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If you are facing the problem of "iPad disabled connect to iTunes" and don’t want to lose all the data in your phone by restoring your phone to factory setting, the best way for you to solve this problem is to use an iOS repair tool named TunesKit iOS System Recovery. This tool can help you fix your problems without connecting your phone with iTunes and recover your iPhone without any data loss.
To avoid this issue happen again, make sure you keep your phone beyond the reach of young children. And do not repeatedly press the wrong password into your phone.