I can fully understand, mil or PIL will feel tat why their devil dil always bully their sweet angel. The sweet angel always buy stuff for everyone when she go holiday including the devil dil. During dinner always help to offer food to everyone. Oh please, cannot stand this type of hypocrite action. She only want everyone to like her, always want to be in the limelight. 1 incident, I show black face & went out with my child, my mil feel heart pain to see her sweet angel being bullied, my mil told my hubby I never show respect to her, my sil can tell my hubby, it not her who want to blow big on this issue. It’s her mum who react like tar. Wat the hell, if she never backstabbing me, her mum will have this reaction. My mil even want to see my parent wanted to tell them I have no manners. Now I realise tat no matter how, u not the daughter, no matter how long u stay with them, they will always treat u as outsider.

 I can fully understand, although I staying in the same block, she has never invite me to her place although I not keen to go.  Now the best part, she told my hubby, she will not come over to eat when my mil cook as she afraid I not happy, so my mil will bring over the food to her place.  We r eating together with the whole family including PIL & she eating with her hubby.  But can’t b bothered & gv never even ask why she dun want to come. Let her go & act, pathetic. Since I’m already a bad person just let it b

Fuchsia09:

Hi, anyone care to share their views on the centre... Am thinking to enrol my 4 year old for full-day programme.... :please:

Hi, My girl is studying at Ableland. Before she enrol, she does not know how to speak well or express herself. But I see a huge improvement after she went to the class. She very independent on doing her thing herself & she can speak & express well.

Hi, it been sensitive or what. I am not in a good terms with my sister in law. Everytime my In laws went out with my sil & her husband. They will act very secretive afraid that we will want to follow. But Me & my husband are not interested to go. Even my mil or fil birthday, they will also secretly celebrate for my mil or fil bd. The best part is although we are not in a good terms, she purposely stay in the same block with me. If she really want to stay near her parent, she can ask her parent to stay with her. She will act friendly to me infront of her parent & my hubby, when they are not around. she also totally ignore me. She also blocked me from the facebook. She is always interested of where we go. But when it come to her matter, she will act secretive, even she pregnant, she was like afraid that we will know.

She can really act very well until the whole family think I am the bad guy.

Yes it natural, we can never compare Daughter & Daughter-in-law. They will always treat the daughter better, which is fine.


So when it come to daughter & DIL quarrel, the whole family will definetly side the daughter no matter u are right or wrong. To them as a daughter in law, you are the bad guy who has create family dispute & the daughter is always the innocent party who are being bullied.

So as a DIL got to accept fate, no matter how good u treat yr PIL, in the family you are just an outsider.

janet_lee88:

mummy of 2:

[quote=\"garam\"]I am having problem with my sister in law...my mother in law & father in law has always side her....


she has purposely move to stay beside us....everytime find opportunity to make herself exist..like talking loud outside...scare ppl dun know she back...act innocent...as if she is a caring person like she asked the whole family want to eat bird nest or not...but except me...

I hate my sil too. She has no respect for me and exploits her own parents. No consideration for other people only her own interest.

Yes, hate my SIL too. She thinks she damn smart and very filial.
Has no bloody manners (sorry) and has no respect. She better not come back to Singapore...since marry angmoh, stay there FOR GOOD.[/quote]Mine also married an angmo...@ least yours move to overseas...mine stay here.. she herself also act angmo....never drink boiled water only buy mineral water to drink...act class...she forgot she is a chinese..

sall:

garam:

I am having problem with my sister in law...my mother in law & father in law has always side her....


My parents in law have talk bad about me to my husband, say i dislike her to come to our house...but it true lah...

she has purposely move to stay beside us....everytime find opportunity to make herself exist..like talking loud outside...scare ppl dun know she back...act innocent...as if she is a caring person like she asked the whole family want to eat bird nest or not...but except me...

Your in-laws will definitely side their own daughter. After all, blood is thicker than water.
As for shifting to stay next to you, well, at least they never move in to stay with you. Just pretend you didn't hear her when she talks loudly outside your flat. She must be an attention-seeker, so don't give her the attention she wants.

she wanted to move in when she re-married that time..she been telling her mother & my hubby that she worried that can't find a place to rent...it me that I have a big fight saying no matter what she can't move in... then she got no choice...she approach my hubby 2x but i insist of not letting her move in as I can't believe wat she say...

I am having problem with my sister in law…my mother in law & father in law has always side her…


My parents in law have talk bad about me to my husband, say i dislike her to come to our house…but it true lah…

she has purposely move to stay beside us…everytime find opportunity to make herself exist…like talking loud outside…scare ppl dun know she back…act innocent…as if she is a caring person like she asked the whole family want to eat bird nest or not…but except me…

Hi,


My husband is working as free-lance…therefore his CPF is not enough to pay the housing loan…Right now the HDB LOAN is fully deduct by my CPF.

I just want to know…if anything happen…(eg:- if we file for divorce…) Will he be able to get 50% of the house if we decided to sell it away???