Being Naked In Front Of Kids

[MrsKiasu]

White_Gale:

ashana:

[quote=\"janet88\"]My daughter and I bathe together....maybe still ok since she is still young. But my hubby refuses to bathe at same time with son.

I think daughter mother, father son bathe together is acceptable. Mother can teach daughter what is outrage of modesty and how to protect their body. I find it uncomfortable for father to change diaper and bathe daughter though.

My mom bathe my 2 year younger brother and me together when we were young. I still find it uncomfortable whenever I recalled that. :oops:

I know of a man who brags how his 8 year old son is aroused by his mother's breasts. He is proud of how his son loves to fondle his mother's breasts and feeling sexually aroused. He claimed that is man's instinct. This man is lecherous and disrespectful with female colleagues at work place. I can't help to feel disgusted at the thought of him being naked in front of his daughter. Fortunately, he doesn't have a daughter.

Being naked in front of kids aren't really big deal for parents but it could have an impact for kids when they are not ready.

that guy is a bit too much...what kind of upbringing is he teaching his son?[/quote]I think this father is probably imagining or hallucinating la..difficult to have both dad & mom not thinking straight at the same time

[ashana]

White_Gale:

ashana:

[quote=\"janet88\"]My daughter and I bathe together....maybe still ok since she is still young. But my hubby refuses to bathe at same time with son.

I think daughter mother, father son bathe together is acceptable. Mother can teach daughter what is outrage of modesty and how to protect their body. I find it uncomfortable for father to change diaper and bathe daughter though.

My mom bathe my 2 year younger brother and me together when we were young. I still find it uncomfortable whenever I recalled that. :oops:

I know of a man who brags how his 8 year old son is aroused by his mother's breasts. He is proud of how his son loves to fondle his mother's breasts and feeling sexually aroused. He claimed that is man's instinct. This man is lecherous and disrespectful with female colleagues at work place. I can't help to feel disgusted at the thought of him being naked in front of his daughter. Fortunately, he doesn't have a daughter.

Being naked in front of kids aren't really big deal for parents but it could have an impact for kids when they are not ready.

that guy is a bit too much...what kind of upbringing is he teaching his son?[/quote]There are all types of parenting style. I can't judge his but I certainly disagree with this man. :siao:

[ashana]

MrsKiasu:

I think this father is probably imagining or hallucinating la..difficult to have both dad & mom not thinking straight at the same time

I think this father is :siao: :siao: :siao: If the wife is sane, I pity the wife.

[janet88]

I just don’t understand why hubby finds it so squeamish to bathe together with son…what’s the big deal?

with my daughter, I will take the chance to explain the changes in the body as she grows…also teach her how to wash undies so that when she reaches puberty, she will wash her own.

[ashana]

janet88:

I just don't understand why hubby finds it so squeamish to bathe together with son...what's the big deal?

LOL! We all have some undisclosed unexplainable boundaries I think.

[janet88]

ashana:

janet88:

I just don't understand why hubby finds it so squeamish to bathe together with son...what's the big deal?

LOL! We all have some undisclosed unexplainable boundaries I think.

funny isn't it? men can use urinals...but why is hubby refusing to bathe at the same time as son? I usually get the 2 men to bathe first...then after that I start the washing machine while showering with daughter.

[ashana]

janet88:

ashana:

[quote=\"janet88\"]I just don't understand why hubby finds it so squeamish to bathe together with son...what's the big deal?

LOL! We all have some undisclosed unexplainable boundaries I think.

funny isn't it? men can use urinals...but why is hubby refusing to bathe at the same time as son? I usually get the 2 men to bathe first...then after that I start the washing machine while showering with daughter.[/quote] :rotflmao: We once had this discussion among peers. The feedback from males are peeing and showering is different. Men will not stare and look at others penis when they pee in public toilets. Moreover, they know how to cover the exposed part. :rotflmao: However, showering together is exposing entire body to be stared at. I think they feel insecure especially in front of their own son and not confident to handle the questions the son will pop out during shower.

[janet88]

ashana:

I think they feel insecure especially in front of their own son and not confident to handle the questions the son will pop out during shower.

as in 'why yours bigger and mine so small?' :rotflmao: or why yours have hair and mine doesn't?

[ashana]

janet88:

ashana:

I think they feel insecure especially in front of their own son and not confident to handle the questions the son will pop out during shower.

as in 'why yours bigger and mine so small?' :rotflmao: or why yours have hair and mine doesn't?

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: I think men can't handle such questions as naturally as females. At the same time, I think is also more awkward when the child's height is at eye level with the penis. :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

[ChiefKiasu]

janet88:

I just don't understand why hubby finds it so squeamish to bathe together with son...what's the big deal? .....

Men and women are wired differently. For example, I will cringe if I my masseur is a man! I would not bathe together with my kids either, boy or girl.