if i am a mil,
-
1. don’t want to live with my son and his wife
2. don’t want to babysit grandkids full time
3. continue to do the things i like and want to do -
I will not instigate my daughters against their PILs.
I will not fight with SIL's parents for attention or any other things.
:xedfingers:
.... because I love my girls too much to be the black hands that destroy their happiness. -
If i am a MIL, i will luvvvv my SIL very much …( since i have only 1 daughter)
Juz as the way i luvvvv my daughter…
i will also wanna to take care of my grandchildren…err…dunno if i have such long life to see… -
1. Actually I would love them to stay with me (in my house, or shared house but not I stay in their house) as I will miss them very much!!!
2. Alternatively, stay near each other and they can come for dinner every night, but I will need help with cooking as I rarely cook now lolx.
3. I don’t mind helping with the grandkids (not academically though) if they are willing to, cos I know the difficulty of having to work (both parents) and juggle between work & childcare. Again, preferably with a helper.
4. I will remind myself to MYOB, and still showing love and respect to both sons and dils while at the same time remain firm and dignified.
Hmm well, that’s wat I think now but God knows what the future is like… -
nightlone:
I like points 1 and 2 the most.
1. don't want to live with my son and his wife
2. don't want to babysit grandkids full time
3. continue to do the things i like and want to do
:hi5: -
This wish will be a reality for my sister soon. Her son is marrying his girlfriend soon because the girl is already pregnant. Son does not have the financial means to support a family so his wife and soon-to-be-born child will be living with my sister, for the long haul. The girl is quite young and she can’t work because she’s a foreigner.
My sister’s dream of having a carefree retirement looks like it’s going to fly out of the window. I can expect to hear grievances from her from now onwards. Arrgh… -
if i am a mil, i will treat my son-in-law like another son just like my mum with hubby.
-
janet_lee88:
if i am a mil, i will treat my son-in-law like another son just like my mum with hubby.
How about daughter-in-law? I am dreaded thinking about it :nailbite: -
ngl2010:
it's very difficult to be close to daughter-in-law...maintain cordial relationship.janet_lee88:
if i am a mil, i will treat my son-in-law like another son just like my mum with hubby.
How about daughter-in-law? I am dreaded thinking about it :nailbite: -
janet_lee88:
it's very difficult to be close to daughter-in-law...maintain cordial relationship.[/quote]I think so ar.ngl2010:
[quote=\"janet_lee88\"]if i am a mil, i will treat my son-in-law like another son just like my mum with hubby.
How about daughter-in-law? I am dreaded thinking about it :nailbite:
Hello! It looks like you're interested in this conversation, but you don't have an account yet.
Getting fed up of having to scroll through the same posts each visit? When you register for an account, you'll always come back to exactly where you were before, and choose to be notified of new replies (either via email, or push notification). You'll also be able to save bookmarks and upvote posts to show your appreciation to other community members.
With your input, this post could be even better 💗
Register Login
