I feel like complaining to the agency and her employer.

But problem is, I need to find weout on my own.

Already push the matter to MOM,

Of course they will deport the maid.
However, only with very strong evidence of intimacy.
I doubt they will do the investigation work for us.
They want us or PI to do the investigation.
Since they got other priority on hand.

yes, disappointed.

since it is morally wrong for my husband to do this, the maid is not in the fault.
maybe down on my luck.

yes, disappointed.

since it is morally wrong for my husband to do this, the maid is not in the fault.
maybe down on my luck.

Hi, we have just reported to the police. They say it is non of their purview. But is MOM purview and affair.

Will publicly shaming the maid be an option

https://singaporeuncensored.com/beware-maid-had-affair-with-my-husband/
2ndly, I am concern that complaining to the police will led to my husband hating me even more.

Complain directly to the police?

Actually I send a email to MOM last week.
They say it is a valid reason for filing a case.
However they need a FIN number, address etc (but I dun employ her so I don’t know, so far haven’t go reply yet)
How about the Indonesia Embassy will it help?

Here is what she did:

Maid: #########
Maid :xyz number
Maid: you want happy happy with xyz or not
Maid: very pook xyz need money

Hi there,

How do I complain about a maid.
Currently I have her details like her:
Full Name
Date of Birth
Religion
Country

I also have her details like her
mobile phone number, her address, photo (all these possible intelligence gathering in facebook)

However, the maid is not directly employed by us.
She ask my husband whether want to go happy happy with another lady because she needs money and she gladly did.

Will complain to MOM help as I don’t have her FIN number and such?
I was able find an agency that she tried to seek help seeking employment.
But to my disappointment, the agency did not employ her.