All About Autism
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Hi Double E,
Thanks! My son is borned in Nov 11. So far my dd no speech delay, can communicate with adults quite well. When just send him in half day childcare, the teahcer said he cann’t sit long, but now teacher said he is fine in class and can contentrate in class. He can answer teacher’s questions and most of time can follow the instructions. The only things is he not talk to his peers. That’s why I bring him to see a private psychologist. We are waitting for the school visit.
May I know where you send him for intervention? I am thinking whether send him to some social skill class. Btw, you mention you ds can not follow social rule, what do you mean? -
Social rules means for example, in a game with children, the kids will probably set some rules like who go first, who do what. He is not able to follow.
However, he is able to follow adults’ instructions.
My son attends ST, OT and EIPIC at different private therapy centres. -
Double E:
Hi Doulbe E,Social rules means for example, in a game with children, the kids will probably set some rules like who go first, who do what. He is not able to follow.
However, he is able to follow adults' instructions.
My son attends ST, OT and EIPIC at different private therapy centres.
Thanks for answer. I was so stressful now. Even only the social problem, he may be AS. I don't know what to do next. I saw a lot of concerns about the child study in the main stream school. They are bullied and no friends++. Heartbroken! -
Hi mummies, wanted to get your views on possible solutions for this-
My Aspie son seems to be very ok at home. He listens to the helper, does his work, and is generally well-behaved, even calls me on the hp to ask stuff and ask when I’m coming home from work etc. But the moment he goes to his grandpa’s house, all hell breaks loose. He’ll start sticking to his grandpa like glue, throws tantrums until I come home from work, starts beating his grandparents when they tell him to stop it. When I call him when he’s there he will refuse to come to the phone, and I can hear him throwing full blown tantrums. I suspect that this arose because when he was younger I was staying with my parents, and every night he slept with them. Later on I moved to my own place, and I had to pull him away from them. In the beginning I sent him to my parents daily, but his tantrums are so major I’ve started only sending him there weekly. I’ve tried asking him why, and he cant give me a reason for his tantrums. Before he goes he’ll assure me that he’ll behave, but once he’s there it’s a different story.
Wondering if any other parents go thru this? And any possible solutions for him to start behaving himself there the way he behaves at home? Thanks -
My son is the opposite. He behaves better when he is with my mum.
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Double E:
My son is the opposite. He behaves better when he is with my mum.
Is he with your mum daily? -
not on facebook,
My son is very well behave in front of my mum, but will throw tantrums in front of my MIL.
Even though they are special needs, they are just like any regular kids, they know who they can bully, and who do not take their nonsense.
I will ask him if he likes going to grandparents house or not. If he say yes, then I will tell him I can only send him there if he do this this and behave like a good boy. Set rules with him. End of the day evaluate with him. I will purposely ask in front of grandparents if DS behave or not… if grandparents say yes… then I will praise him and reward him accordingly.
If not, I will ask what things he did wrong then we go home and I will talk to him about it.
If he doesnt like to go grandparents house, then need to find out why. Cos if he dun like to go, no point sending him there… else sure will throw tantrum…
Just how 2 cents worth. -
nugget:
Thanks nugget.. it's not that he doesnt like to go, he actually looks forward to going.. he's all excited when I tell him he's going. Then after tht.. haiyoh..not on facebook,
My son is very well behave in front of my mum, but will throw tantrums in front of my MIL.
Even though they are special needs, they are just like any regular kids, they know who they can bully, and who do not take their nonsense.
I will ask him if he likes going to grandparents house or not. If he say yes, then I will tell him I can only send him there if he do this this and behave like a good boy. Set rules with him. End of the day evaluate with him. I will purposely ask in front of grandparents if DS behave or not.. if grandparents say yes.. then I will praise him and reward him accordingly.
If not, I will ask what things he did wrong then we go home and I will talk to him about it.
If he doesnt like to go grandparents house, then need to find out why. Cos if he dun like to go, no point sending him there.. else sure will throw tantrum..
Just how 2 cents worth.
Anyways I will continue talking to him about it. Hope it will be effective sooner or later
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Dear mummies
do you know any baker contact who can bake gluten free dairy free egg free birthday cake for my son?
my son is going to be 3 yr old soon and as he is attending cc in the morning, i would like to prepare a cake which he actually can eat with the rest of classmates for his birthday party.
he is allergic to many foods - wheat, dairy, egg, banana, etc…
last year we celebrated his 2 yr bd at CC with normal BD cake which he cant eat. so he just blew a candle ,sat and watching other kids eating it.
now he is more aware and he likes to eat things that other people eat, i would like to try to find a cake that he also can eat…
thank you. -
af7680:
Dear mummies
do you know any baker contact who can bake gluten free dairy free egg free birthday cake for my son?
my son is going to be 3 yr old soon and as he is attending cc in the morning, i would like to prepare a cake which he actually can eat with the rest of classmates for his birthday party.
he is allergic to many foods - wheat, dairy, egg, banana, etc...
last year we celebrated his 2 yr bd at CC with normal BD cake which he cant eat. so he just blew a candle ,sat and watching other kids eating it.
now he is more aware and he likes to eat things that other people eat, i would like to try to find a cake that he also can eat...
thank you.
Why not order a agar agar cake for him instead?
I assume gluten free cakes are very expensive and not so nice to eat.
I have ordered from there before:
http://www.cakestory.com.sg/products-page/agar-agar-cake/
Their agar agar cake are very nice.. Got many cartoons characters too.
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