Place/Ideas to Celebrate Wedding Anniversary?
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Hi.
Just to Share.
Celebrated our 7th anniversary few days back.
:hugs:
Nothing fancy.. Left the children at CC..
Went for lunch together. Over lunch, we shared and reflected on the past 7 years - how we has developed as a person, couple and family. We also discussed on areas that we need to nurture further as a family. It was a great makan for the tummy and of course for the brain.
Its just one of those rare times that we could sit down and talk heart to heart without the kids around.
Wanted to catch a movie after that but since the timing was not good... hubby suggested that we went for pedicure instead :whut: .. but we enjoyed ourselves... :hugs: -
What is Wedding anniversary?
It’s just another day for me and DH and i don’t really remember we ever celebrate. Did we?
Our anniversary falls on Jan 5th and honestly, i have not received any gifts or flowers from my DH for very long time le. Maybe the last time he gave me a rose, yes a stalk of rose from the wet market! 5-6 years ago and that’s it.
We don’t wear our wedding band at all! Just hiding at a corner of the house!
On the 5th Jan, one of my newly wedded colleagues is taking leave to celebrate her hubby birthday and i need to stand in her duties so this year, definitely no celebration but am i looking forward to one after so many years? Hehe
I think anniversary is for couples that are really in love with each other or else no point celebrating just for the sake of " Hello, today is our wedding anniversary" -
Doesn’t matter how you celebrate - as long as both remember and set aside time to be together and most importantly WITHOUT kid/s. The other 364 days you can spend time with kid/s as a family.
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my fifth wedding ann is coming up next month. my hubby doesn't even remember its been 5 years when i asked him how we shd celebrate
before we were married, he sent me like 7-8 bouquets a year, now none since marriage...only once to apologise for sthing he did.
think surely will get and do nothing this yr just like every year.
shd i plan sthing or just forget abt it since he not interested? -
Our day is coming up next week, don't think DH remember. Or he would just get me another one of those cony worded card.
Me? his cologne running out, bought 2 bottles for him, gift wrapped, will put them in his toiletries cabinet on the morning itself. -
riash:
You shd definitely plan something. Don't wait for him to do it, because if he doesn't, you'll feel resentful and disappointed. I guess, sometimes, the hubby is really busy at work or get complacent after a while, and it's not because they don't care. In the past, my DH was like that too. And I used to feel sad and horrible. Still, I've come to accept that he's not the romantic type, but he's a loving hubby and wonderful hands-on father. We'll be celebrating our 14 yrs anniversary this year :lol:
think surely will get and do nothing this yr just like every year.
shd i plan sthing or just forget abt it since he not interested?
So, instead of getting annoyed, I'll plan the day. It can be watching movies and going for dinner; or if both of you can take the whole day off, better still.
Happy planning!! :celebrate: -
hi schweppes, thanks for the advice. u r absolutely right, i will be hurt and resentful if he does nothing. so ok, i will think of sthing
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Wah…I actually not thinking of doing anything…we usually don’t…
but since its going to be our 5th anni…maybe will plan a surprise for dh!
But probably can’t do 1-1 thingy on actual day cos he’s rushing a project rollout then…maybe just a gift so he knows i remember and i love him! -
When I was doing well, I will send her favourite flowers to her office, to remind her, for the last 11 years. She still cannot remember anniversary date well…
Then, we will dine in our best restaurant always (same decor for the last 11 years! the table is still black, but the paints had cracked.).
No job since this year, this year no flower, but dinner as usual. -
adhdadhd:
I applaud u :salute: , adhdadhd, same restaurant for 11 yrs :!: u r one faithful man....hee hee bt isn't tat kind of boring? :lol:
Then, we will dine in our best restaurant always (same decor for the last 11 years! the table is still black, but the paints had cracked.).
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