen act.
Who???
Caveat: solely based on victim's mom's 1-sided narrative hor...haven't heard from boy's mom yet. And the classmate who witnessed this brazen act.
Now you understand why minimum age of criminal liability cannot be raised from 7, huh? :siam: -
the school does not hav cctv?
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jetsetter:
:goodpost: and analysis.
:goodpost:hquek:
Based on that FB posting, it seemed deliberate action. The boy may have been doing what he saw. But if left unchecked, I am not sure what he will grow up to be. For sure, no one's daughter/son should be the subject of such contact. 6 year old is young, but not all that young in these days.
Unfortunately it seemed to have taken social media to come into play before action was done. Not sure if I missed anything but I had impression the P wasn't going to do anything further, and the mother was advised by our men in blue to transfer her kid out of the school. Do they not fear the same may happen to OTHER kids?
Totally agree with Hquek.
Think about it.
干‘案’时间/状况 => 动机: You were supposed to be sleeping, but you somehow knew nap time was the best time to carry such an act as:
(a) teachers were 'off duty' and everyone's sleeping (i.e. no eye witness);
(b) you cleverly picked the right circumstance when the target was most vulnerable, i.e. not conscious to defend herself;
(c) you knew exactly where to touch, and how to manoeuvre to the area you wanted to touch. You didn't stroke her hair or arms but zeroed in on one specific part;
(d) despite the resistance later, after the victim woke up, you continued to \"force (your) way through\". It was not an accidental touch.
(e) you immediately stopped when housekeeper appeared. This shows you were AWARE it's NOT RIGHT.
Based on mom's narrative, it could have been a premeditated/deliberate act of stealth for boy knew it could not be committed in broad day light, in the presence of many eye witnesses and adults. Boy clearly has the mentality of an adult. What a brazen act.
I think it is not just curiosity, but more at play. And I think not just counselling for the kid, but regular visit by a social worker to his home, to assess his environment is necessary. I fear for the boy, he likely has had some bad experience. -
jetsetter:
Based on mom's narrative, it could have been a premeditated/deliberate act of stealth for boy knew it could not be committed in broad day light, in the presence of many eye witnesses and adults. Boy clearly has the mentality of an adult. What a brazen act.
Of course, we can safely conclude from the mom's Facebook postings that the narration is the original, unadulterated, nothing-added-nothing-omitted, narration by the 6 year-old girl because the mom is obviously not at all the drama mama type.
And of course, we can also conclude that it was a sexually motivated act by the 6 year-old boy.
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jetsetter:
It could be as simple as an reenactment of what happens at home....
干‘案’时间/状况 => 动机: You were supposed to be sleeping, but you somehow knew nap time was the best time to carry such an act as:
(a) teachers were 'off duty' and everyone's sleeping (i.e. no eye witness);
(b) you cleverly picked the right circumstance when the target was most vulnerable, i.e. not conscious to defend herself;
(c) you knew exactly where to touch, and how to manoeuvre to the area you wanted to touch. You didn't stroke her hair or arms but zeroed in on one specific part;
(d) despite the resistance later, after the victim woke up, you continued to \"force (your) way through\". It was not an accidental touch.
(e) you immediately stopped when housekeeper appeared. This shows you were AWARE it's NOT RIGHT.
it was mentioned somewhere that the mother simply ask the P to cane him? like simply bochap.. doesn't sounds like a normal family.