In-law problems?

[sunset_dae]

I SWEAR! :celebrate:

buds:

sunset_dae:

i wun be so siao!

You better not ah! :nunchuk:

:rotflmao:

[buds]

Yes yes millan.. he never stands up for me even when i'm being

maligned. I dunno lah if he does it when i'm not present... which
may indirectly lead to MIL having such deep hatred for me. :roll:
Beats me.

Yes, you must read from beginning.. :lol: What you read now are
all continuation series. Must start from DVD 1. :rotflmao: Yes yes..
it is almost confirmed... not just likely... that the paint(ing) job has
been done consistently and steadily. Stock ammo sista. ie. ammunition.

Moving out? Go straight way, done.. Go back way, done.. Go all the
way nia i haven't.. Hahakh! :rotflmao: Likewise for face... straight as
a matter of fact face, done... sad face oso done... black face shud be
oso done... :lol: ... begging oso done... oni ... ermmm... :idea: ... scary
face haven't! :rotflmao:

My hubs is filial to a fault. Filial piety is a strong trait i like in my man.
But they don't say, \"too much of anything is bad for you\".... for nothing.
It means everything.

[buds]

hquek:

It's true lah, once broken, mended mirror is definitely not the same.

Ya got that right to a T!

It's like my thoughts said out loud.. :salute:

Not say cannot lah...

CAN, but hard loh..

[buds]

sunset_dae:

I SWEAR! :celebrate:

Oooorrrr.... you say wan ah!

[foreverj]

haha, reading the postings here, i really have a lot of respect for the DILs here, esp buds. should get the best DIL award dear. here's my two cents worth of advise, anything MIL says, agree. anything negative she tries to say abt other people, neutralise it and say maybe that person has certain reason to behave this way. u never know how she may misquote u to say u said bad abt this person :!:


to dh, never say anything that involves an opinion about his parents to him. can state facts like\"your parents never correct your dd when she did this.\" never say \"your parents are lousy caregivers cos they never correct your dd when she did something wrong\". u get the picture...

all in all, never talk unnecessarily to MIL, if u can help it. talk more, wrong more. of course, all the above is only applicable if your r/s with MIl not so good. if good, then hey! u shouldn't be reading this thread! :shock:

[sunset_dae]

Agree! i always zip up my mouth when im at their house!

No talk = No wrong
Talk = confirm wrong!

[buds]

I dowan award.


I wanna get out of my rut.

Quote misquote. Kena liao.

Say dun say, oso kena liao.
Damned if i say, damned if i don't.

Talk dun talk oso kena liao.
Definitely damned if i talk...
Rude if i don't talk (at all)...

So just try to stay outta sight? :siam:
Hoping she'd forget i existed? :idea:

[buds]

sunset_dae:

Agree! i always zip up my mouth when im at their house!

No talk = No wrong
Talk = confirm wrong!

I didn't know you do funny, sunset_dae. :rotflmao:

[foreverj]

aiyah, just dun talk lor. if they say y u dun talk? then u say "no comment lor". but of course must greet them when see them. to old people, very important… actually most evil thing u can do to them, buds, since u r such a nice and good person at heart, is to treat all their friends damn nice. then if they voice anything bad abt u to their frens, their frens will jump to your defence n piss them off lol


ooh, i think i m bad influence to u, sigh …[shake head]

[sunset_dae]

there was once where we went for a family trip together.

with MIL, FIL, hub brothers and sisters.
MIL and FIL were quarrelling outside their hotel room. everyone was looking at them including me… then MIL happened to turn ard saw someone "staring" at her. she was throwing tantrum throughtout the journey saying someone in the family had glared her and was scolding vulgarities at this person. FIL and everyone fed up and asked her who is the one staring at her and her stormed up to me and point her finger at me! i was :!: :!: :!:
we were having lunch at that moment and there is a piping hot tom yum soup in front of me, which she wanted to pour at me! luckily my husband stopped her!
Cant blame me for my big eyes!