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    $350k for 1 child?

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    • A Offline
      autumn82
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      I think if we gonna calculate their expenses since antenatal care... the amount would be more than 350k!! zzz :lol: :lol: :lol:

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        tree nymph
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        smurf:
        an article in a magazine suggested that it cost a parent $350k to raise a child. including university education. it even said that if a couple both working and earn total $10k a mth, would have to work for about 15 yrs in order to save such amount.

        Do you agree?
        i think quite true...

        😢 😢 😢

        no wonder money always not enough!!

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          markfch
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          smurf:
          an article in a magazine suggested that it cost a parent $350k to raise a child. including university education. it even said that if a couple both working and earn total $10k a mth, would have to work for about 15 yrs in order to save such amount.

          Do you agree?
          Is that why my SIL refused to have kids? Is that why my other SIL refused to get married?

          But having said that, I recently read this book called '100 Inspiring Rafflesians'. In it, I found out that quite a few of our trailblazers came from very poor families. These families definitely couldn't afford $35K per kid, let alone $350K. So we don't nec need to spend $350K for our kids to be successful. But being the kiasuparents that we are, I guess we won't mind spending this amt if we can afford it.

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            ChiefKiasu
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            smurf:
            an article in a magazine suggested that it cost a parent $350k to raise a child. including university education. it even said that if a couple both working and earn total $10k a mth, would have to work for about 15 yrs in order to save such amount.

            Do you agree?
            Actually, I think $350K is a gross underestimate.

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              MOE Hater
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              ChiefKiasu:
              smurf:

              an article in a magazine suggested that it cost a parent $350k to raise a child. including university education. it even said that if a couple both working and earn total $10k a mth, would have to work for about 15 yrs in order to save such amount.

              Do you agree?

              Actually, I think $350K is a gross underestimate.

              Agree.
              There are lot of implications here
              1. Its 350K when - as of when the child is 21 years or when the child is born? if it is 21 years later then surely it is an underestimate.

              2. Are these the just the expenses- like do you include child care /maid, so if the mum stays home and looks after is a monetary value put to it too? If the parents teach instead of sending to tutions/enrichment - is that added too.

              This corporate way of monetizing every thing often doesnt represent reality. :roll:
              Like- some would be paid to put in their to give advice on some isues.
              At KSP we get it for free. The catch is no gaurentees here.
              Aiyo, going OT here

              And yes- kids are worth a million bucks , so there 😛
              And dont forget to plan retirement 😞

              From,
              this idiot's mom

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                dolphinsiah
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                smurf:
                an article in a magazine suggested that it cost a parent $350k to raise a child. including university education. it even said that if a couple both working and earn total $10k a mth, would have to work for about 15 yrs in order to save such amount.

                Do you agree?
                Yes...I totally agree...I have 2 kids ....which I always said I have 2 -4 rm HDB to support...
                :?:

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                  smurf
                  last edited by

                  I think the amount is a reasonable amount starting from when a child is born. until the child reached 21 yo or after he/she completed UNI education?? :?


                  350k would include maternity fee, medical fee, school fee, food, toys, enrichment, etc.

                  these would be in reasonable amount I guess?? meaning, the enrichment or school should be ok kind, not excessively cheap or super expensive kind, toys should be reasonable quantity??

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                    hquek
                    last edited by

                    dolphinsiah:
                    smurf:

                    an article in a magazine suggested that it cost a parent $350k to raise a child. including university education. it even said that if a couple both working and earn total $10k a mth, would have to work for about 15 yrs in order to save such amount.

                    Do you agree?

                    Yes...I totally agree...I have 2 kids ....which I always said I have 2 -4 rm HDB to support...
                    :?:

                    Sorrie, nowadays 350K cannot buy 4 room flat - in some cases not even those 30 yr old ones. :!:

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                      shine_fs
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                      girlmum:
                      $350K for 1 child. :!: :!: :!: Wah piang! Pok kai already! I have 2 kids.... $700k :!: :!: :!: :!: :!: :!: No more retail therapy/facial..... 😢


                      $700k later not filial.. die die :stupid: :stupid:
                      :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

                      Don't forget insurances we buy for them.......

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                        kaitlynangelica
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                        I have always been fully aware that it is never cheap to raise a child. Thats why I had dd only after a few years of marriage. All the more so in this day and age because it is competitive and I think we owe it to our children to give them the best and ensure that they can fend for themselves later on. I do not agree with some of the other KSP’s that it is not our obligation to give them a university education. In 15 years time, a unit education is likely to cost >$100k. Unless they can get a scholarship, how do you expect a child then to work part-time to pay off the fees?


                        It never ceases to amaze me how ppl can have kids without taking the cost into consideration. I know someone with 3 kids; the first was a honeymoon baby, she had the second one because she wanted the tax rebate, and the third one because she wanted a girl. She is a FTWM who also had no time for them. Couldn’t afford enrichment classes either, not even swimming lessons. As a result, the kids today resent her. I know of another person who has 2 kids and never took the cost into consideration either. They just wanted two kids and went ahead without thinking. Today, both husband and wife argue about who to foot the childcare fees.

                        In another forum that I am on, some parents were discussing how the costs increase in secondary school. Some actually expressed surprise and said that they have to start saving now. Isn’t it a bit late? Shouldn’t they had considered all this when the kids were young or not even born yet?

                        I think $350K is not enough. More likely $500K.

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