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    • RE: How do you control TV or computer time?

      HappyFaye:
      i let them watch TV for an hour and play computer for half an hour per day as discussed and agreed and sometime more depending if they have finished their work or revision. But somehow, they just can't seem to stop by the agreed time and i am always quick in jumping and 'screaming' when the time is up :frustrated:

      Similar to your situation, we have a schedule - usually half an hour of TV on weeekday and one hour of TV on weekends. Computer, strictly for school work only unless it's holidays. Even during holidays, it is at most one hour.

      However, I do not allow for the \"sometime more depending if they have finished their work or revision\" as it opens room for kids to take advantage and manipulate. For eg, some kids will finish work quickly (untidy and with mistakes) and the issue of \"why last time can but now cannot\" etc. So if my kids have extra time, they will either read or play with their lego/puzzles/origami etc.

      I use this strategy to control the duration. I will ask my kids to tell me the start time, get them to work out the end time and write it down - so at least there will be no arguments when the time is up.

      A variation would be to use a timer.

      posted in Working With Your Child
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      MyBaby
    • RE: Possibility to enter Express Stream?

      kitty2:
      mimi61:

      Hi all, wanted to know if taking P6 - 2 standard and 2 foundation subjects be possible to enter Express Stream?


      Thanking in advance. :?:

      From what i heard,as long as you take foundation subjects,they'll be posted to Normal or Normal tech.I may be wrong.

      Yes, it seems that if doing foundation subjects, then child will be posted to Normal (Academic) or Normal (Technical) stream, depending on the T-score.

      I feel what is important now is to ask child to focus on PSLE and do as best as he/she can. Then there is a higher chance of being accepted into the Normal (Academic) stream in a \"better\" school.

      There has been alot of changes in the secondary school landscape. There are some students in N(A) who are also doing subjects that were previously offered in the Express stream only (like Additional Math).

      posted in Secondary Schools - Selection
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      MyBaby
    • RE: Teaching Chinese at Home

      phankao:

      Oh well, if learning seemingly \"meaningless\" things is useless, then we shouldn't go into nursery rhymes or using songs to teach either.
      Well, I always have the idea that appreciating poems and song lyrics need a high command of the language. What more, writing poems and song lyrics, which are stylistic expressions of the language.

      Wah, phankao, your DS must be very talented! Able to have a good command of English, Chinese, Malay and Japanese. Lucky my children not of the same age as your DS, otherwise, sure loose out!

      posted in Chinese
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      MyBaby
    • RE: Need comment on paying for CCA

      pris-tan:
      School request student to pay for their CCA. What is your comment or advise?

      Well, it depends on what is the money for. If it is to pay for coach, then I do not mind paying. I am currently paying for my DD's wushu lessons outsourced to a vendor.

      posted in Secondary Schools - Academic Support
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      MyBaby
    • RE: Teaching Chinese at Home

      tamarind:
      phankao:

      [quote=\"tamarind\"]
      Also, I want to emphasize that kids before the age of 6 must read a large number of picture books with interesting stories that kids can understand. Pictures are the best way to teach kids the meaning of words, and how to use the words. If we focus only on word recognition, and discourage kids from looking at the pictures, then kids may know how to recite thousands of idioms and tang poetry, but he may not understand the meaning, or know how to use them in compositions.

      Kids are not stupid. My 2yo understands the words that he is able to read. There is never a \"one-size-fits-all\" approach to learning. Never underestimate the young children's ability. What is also important is conversing to your child in Chinese. Immersion by conversation, listening, and reading - all important.


      As full time working mommies, I do not have time to teach my kids for many hours a day. I can only teach Chinese for less than 30 mins a day, so I need to look for methods that are most effective.

      I remember that once I saw on TV, a 3 year old boy who could read hundreds of 成语. His mother pointed to a book with rows of 成语, no pictures, and the boy was able to read everyone of them. I was not impressed at all, because the boy could not use them in compositions.

      I also never teach my kids to memorize San Zi Jing, Di Zi Gui, etc, because I think these are irrelevant and not practical nowadays. I do teach my girl Tang poetry, only because I love Tang poetry myself and my girl loves them too. I wonder how many parents in Singapore really understand the meaning of San Zi Jing and Di Zi Gui ?

      It is most important to develop a love for the language, not just forcing kids to memorize things that are meaningless to them.[/quote]I do agree with you, Tamarind, about it not being meaningful for kids to memorise/recall lots of things but couldn't apply their knowledge.

      Your post came in at a time when I logged in to give a tip to fellow parents who are using 四五快读。

      DS is already in Book 4, towards the end. I didn't cut up the words in the word cards given with the books as firstly, I can't be bothered and secondly, I thought as DS is older, there is no need to do so.

      We usually start each session with him recalling and reciting the words at the back of the book up to where we last stopped. He can read them off quickly and correctly. then we will go to the book where I will introduce new words, and he reads the phrases and sentences or short passages that follow. In book4, there are longer passages (about 1.5 to 2 pgs long) and as he read the longer passages, I realised that there are some words that he could not recognise (eg. 驼, 着急), when he could read these individual words without problem.

      I immediately realised that he is simply memorising and reciting the unfamiliar words when reciting based on word order. There are some words that he knows and when the words he does not know is interspersed in between, he could \"read\" them by following a certain pattern. [DS has good memory and is very creative in finding ways to compensate for his shortcomings).

      This encounter reinforced that young kids have good memory and can memorise anything as long as they are interested and are exposed to it (like this mummy who talked about how her DS could recall all the capitals of different countries and their location on the world map). The crux is, whether the child can meaningfully apply what they have learnt. To me, the ability to apply is a higher order learning skill and only when this happen, do real learning occur.

      As for 四五快读, heh heh, dear DS, mummy's going to cut up the word cards today and let's see how many of those words (from Book 1 to 4) do you REALLY know 😄

      posted in Chinese
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      MyBaby
    • RE: Teaching Chinese at Home

      znzyzyzx:

      Hi ,
      Yppae at Waterloo street provide Chinese speech and drama. http://www.yppae.org/portal/

      Their program is quite structured , 45 mins of speech and 45 mins of drama and the person in charge 马老师 is very dedicated.
      Hi znzyzyzx, tks for the info on Yppae. DS used to attend there when he was in K2 but it didnt work for him. He had a very young teacher and his teacher frequently complained that he could not do hanyupinyin and that sort of put him off. It was also about that time that we decided to send him for assessment as there were also some other signs.

      However, I got to qualify that my older child had a good experience there and benefitted from a strong foundation in hanyupinyin and her oral diction is very exact.

      Anyway, I think I \"off topic\" here for too long already. Will check out more information from the thread on Chinese Enrichment. Tks!

      posted in Chinese
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    • RE: Teaching Chinese at Home

      24hr-mum:
      my girl ever attend chinese speech n drama at julia gabriel when she was 3 at forum

      Now that you've mentioned, I remembered calling Julia Gabriel about 2 yrs back regarding their Mandarin Edudrama prog. At that time, I didn't sign up as the timing was not suitable and the children who were in the class are mostly foreigners.

      posted in Chinese
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      MyBaby
    • RE: Teaching Chinese at Home

      Tks, 24hr-mum. Will check out. Thought Julia Gabriel's only for English? Hokkien Huay Guan might be an option.

      24hr-mum:
      MyBaby:

      I know this is the thread for teaching Chinese at HOME but I am looking for an enrichment centre that focuses on speech and drama (no worksheets, please!) for my P2 DS, to work in tandem with what we are doing at home.

      He is dyslexic. Amongst the 4 components of language learning - Reading, Writing, Speaking and Listening, he has no problems with Speaking and Listening, his Reading is improving as we are building on his word recognition using 四五块读 (we are still on Book 4 and progress is slow!). Writing is still a challenge.

      I am in favour of boosting his spoken skills so as to somewhat compensate for his weaker areas. Thought this is particularly important as at higher level, composition (which would be very challenging to him) and comprehension would be tough for him to handle.

      He used to attend enrichment with one centre but as it was group and there were worksheets to complete in class, he was not coping well as he could not recognise many words and have difficulty reading aloud.

      Does anyone know of any centre that focuses on speech and drama -rather like Lorna Whiston but in Chinese?

      re ch speech n drama - Julia gabriel, hokkien huay guan, crestar maybe have

      posted in Chinese
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      MyBaby
    • RE: Teaching Chinese at Home

      I know this is the thread for teaching Chinese at HOME but I am looking for an enrichment centre that focuses on speech and drama (no worksheets, please!) for my P2 DS, to work in tandem with what we are doing at home.


      He is dyslexic. Amongst the 4 components of language learning - Reading, Writing, Speaking and Listening, he has no problems with Speaking and Listening, his Reading is improving as we are building on his word recognition using 四五块读 (we are still on Book 4 and progress is slow!). Writing is still a challenge.

      I am in favour of boosting his spoken skills so as to somewhat compensate for his weaker areas. Thought this is particularly important as at higher level, composition (which would be very challenging to him) and comprehension would be tough for him to handle.

      He used to attend enrichment with one centre but as it was group and there were worksheets to complete in class, he was not coping well as he could not recognise many words and have difficulty reading aloud.

      Does anyone know of any centre that focuses on speech and drama -rather like Lorna Whiston but in Chinese?

      posted in Chinese
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      MyBaby
    • RE: Opinions of the Primary School Registration System

      Hi hquek, certainly agree that thank goodness we have a mum who had the foresight and the determination to change our lives for the better.


      All of us are professionals now with our own family. My mum has given us the best gift that she can give despite our situation at that time. And this is a gift that even when we are poor, and have no connections, it is still within our reach, achieved through her sheer effort by going early to queue. This is what I believe meritocracy is, which is slightly different from the concept of fairness.

      Of course, going to a TOP school was my mum's idea of \"making it\" and we did benefit from a good education. That, however, is not to say that if we had gone to another school, we would not end up what we are today. My brother, who attended a \"neighbourhood\" school, also did very well. Getting into the \"choice\" school is only the first step.

      Incidentally, none of my siblings and neither did I send our kids to our alumni though we could have easily gotten the girls in through Phase 2A. Reason - we didn't have a good school experience there. Of course, we get berated by my mum for wasting all her effort but she has since come to terms with OUR concept of what type of school experience and education we want for our kids.

      hquek:
      Agree with your posting. And very happy for your family that your mum had the foresight and the determination to change your lives for the better. Kudos to her!! :celebrate:

      posted in Recess Time
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      MyBaby
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