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    • P Offline
      Poppyy
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      Lavender123\" post_id=\"1961895\" time=\"1580786554\" user_id=\"175912:

      I alway wanted to hire a full-time maid but I am worry about living with a 'stranger' kind of feeling.
      Any advice on this?
      Hmm, I guess it depends on how badly u need the maid and how big is ur hse.
      Mine she will go to one corner whenever we are having a conversation. Takes sometime to adjust I'm afraid.
      If possible, try not to have one unless bobiam eg, need them To tc elderly or children

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        Poppyy
        last edited by

        In midst of this corona virus, anyone asking their maid to rest at home during their off day? Are they willing?

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          Poppyy
          last edited by

          Hi guys,


          Nd advise.
          My maid who’s been w me for 4 mth is now saying she wanna go back indo.
          Reason - she has hep b (which she and e agent who knew abt it did not tell me) and her 3 kids are sick from the hep b as well.
          She’s saying her chest area is turning yellow and she is suffering from very bad headache.

          Her request is to go back indo, not transfer but she hasn’t finish paying her loan.

          What shld I do?

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          • SimplicitysuzyS Offline
            Simplicitysuzy
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            If she has loan, just bring her back to agent & let agent handle. If u send her home, u might not be Able to get replacement. Go Agent office & bag table. Say why give u a hep b maid!!

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              Poppyy
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              Simplicitysuzy\" post_id=\"1964107\" time=\"1582135111\" user_id=\"149222:

              If she has loan, just bring her back to agent & let agent handle. If u send her home, u might not be Able to get replacement. Go Agent office & bag table. Say why give u a hep b maid!!
              I damn sian. This is my 2nd maid.

              First one attitude prob , wk for less than a mth she requested to go back agency after I asked her to wash clothes. (previously I wash myself, I know I'm stupid) So I sent her packing.

              This is e 2nd one, wk for 4 mth. I suspect she can't adapt well as its her first overseas assignment and I noticed when she arrived she ear marked the guidebook given by mom on returning home.

              The thought of retraining + paying for work permit /medical /insurance /transport =$600
              -_-''

              And there's no guarantee that she will stay

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              • starlight1968sgS Offline
                starlight1968sg
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                There is a letter related to FDWs:

                https://www.straitstimes.com/forum/maid-agencies-abusing-their-powers

                For transfer maids, am also puzzled why they hv loans etc. My current is a transfer maid and she has a loan to pay to the agent.

                Am curious after 2 years with us, if we want her to continue working, how to avoid paying middleman fees?

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                • EstéemaE Offline
                  Estéema
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                  starlight1968sg\" post_id=\"1964577\" time=\"1582502580\" user_id=\"14025:

                  There is a letter related to FDWs:
                  https://www.straitstimes.com/forum/maid-agencies-abusing-their-powers

                  For transfer maids, am also puzzled why they hv loans etc. My current is a transfer maid and she has a loan to pay to the agent.

                  Am curious after 2 years with us, if we want her to continue working, how to avoid paying middleman fees?
                  Renew yr helper’s WP directly using MOM online rather than go back to agent. You don’t hv to go vackbto Agent if u renew her WP on yr own. It costs only $35, pay direct to MOM, if u do yr own renewal.

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                    geat
                    last edited by

                    Hi there,

                    How do I complain about a maid.
                    Currently I have her details like her:
                    Full Name
                    Date of Birth
                    Religion
                    Country

                    I also have her details like her
                    mobile phone number, her address, photo (all these possible intelligence gathering in facebook)

                    However, the maid is not directly employed by us.
                    She ask my husband whether want to go happy happy with another lady because she needs money and she gladly did.

                    Will complain to MOM help as I don’t have her FIN number and such?
                    I was able find an agency that she tried to seek help seeking employment.
                    But to my disappointment, the agency did not employ her.

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                    • EstéemaE Offline
                      Estéema
                      last edited by

                      geat\" post_id=\"1968038\" time=\"1584847228\" user_id=\"184791:

                      Hi there,
                      How do I complain about a maid.
                      Currently I have her details like her:
                      Full Name
                      Date of Birth
                      Religion
                      Country

                      I also have her details like her
                      mobile phone number, her address, photo (all these possible intelligence gathering in facebook)

                      However, the maid is not directly employed by us.
                      She ask my husband whether want to go happy happy with another lady because she needs money and she gladly did.

                      Will complain to MOM help as I don't have her FIN number and such?
                      I was able find an agency that she tried to seek help seeking employment.
                      But to my disappointment, the agency did not employ her.
                      If she solicit yr husband, get him to report her officially with proof of course (WhatsApp msgs, etc). Once investigated, she’ll be sent back. My gfrd’s maid solicit & sent back immediately by police.

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                        geat
                        last edited by

                        Here is what she did:

                        Maid: #########
                        Maid :xyz number
                        Maid: you want happy happy with xyz or not
                        Maid: very pook xyz need money

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