Hi "fussyMummy"


Read your post. Thank you.

He refused to speak & turn 360 degree changed into a monster within days. He started drinking every night even infront of the kids & gamble football & horses out of sudden (to spite me, I guess). It is so scary when you see a man whom you supposed to know became a stranger.

I could have forgive (but hard to forget) if he shows some remorseful but NOTHING.

Three major things :
(1) Accomodation - I’ll have enough after selling our current home.
(2) Children Custody - Depend on judge, right?
(3) Maintance Fees - Is up to him to pay…if he doesn’t, yes, it would be a headache.

Can recommend a lawyer so that I can speak & find out more…now the problem is our $$$ all in joint account. Sigh…if he is a monster now…I’m unsure what would he do.

After knowing he is cheating but of course he denied & refusal to talk.

I didn’t cry and somehow I felt a relieved to know the truth instead of guessing everyday.

I wonder why some have the strength to forgive & forget and stay on in marriage, would it be the same? It is tough decision & I know I wouldn’t be able to continue my future with him. Therefore I’m planning to file for a "D" but unsure how to tell my 2 children. (They are my biggest worries as I’m afraid it will affect them badly)

Anyone can advise me on the procedure, cost and recommand a lawyer.

Thank you.