All About Bullying

[icy_mama]

your girl really can make her mummy don't push her too much. i think she knows what she really wants. just be there for her. hang on, udon. :hugs:

[Udon]

icy_mama:

your girl really can make her mummy don't push her too much. i think she knows what she really wants. just be there for her. hang on, udon. :hugs:

Thank you so much, icy-mama.
May God bless...:)

[Monster Mummy]

Udon:

icy_mama:

your girl really can make her mummy don't push her too much. i think she knows what she really wants. just be there for her. hang on, udon. :hugs:

Thank you so much, icy-mama.
May God bless...:)

So in today situation, it seem that girls can get jealously easily. Even my girl also the same situation, as a student councillor, those classmates unable to have a chance to become councillor. They form a group to boycott her. My girl is much better after we try to trigger to think by telling her like qualities of friend and life still goes even left with no friends.

[icy_mama]

Monster Mummy:

Udon:

[quote=\"icy_mama\"]your girl really can make her mummy don't push her too much. i think she knows what she really wants. just be there for her. hang on, udon. :hugs:

Thank you so much, icy-mama.
May God bless...:)

So in today situation, it seem that girls can get jealously easily. Even my girl also the same situation, as a student councillor, those classmates unable to have a chance to become councillor. They form a group to boycott her. My girl is much better after we try to trigger to think by telling her like qualities of friend and life still goes even left with no friends.[/quote]good for her. she'll find someone more deserving of her friendship.

[sembgal]

http://www.stopbullying.gov/kids/what-you-can-do/index.html#bullied


How to help our young children to understand what is bullying. I heard it is more prevalent in girls' school. Parents have to learn to listen to the children speak out their feelings everyday to find out the child's emotional feelings in school. When I went for Pri 1 Orientation, the principal mentioned that parents should never confront another parents or students directly. I only begun to understand what the principal meant by not confronting other parents and children directly after finding out from other parents with children from other levels that in any particular girls' schools, there is at least 1 big bully in the class with her followers. Always alert the teachers to bullying if parents are aware of. Strangely, I heard those bullies are often sent to tuition frequently, parents neglect them emotionally, only care about their grades and expect them to do extremely well academically. These children go to school to say my parents don't love me, only care about my grades, only work and work, always send me to tuition all the time. When children do not get enough attention at home from the parents, the child will go to school to bully to get that attention they need. And to add, girls' schools are not as peaceful as you think. Bullying can begin in Pri 1, usually from Term 3 onwards based on my experienced parents friends with children in Pri school.

[bmch]

Sometimes it can be very upsetting for the parents when our children are being bullied especially so when the teachers are prejudiced, and the children have no one to turn to for help.

[Enbin]

bmch:

Sometimes it can be very upsetting for the parents when our children are being bullied especially so when the teachers are prejudiced, and the children have no one to turn to for help.

I totally agreed.. We have to note our children behaviour. Are they be happy when we pick them up from the sch or they are afraid of certain teachers.

[NigelTKM]

sembgal:

http://www.stopbullying.gov/kids/what-you-can-do/index.html#bullied


How to help our young children to understand what is bullying. I heard it is more prevalent in girls' school. Parents have to learn to listen to the children speak out their feelings everyday to find out the child's emotional feelings in school. When I went for Pri 1 Orientation, the principal mentioned that parents should never confront another parents or students directly. I only begun to understand what the principal meant by not confronting other parents and children directly after finding out from other parents with children from other levels that in any particular girls' schools, there is at least 1 big bully in the class with her followers. Always alert the teachers to bullying if parents are aware of. Strangely, I heard those bullies are often sent to tuition frequently, parents neglect them emotionally, only care about their grades and expect them to do extremely well academically. These children go to school to say my parents don't love me, only care about my grades, only work and work, always send me to tuition all the time. When children do not get enough attention at home from the parents, the child will go to school to bully to get that attention they need. And to add, girls' schools are not as peaceful as you think. Bullying can begin in Pri 1, usually from Term 3 onwards based on my experienced parents friends with children in Pri school.

I agree, the underlying issue with the bully, is usually because they do not have power outside of school or have someone to really care for them. Being constantly under pressure. Then they will bring it to school and will try to overwhelm whoever they can.

I heard that usually they will gang up on one of them, however if the one being bullied can stand strong and not show that he/she is not affected they will eventually leave the child alone. Though that is just what a couple of my friends told me. As the bullies usually look for someone to overwhelm as mentioned above.

[LarryG67]

Bullying (on a victim) can have very long-term effects on the child psychology. In a way, a parent approaching another student can be considered bullying as well because the parent or teacher has a much higher authority than the kid. Incidents like this can really affect the victim’s self-esteem in the long-term. And we won’t be able to see the psychological effects on the child till many many years later

[savvytechgirl]

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Hi parents!

This is posted in the parents support group portal and thought it might be something that you can join if you are keen to find out how to protect your children from threats in cybercrimes and understand the impact of cyber-bullying/and how the new anti harassment law can protect you and your children. There is also an interesting dialogue panel that covers different expertise including of how to use technology to safeguard your children.

This is in collaboration with the Coalition against bullying for children and youth with Microsoft Singapore and is happening on 31st May from 10am - 12pm.

You can find the agenda and register (Registration is free) via the link below and also have attached the e-invite. There is also a simple game at the end of the session, might stand a chance to win the Xbox 360 bundle worth $399.

http://bit.ly/1gmb8CY