im not used to that too. >.<

Indeed it is a busy years for mummies.

Happyfate:

Yes, i cane my 2 daughters when they really drive me up the wall...but each time after using the cane, i would feel very very guilty that i am not a good father...each time i remind myself i should be more patience, patience...i am still improving on this.

When i got so angry and wanna cane my boy when he's naughty. i couldnt bear to do so as caning him will make me feel that im a failure mother. didnt give him a complete family...

At least you have someone by your side. im alone with my 10 year old