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[janet88]

buds:

Does your spouse/family take you for granted?


Do you feel like you are taken for granted sometimes? Ya know.. being SAHM.. people think that we are always there.. always around.. always knows.. everything. I had my dose maxed out today and kinda feelin' somewhat crabby. Hence this less than positive post. Sorry.. :imsorry:

Hey buds,
We all have lousy days...in fact, I just had an outburst last weekend.
Staying at home facing 4 walls, having kids who refuse to cooperate and lousy mood doesn't help.
Feel free to air your frustration...though we can't help, you have many pairs of listening ears here...just don't bottle up. There is always a tolerance threshold. :hugs:

[Desserts]

buds:

Does your spouse/family take you for granted?


Do you feel like you are taken for granted sometimes? Ya know.. being SAHM.. people think that we are always there.. always around.. always knows.. everything. I had my dose maxed out today and kinda feelin' somewhat crabby. Hence this less than positive post. Sorry.. :imsorry:

Ya, feel that sometimes too.. To add on, some think we do nothing at home, when mil gate crashes, gives us problems , etc..

Hang in there. :hugs:

Have a great day

[janet88]

We all have those super lousy days…sometimes don’t even have to be ‘that time of the month’. I wish I could take something apart to release that sucky mood. Hang on Buds…go for ice cream or anything that makes you happy.

[TheAnswer]

Honestly, we are all taken for granted sometimes.

Today I rushed down to the hospital as I needed to attend the care giver training. The appointment is supposed to be at 12pm. I rushed down from a funeral but I was not appreciated. The nurses think that being a tutor has a lot of flexibility. Say I have flexible schedule and all that. It’s not even true unlike what most people believe. Maybe there are other tutors who are very free. I do not know. Honestly, I’m fuming mad at how inconsiderate some people can be. How insensitive their words can be!

[TheAnswer]

buds:

Does your spouse/family take you for granted?


Do you feel like you are taken for granted sometimes? Ya know.. being SAHM.. people think that we are always there.. always around.. always knows.. everything. I had my dose maxed out today and kinda feelin' somewhat crabby. Hence this less than positive post. Sorry.. :imsorry:

Buds,
You are appreciated although I do not know you personally. A great mum :salute: :snuggles:

[vinegar]

TheAnswer:

buds:

Does your spouse/family take you for granted?


Do you feel like you are taken for granted sometimes? Ya know.. being SAHM.. people think that we are always there.. always around.. always knows.. everything. I had my dose maxed out today and kinda feelin' somewhat crabby. Hence this less than positive post. Sorry.. :imsorry:

Buds,
You are appreciated although I do not know you personally. A great mum :salute: :snuggles:

Buds,
:grphug: :hugs:

[vinegar]

I cook,clean,take care my kids,ferry them to school everyday…Yes,DH does take me for granted. I don’t mind coz love is unconditional…


All i nid is… a bit of time out wf him…as couple.It will nvr happen coz of his mum.I am still learning to accept it…

SOOOO…i get comfort from someone else…my frds! they always there with me.Once my kids grow up, it will be time for him to feel abandon…oh no,he won’t,he’ll be still busy chasing his mum’s shirt.

[KSmom8]

buds:

Does your spouse/family take you for granted?


Do you feel like you are taken for granted sometimes? Ya know.. being SAHM.. people think that we are always there.. always around.. always knows.. everything. I had my dose maxed out today and kinda feelin' somewhat crabby. Hence this less than positive post. Sorry.. :imsorry:

Buds dear, :hugs: No need to apologise... We all have our crabby days. Take some time for yourself. You're a great mum and good person. :salute:

And yes, DH and family does take me for granted.... But... I refuse to be taken for granted... Sometimes, I :spank:

[KSmom8]

TheAnswer:

Honestly, we are all taken for granted sometimes.

Today I rushed down to the hospital as I needed to attend the care giver training. The appointment is supposed to be at 12pm. I rushed down from a funeral but I was not appreciated. The nurses think that being a tutor has a lot of flexibility. Say I have flexible schedule and all that. It's not even true unlike what most people believe. Maybe there are other tutors who are very free. I do not know. Honestly, I'm fuming mad at how inconsiderate some people can be. How insensitive their words can be!

Read about your MIL. :hugs: take care of yourself too, ok?

[janet88]

Buds dear,

Not all posts have to be positive...as women and SAHMs, we will have crabby days. You have been a great mum to 4 kids and survived your mil. I must say it is definitely not easy. Hope you are feeling a little happier today. :snuggles: