Why teens and young adults trade so easily?

[corneyAmber]

It seems like a vicious circle and progress does not mean that we actually become better, only faster.

[tankee]

when I read about such youth, I often wonder about their background and upbringing.


do they belong to the majority or geneal youth today? or to the minority that had fallen out of the mainstream.

:?

[3Boys]

Society is getting more liberal in general. Conservative values are considered old fashioned and outdated, and parents who try to instill them in their children come under assault from all manners of external parties who seek to undermine their authority.

[daisyt]

Saw this article on omy.


少女‘另类’喜好　找摄影师拍床照

http://news.omy.sg/News/Local%2BNews/Story/OMYStory201004131505-143297.html

[Funz]

Cannot help but keep thinking why so gullible, so stupid and where are their morals? Pay you $200 you sleep with a stranger! They are 19 and 20 leh, not 12 or 13yrs old. Are they really so insecure and unsure of themselves?

[3Boys]

Funz:

Cannot help but keep thinking why so gullible, so stupid and where are their morals? Pay you $200 you sleep with a stranger! They are 19 and 20 leh, not 12 or 13yrs old. Are they really so insecure and unsure of themselves?

Morals are taught, modelled and imbibed, children do not automatically have a conscience of their own but learn from their immediate families and surroundings. It is as much an indictment of their parents and society as it is of them.

[Funz]

tankee:

when I read about such youth, I often wonder about their background and upbringing.


do they belong to the majority or geneal youth today? or to the minority that had fallen out of the mainstream.

:?

I would like to think that they are the minority. I do not dare to even venture to think that it's the majority cos that would mean that the majority are that gullible and stupid and lack common sense.

[Funz]

3Boys:

Funz:

Cannot help but keep thinking why so gullible, so stupid and where are their morals? Pay you $200 you sleep with a stranger! They are 19 and 20 leh, not 12 or 13yrs old. Are they really so insecure and unsure of themselves?

Morals are taught, modelled and imbibed, children do not automatically have a conscience of their own but learn from their immediate families and surroundings. It is as much an indictment of their parents and society as it is of them.

Which is why I say I hope these fellas are the minority. I cannot imagine that so many parents have failed that badly.

Then again, if we keep saying it is parents, and society that led to a child having a loose moral compass then we are giving the kids the greenlight to continue being so without taking responsibility for their own actions. It is never their responsibility or their choice and anything bad or undesirable that happens is always because of one reason or another but never themselves.

Ok. Better stop here.

[3Boys]

Funz:

It is never their responsibility or their choice and anything bad or undesirable that happens is always because of one reason or another but never themselves.

Shared culpability. Child rearing is a complex business; some nature, some nurture, some internal, some external. I can't help but feel though, that if a girl were brought up in a conservative way, as in not to even get close to a situation where she is alone with a strange man in a hotel room, would this even happen?

[skunk]

It’s too simplistic to blame it on morals and values.


They’re just lonely, thinking that by sleeping with people, they are being loved, they will get companionship, they will get understanding, they will not be lonely anymore.

Dad busy playing computer games in the room, Mom busy going through files brought back from office, Didi in his own room playing his own computer game, Meimei in her own room playing with her own computer game…Jiejie feels so lonely. She also switches on her computer, plays multi-player games. She interacts with other people on the game, will that ease her loneliness?

Afterall, she has 29 other classmates in school, right? Or are they all, or mostly holed up in their own rooms, playing their own computer games? Are they disproportionately spending more time doing homework than interacting with each other?

In the old days, siblings spent lots of time "interacting" with each other, multiple kids fighting over the right to use the toilet, fighting over one single TV set, fighting over one single 386 computer to play Space Invaders. Children spent lots of time fighting with the neighbourhood bully at the playground, planning grand hoaxes with the imps next door.

Today, one kid = 1 bedroom + own toilet + own TV + own computer = loneliness, inability to form proper relationships with other humans. Basically living in their own world.

If i were to be isolated in my own deserted island for 15 years, i would hug, kiss the next passing sailor, regardless of whether he smells of fish LOL won’t anyone?