In-law problems?

[buds]

lovekidsverymuch:

Yes u r alive and u r kicking and ppl who cannot c u standing pls ask them to go off :hugs:

Yah hor. :idea:

So, HAIII-YAH! :nunchuk:

[cfan]

Sigh…


家家有本难念的经…

念来念去没头绪…

[shine_fs]

Hi Buds


From me to you..... :snuggles: :hugs:

[hquek]

buds:

Be my best friend too? :please: :lol:

No problems! My honour!

buds:

Nope. He looks good. He takes pride in looking good.

I'm the ugly duckling..

So i guess maybe i make him malu when
i'm standing beside him last time when i
was the fat rabbit. :oops: Plus oso, when
making love, the layer by layer kueh lapis
might've been too much for him. :oops:

Haiz...dun put yourself down - losing confidence in yourself is half the battle lost. FYI, I understand that some men like 'bah bah' women....it's not fun embracing a bag of bones okie? remember that ancient beauties were typically plumpy plumpy (Yang Gui Fei is classic example); the beauties painted by famed artists also plump plump (think Reubens). It's the modern day interpretation that got them thin as sticks.

[autumnbronze]

Buds,


Came across this quote, may not fit in the context of your situation,

but still ...

Want to share this with you:

But I know, somehow, that only
when it is dark enough, can you see the stars
Martin Luther King, Jr

I suppose you have seen the stars ... amidst the darkness ... so to reiterate my previous post, just follow them lah .... :celebrate:

[smurf]

Heyya Buds,


Sorry, dunno how to comfort you (not good in words), but :hugs: to you. Stay strong!

[buds]

shine_fs:

Hi Buds


From me to you..... :snuggles: :hugs:

Thanks sweetie. :hugs: you back.

[foreverj]

hi dear buds


a bit shocked to see your posts yesterday. look like something really major has happened. the rest of us can only provide some emotional support and prayers. pray that God wil help u thru this.

hugs to you, my dear…

[buds]

hquek:

Haiz...dun put yourself down - losing confidence in yourself is half the battle lost. FYI, I understand that some men like 'bah bah' women....it's not fun embracing a bag of bones okie?

:lol: Naah. I'm not. This wan was just reflection of before weight loss. :lol:
Said more in jest than anything else. Frankly, lose confidence... i definitely
DID. I virtually crashed. But as weeks gone by, via support system
reading up motivational books, self-help books, talking abt it, reflecting...
all these helped build immunity. So i managed to come back with a bigger
bang. (i think) And a neu less fat bod... that jedamum saw... hahahaa. I
WAS kinda the whale. I needed that wake up call aniwae. Thanks to that
remark, it drove towards a newer me. Not perfect still but better. I feel
less lethargic these days as compared to rabbit days.

hquek:

remember that ancient beauties were typically plumpy plumpy. It's the modern day interpretation that got them thin as sticks.

There are two camps in modern day interpretation. And somehow the
in betweens got lost somewhere in the forest. Its either the camp with
mo gui de shen cai or the camp with the chopsticks. Such modern day
interpretations do not help indeed. Cause in reality not many can afford
to botox or go for aesthetic surgical procedures or worse, starve. I hafta
watch my health more so this time around since i now know the
repercussions weight loss can have on me.

In short, whatever shortcomings that were said of me i rose up to it and
proved i was woman enough to see things through. Whatever ppl said tt
i was this and i was that... i reflected and fine tuned when i found that it
indeed cud make things better. So instead of going head-on with battle,
i worked my kinks out one way or another. Neither did i shy away from it
and go into denial...

Cos strength of mind and the peace within, help, during times of adversities
in helping to work things out.

[buds]

autumnbronze:

But I know, somehow, that only

when it is dark enough, can you see the stars
Martin Junior King, Jr

Your profound literature finds its way in me and gives me peace. :hugs: