Schools should take serious action against student intimacy?

[2ppaamm]

ks2me:

Yes, bad...I wonder what is in their brains these days with all the varied exposure. *sigh* Seems to be more exposure is not necessary a good thing without proper guidance. Surprised no one STOMP them? :? Or has it become so common that no one cares anymore?

Don't know leh. I think my hair will stand on ends if I have to witness that. The Anwar case in Singapore! :lol:

[corneyAmber]

2ppaamm:

Don't know leh. I think my hair will stand on ends if I have to witness that. The Anwar case in Singapore! :lol:

Yeah it will be hair-raising experience for me too! :celebrate:

[2ppaamm]

ks2me:

Yes, bad...I wonder what is in their brains these days with all the varied exposure. *sigh* Seems to be more exposure is not necessary a good thing without proper guidance. Surprised no one STOMP them? :? Or has it become so common that no one cares anymore?

Don't know leh. I think my hair will stand on ends if I have to witness that. The Anwar case in Singapore! :lol:

[2ppaamm]

ks2me:

Don't know leh. I think my hair will stand on ends if I have to witness that. The Anwar case in Singapore! :lol:

Yeah it will be hair-raising experience for me too! :celebrate:[/quote]
I'm going out to fetch DS1 from school now... very late... don't want him to sit in the MRT witnessing these events. :lol:

[corneyAmber]

2ppaamm:

I'm going out to fetch DS1 from school now... very late... don't want him to sit in the MRT witnessing these events. :lol:

Gosh..better go quickly...not a worthwhile experience, can be skipped anytime!!

[tutormum]

This is another example of what we should teach our children when they are young - proper behaviour when in public places. Some of my friends think that I burden my boys with too much reality but I beg to differ. I rather teach them by pointing out issues and explaining why they shouldn't engage in such activities like smoking, drug taking etc when they are very young. When they grow up, they have an adverse opinion about such vices and stay far away from them.

[corneyAmber]

tutormum:

This is another example of what we should teach our children when they are young - proper behaviour when in public places. Some of my friends think that I burden my boys with too much reality but I beg to differ. I rather teach them by pointing out issues and explaining why they shouldn't engage in such activities like smoking, drug taking etc when they are very young. When they grow up, they have an adverse opinion about such vices and stay far away from them.

Yes I think sometimes in public, I may appear like a 'lor-li-lor-sor' mum, taking great pains to explain learnings from what we see. But I believe in the long run, these impressions of 'lor-li-lor-so' mum would turn into good trainings she got when she was young. Honestly, I also prefer to see parents that teach their children, even though sometimes may be ugly but at least I feel that the children get corrected on the spot rather than delayed and forgotten.

[2ppaamm]

Recently, I attended a teenage parenting talk. The speaker mentioned that it is always important that the children learn about important issues such as sex from parents. Otherwise, they will pick up and learn things from their peers or media, which is far from ideal.


So, I guess ks2me and tutormum, you are on the right track!

[corneyAmber]

2ppaamm:

Recently, I attended a teenage parenting talk. The speaker mentioned that it is always important that the children learn about important issues such as sex from parents. Otherwise, they will pick up and learn things from their peers or media, which is far from ideal.


So, I guess ks2me and tutormum, you are on the right track!

Thanks 2ppaamm. Btw, what is an appropriate age to brooch this subject? Now my dd is still having a clinical view of pro-creation process only. I always tell her when you are abit older, I will tell you and she will say that mummy you will be really busy because you have so MANY things to tell me when I grow older.. Then she will ask what does it take to be older? :roll:

[2ppaamm]

ks2me:

2ppaamm:

Recently, I attended a teenage parenting talk. The speaker mentioned that it is always important that the children learn about important issues such as sex from parents. Otherwise, they will pick up and learn things from their peers or media, which is far from ideal.


So, I guess ks2me and tutormum, you are on the right track!

Thanks 2ppaamm. Btw, what is an appropriate age to brooch this subject? Now my dd is still having a clinical view of pro-creation process only. I always tell her when you are abit older, I will tell you and she will say that mummy you will be really busy because you have so MANY things to tell me when I grow older.. Then she will ask what does it take to be older? :roll:

They say about Sec1 or Sec 2. I still have not talked to my girls but I did give a long talk to DS1 when he went to the uni. Main thing is, I know they are already doing it in the uni, so I needed to warn him and explain stuff. Anyone involved with him will commit statutory rape. Ha ha!!! Serious! That was exactly what I told him!

Also, for homosexuality, I make my stand very clear, right from when they are very young. I am very conservative in some of my views.