Blissfulmum of 3

[HyperKiasu]

Blissfulmum:

DS2 is what some pple said a \"gifted\" child, so handling him could sometimes be more challenging. On eof his teacher actually said that he is in teenage stage but in a primary school body.. very curious, very daring, very himselfhe gives me the most headache and yet I love him most His form teacher once told me, when I felt that I am a failed mother, and has lost my wits to tackle his everyday \"non-sense\" - \"God\" knows I can handle the challenge that's why HE gave me this kinda of child, I should be thankful that he is bright and intelligent.. and I may be surprise that DS2 could be the pride of my life. Well, am still hoping...

I dont need my children to be doctors, lawyers, entrepreneurs, but I just had a simple wish... that they will lead a decent life, with decent jobs, healthy, happy, contented... they could be just a cashier or a F&B manager.. or whatever.. but all I wish for is that will lead a happy life...

That's all i asked for.

Super mom??hmmm... I am not sure...really. Cos I think I am not exactly one.. keke... I am quite \"dida apa\" sometimes... and let them 'roam' themselves.. unlike DH...

Anyway, this is a nice place.. and I am happy to be part of this forum.. to learn from parents here... to be a REAL super mom!

Cheers, BlissM

will your other kids jealous if you only love the \"gifted\" one most?

[Blissfulmum]

HyperKiasu:

will your other kids jealous if you only love the \"gifted\" one most?

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Actually, no... cos even DS2 also didn't realise it! LOL.. but i tear more for him lor.. LOL

[HyperKiasu]

Blissfulmum:

Actually, no... cos even DS2 also didn't realise it! LOL.. but i tear more for him lor.. LOL

why? :?

[Blissfulmum]

HyperKiasu:

why? :?

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cos he always make trouble in school lor... inquisitive mind.. like to try this and that.. like \"scientist\"... then i have to go school and or student care to \"apologise\".. and clear his \"shit\" for him.

come home.. do \"counselling\"...

Knowing he is just a child.. an innocent child.. and i always believe that he is really not naughty, but just like to \"try\" and \"see\" what will happened.. kind of thing.. u know what i mean??

but some \"old school\" teachers will think he is naughty.. and \"new school\" teachers and/or school counsellor who is professionally trained, will accept him as he is.. and brand him as \"GIFTED\", \"SPECIAL\"... he is a sweet to me. No matter what the \"old school\" teachers say.. I still strongly believe that he is a sweet. Many many things he said or done.. that touches me - so sometimes, i will cry lor.. when he \"misbehaves\"... u know what i mean? .. some times... i feel that i am a failed mother...

Tha't probably the dilemma of a normal mother with a brighter kid. I'm just an ordinary kid when I was a kid.. and sometimes, i will be witsless when it comes to handling brighter kids .. that's all....hahahhaha.....LOL

BlissM

[HyperKiasu]

no no no, u r not a failed mother…

i think he is smart by nature. very inquisitive, observant, exploring life…can understand why u love him most becoz u have to devote more time to him…

[KoalaMummy]

wow blissmum, you echoed my life too… my P4 ds (eldest) is like that too… really challenging to handle him…sometimes i wonder why he’s so different from his didi and mei mei, who are more obedient than him…but…he’s different, as you mentioned. God created him this way, and we just have to love and accept him as he is, however tough it is, right?

[Blissfulmum]

HyperKiasu:

no no no, u r not a failed mother....

i think he is smart by nature. very inquisitive, observant, exploring life....can understand why u love him most becoz u have to devote more time to him....

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hmmm... no, in fact, I am extremely guilty. I don't think I have put in enough time for my boys, since DD3 is a super glue when she is at home with me.

I felt sorry and guilty to DS1 cos it's barely 18mos different between DS1 and DS2. I \"leave\" DS1 very much to DH since DS2 was born.. and now I regretted it. Not that DH is a terrible father, but I \"lost\" the closness with DS1.. in someways.. he is satisfied with watching TV, playing comp games or PSP the whole day and he is OK if we leave him alone doing that the whole day!!

DS's character is entirely different!! he needs varieties and changes! he can't stand doing one thing the whole day or most of the time. In fact, he did once told me that he is lonely... even though he has a brother who is similiar age to him, he has a room full of games, computers, PSP.. he wants more than 1 person playing monopoly with him!!

But as u know, I am already very exhausted after work and remaining energy goes all to my DD3...

I am truly guilty.. and that's why i don't call myself super mom.. cos i am really not.....

[KoalaMummy]

Blissfulmum:

that's why i don't call myself super mom.. cos i am really not.....

well, i gues none of us can qualify \"super mom\"... we just have to love our children and care for them....

[Blissfulmum]

KoalaMummy:

wow blissmum, you echoed my life too... my P4 ds (eldest) is like that too... really challenging to handle him...sometimes i wonder why he's so different from his didi and mei mei, who are more obedient than him...but...he's different, as you mentioned. God created him this way, and we just have to love and accept him as he is, however tough it is, right?

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yes, KoalaMummy, it's tough... but it's somewhat...a pleasant experience ... Shd be thankful that they are bright? dont' we?

[KoalaMummy]

Blissfulmum:

yes, KoalaMummy, it's tough... but it's somewhat...a pleasant experience ... Shd be thankful that they are bright? dont' we?

agree :celebrate: