BGR for a 13 year old

[AdonciaTang]

Nebbermind:

Joule:

can 13 yr old have bgr?


my answer is

NO

get thee to a nunnery

Have you not read what happened to young boys in some of these religious places (donch wanna mention names) :evil:

What happened?

[ngl2010]

AdonciaTang:

Nebbermind:

[quote=\"Joule\"]can 13 yr old have bgr?


my answer is

NO

get thee to a nunnery

Have you not read what happened to young boys in some of these religious places (donch wanna mention names) :evil:

What happened?[/quote]Yeah.... What happened?

[kwcllf]

AdonciaTang:

Nebbermind:

[quote=\"Joule\"]can 13 yr old have bgr?


my answer is

NO

get thee to a nunnery

Have you not read what happened to young boys in some of these religious places (donch wanna mention names) :evil:

What happened?[/quote]Sexual crimes. They were all over in newspapers.

[AdonciaTang]

Gotta check it out then.

[ttlkbs]

13 is too young, then is 16 young too? Dunno how to talk to a 16 yr old boy about this.

[janet88]

son told me about the pairing up in class when he entered sec 1.

this year, there is this boy who even called his other half, 'mrs xx' :faint:
asked son what he thinks about this, and his reply is :siao:
ME: why?
Son: so young and he is determined this girl is for life?

[Integer]

ttlkbs:

13 is too young, then is 16 young too? Dunno how to talk to a 16 yr old boy about this.

To me, 16 is also too young, prob 18 is abt right, Uni age will be best ...haha..

I have a 16 yr old boy too ... since many moons ago I've hinted/said directly that 18 is the magical no., anything below is not acceptable cos will be too young, not mature enough ...yada yada yada... Guess it has gone to his head, althou I know he has/had some puppy love crushes ...wh are harmless cos even his mama had them ard his age.

But if yr 16yr old's puppy love is more serious, then may have to thread more carefully cos sometimes for teens, the more pple disagree, the more they want to go ahead...If both of them can study together and sch is not affected, we might have to give in for now and let nature takes its course ( die a natural death or a lifelong partner?)

Good Luck.

[janet88]

after watching ‘ah boys to men’, son said NS is not a good time to have a girlfriend. at uni, maybe…if the couple can motivate each other to study…the guy would have finished his NS by then.

[Porky Pig]

I was having a conversation with my 13 year old sonny on BGR yesterday. Apparently one of his buddy dropped out of a sport CCA yesterday. Asked sonny what happened. Sonny said since the sport CCA trains 3x a week, his buddy does not have time to spend with his girlfren hence he decided to quit and move to a more laidback CCA. Asked sonny whether he has a girlfren too and he said yes he has many girlfrens. Fainted

[sharonkhoo]

My girls distinguish between ‘boyfriend’ and ‘friends who are boys’. We have told them that we think ‘boyfriends’ and ‘single dates’ should not be considered until they are closer to the age when deciding on a life partner is realistic, which shouldn’t be until 18yo at the very earliest, and probably not until they are within a couple of years of being in a position to get married. They seem to agree (so far) - at 15 and 17 yo. They have a no. of ‘friends who are boys’ in church and school, but have never had a ‘boyfriend’. They tell me that social activities and group interaction is much more comfortable this way.