In-law problems?

[buds]

rocklee:

Dear Buds


Whatever drastic move you gonna make next, I hope you can find peace and happiness. You truly deserve it. All the best! Now I dedicate this song to you \" Ming Tian Hui Gen Hao!\"

Cheers

Xie xie..

Yi Ting Hui De! :celebrate:

[Funz]

Hey Buds,


Sorry to hear that you are going through such tough times again.

Hope budhubs buck up and not waste any more opportunities given to him.

[buds]

lovekidsverymuch:

Hey Buds wats ur hubs saying for all this wats his reaction?

I can see he IS indeed working things out.

But not decisive enough yet.

He just backed out on a place we have just viewed
a few nites ago despite oredi stamping THAT was
the one. When he wanted to crawl his way out of
that deal, i just held his hand and said, \"I'm with u.\"
Though it was hard for me to say it. This is one
decision i don't want to make for myself. It's a big
one hence it has to be an affirmative decision from
both of us. I don't want to bear the bane of it resting
on my shoulders.

DD2 was sad that the deal didn't go through and thought
it was her fault, cos we asked her what she thought. She
thought the deal was cancelled cos of what she said. My
poor DD. I assured her it will NEVER be her fault. She just
says, \"I just want the 4 of us to be together.\" To that, i
replied, \"Me too sweetie... me too..\" God knows how much
i want this to work. That night she went to bed praying God
will help the agent find a better house than the one cancelled
so that our small family can be together.

Ok... now you all can go weep. I oredi did..

Chowz guys.. going to send DD2 to school now. Catcha guys
later.. Thanks for all the PMs and the inputs, the different
perspectives, the strength, the candour... everything.

These keeps me going more than you know.. stay with me k.

[buds]

Funz:

Hey Buds,


Sorry to hear that you are going through such tough times again.

Yeh boi.. AGAIN is quite the word ain't it. :lol:

Funz:

Hope budhubs buck up and not waste any more opportunities given to him.

He better not. I'm already job searching and interviewing and that
gives him the creeps. :rotflmao: I'm independent and i want him to
remember that i don't necessarily need a man to live this life. Hehe.
But the sex part i need him lar.. :rotflmao: But focus.. focus... thats
not what's important now. :lol:

He is a very good man. Just too indecisive when it comes to us. And
this time i want to see the decisive MAN in him. To us.

He is not perfect. Nobody is. But he IS perfect for me. I do hope i am
for him too. Only time will tell huh.. I'm :xedfingers: I guess i too
underestimated how much love i had for him and this marriage.

Do know, that beneath this hard exterior i'm putting up right now...
deep inside i do want this to work out. 10 years doesn't amount up
to nothing. It took me a lot to get here.. so it means a lot. To me at
least. Let's see how things pan out... tick tock... tick tock...

[buds]

lovekidsverymuch:

Yeah really weeping reading all this but i really really pray everything works out and u and gals are happier

Believe me, i am too.

[shine_fs]

buds:

lovekidsverymuch:

Yeah really weeping reading all this but i really really pray everything works out and u and gals are happier

Believe me, i am too.

As we are all third parties....normally we 劝和不劝离。。。
for you too....

[minnie2004]

Hi buds,


It is obvious from your posts that you and your hubs love each other very much. Hope everything will work out fine for you guys. Love will conquer all - including all the evIL forces. :nunchuk: I fully support your decision to move out, which should have been done 10 years ago. It's worth it even if it means you have to go back to work again.

btw, my little boy couldn't take his eyes off your avatar as I was going thru this thread. he kept saying \"banana - peel - wah!\" again and again. It's so funny! :lol:

[Busymom]

minnie2004:

Hi buds,


It is obvious from your posts that you and your hubs love each other very much. Hope everything will work out fine for you guys. Love will conquer all - including all the evIL forces. :nunchuk: I fully support your decision to move out, which should have been done 10 years ago. It's worth it even if it means you have to go back to work again.

btw, my little boy couldn't take his eyes off your avatar as I was going thru this thread. he kept saying \"banana - peel - wah!\" again and again. It's so funny! :lol:

My DS is a fan too! And that was from the avatar-days and till today, if he sees that I am here, he would say that he wants to see the BANANA!

buds dear,

All of us would be for you and your family that things would work out. Have faith in yourself and buds_hub. We will kick his a** if need be, ok?

Take care for now. :hugs:

[hquek]

buds:

In short, whatever shortcomings that were said of me i rose up to it and proved i was woman enough to see things through. Whatever ppl said tt i was this and i was that... i reflected and fine tuned when i found that it indeed cud make things better. So instead of going head-on with battle, i worked my kinks out one way or another. Neither did i shy away from it and go into denial...

You very power!! I shall continue to look up to you....very up.

Glad to see that your tone is much more positive. I'm sure your dream house is calling out for you - focus, focus.

[autumnbronze]

buds:

autumnbronze:

But I know, somehow, that only

when it is dark enough, can you see the stars
Martin Junior King, Jr

Your profound literature finds its way in me and gives me peace. :hugs:

*gasp* unforgivable mistake

Shd be Martin LUTHER king Jr,

and not

Martin Junior King Jr *slaps forehead*

Gonna edit now ....