Just to add, as I said, going will be a great experience, but do go prepared. I don’t mean bringing loads of things from home (and some Singaporeans do!), but be prepared for a different pace of life, different activities, not earning etc. Although I have followed my husband through many moves with kids from newborn to teens and found all the experiences enriching (I won’t say all enjoyable), I do know some women who found the switch from FTWM to SAHM coupled with going overseas hard to take. Some even went into depression as they were unprepared for the feeling of dependency (not earning), no maid, no family support, differences in lifestyle, food etc.