Sibling Rivalry
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hmm, at least ur children quarrel, bickering, but mine use beating.
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smurf:
hmm, at least ur children quarrel, bickering, but mine use beating.
For me, I emphasised that it will be serious consequence if they fight.
If both of them fight, I will cane and punish both of them.
Doesn't matter who started it first.
If both fight, both are at fault.
They took my words seriously and will think twice before fighting
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kiasimom:
kekeke, I use the same method. If any 2 get into a skirmish ALL 3 get the same punishment - 2 for being part of the fight...the 3rd for just standing there and not doing anything.smurf:
hmm, at least ur children quarrel, bickering, but mine use beating.
For me, I emphasised that it will be serious consequence if they fight.
If both of them fight, I will cane and punish both of them.
Doesn't matter who started it first.
If both fight, both are at fault.
They took my words seriously and will think twice before fighting
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Hahaha, we are INDEED kindred souls :hugs:
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erm, they are not scared of caning. they are scare only when the cane is waving, but after beating,, they will still return to fighting. which is why I said, I BO BIAN!
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smurf:
erm, they are not scared of caning. they are scare only when the cane is waving, but after beating,, they will still return to fighting. which is why I said, I BO BIAN!
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Seperate them. Time out for them.
I seperated my two children and forbid them to play with each other.
Now as they grow older, when they quarrel, I made them hug each other for 1 min and get them to apologise to each other.
It WORKS!!!
They seldom fight now :celebrate: -
good method. but they usually ignore me!
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smurf:
good method. but they usually ignore me!
Seems like your children are not afraid of you.
Did anyone take sides with them when you discipline them? -
they are not. not scare of anyone…they are scare only when someone wave the cane and beat…but after that, back to square 1.
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smurf:
they are not. not scare of anyone...they are scare only when someone wave the cane and beat...but after that, back to square 1.
There must be a reason why your children are so rebellious.
You need to find the root of the problem.
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