Well, I am thinking could he be still seeing his lover that’s why he refuse to be intimate with me.

Hi,

I am new to this forum.

My husband has EMA too. We have a child who is 14 months old. I wanted to walk out of our marriage but my hb wanted to continue trying to work out on our marriage. I found out his EMA 6 months ago but until now I am still emotionally u stable.
Although he is trying hard to work on the marriage by coming back Homs early, paying more attention to our child but I find that my emotion needs and sexual needs are not fulfilled. I would say he can’t perform in bed with me for months already. So I am totally desperate and depress.

I am at a lost now how to bring our relation and sexual life back together. He kept saying that he got no control on the sexual non performance part. So how to move on with such a situation?

I need some advice and I also like to hear more sucessful stories of those who went thru EMA and happily living with their spouse as an encouragement.

I have read others stories but all are negative one, which I don’t find much help to me.