Me Time!

[sharonkhoo]

zac's mum\" post_id=\"2092202\" time=\"1671095807\" user_id=\"53606:[quote=\"zac's mum\" post_id=2092202 time=1671095807 user_id=53606]
I have the same contrast from my child. Yes it’s good for them to explore more possibilities & consider what suits their strengths & personality best.[/quote]

Speaking from my experience, I think one of the most important things that we parents can do for our kids is to help them recognise the skills they have, their personalities, etc. When they think along those lines, they will be better able to look at different jobs (some which may not even exist at the moment) and assess if they suit. While it's natural that they like to put a name on a job they like, e.g. 'tour guide', we can help them not pigeonhole themselves into looking only at a particular job. Who knows what will be available by the time your son is in his 20s and 30s.

[Estéema]

zac's mum\" post_id=\"2092202\" time=\"1671095807\" user_id=\"53606:[quote=\"zac's mum\" post_id=2092202 time=1671095807 user_id=53606]
I have the same contrast from my child. Yes it’s good for them to explore more possibilities & consider what suits their strengths & personality best.[/quote]

Exposure is good for Zac. He’s probably very excited & relate well visiting the Holy Land. Gives him more exposure & he’ll not stop at just Tour Guide as work. I rmbr yons ago, Uncle Jek invited some Air Pilot dads, Police Superintendent, Lawyers, etc, as a male bonding activity at the library. Maybe shld revisit that. We did some Aeroplane & boat-making activities too.

[MrsKiasu]

My children don’t have aspiration (yet) I feel. But to me is we try la to do in our best way at all stages in our lives. Like when you are student then it is to study ba (told my children multiple time just hope everything will go ok eventually lor).


Whatever jobs that results may bring them to…I will just hope they will develop passion on whatever they ended up studying/ doing and be happy about it…that’s what their parents do.

[MrsKiasu]

I think kids are still ‘searching’… esp. when the exposure is limited…like my dd…housewife was ever her ‘job/aspiration’ … then at one point asked me if it is like this always (i think abt being monotonous if I m not wrong)…then she says she doesn’t quite like it le.

[lee_yl]

Liew Nga Wing\" post_id=\"2092191\" time=\"1671086696\" user_id=\"195250:[quote=\"Liew Nga Wing\" post_id=2092191 time=1671086696 user_id=195250]
Why the kids want to become a doctor? To save life and cure patients who are suffering from illness? Even they cannot become a doctor finally because of exam results, they still can become a physical therapist, a nurse or radiation therapist, etc any jobs related to the medical industries. The most important part is : their jobs in anyway are still helping the patients.

Same for solicitors, if you want to uphold the justice, there are many jobs in judicial industries helping the victims.

We should also respect those sweep the roads because without them, our roads will be dirty.[/quote]

All good and well in an utopian society but we are living in the real world and reality bites.

I respect all jobs and I value everyone’s contributions but I am also realistic enough to know that life is very tough for the blue collar workers and lower skill workers.

So if given the choice, for a better future of my children, I (and many parents) choose to aim high so that they could have more options on how to live their lives. A solicitor who chooses to practise pro bono and not be a general counsel in a MNC has the freedom to live the life he wants while others may not even have the right to choose.

[MrsKiasu]

During our time..if you are about my age, we were considered 'quite' educated..bring it to today's world, we are really a very normal ones or maybe below average in terms of cert held..Not only comparing us with our next door home neighbours..you see so many 'international' level of people with 'international' level of qualifications nowadays. It may be more difficult to be at top level in a corporation for our future gen I feel but I may be wrong..personally I am at the pro side for parents to aim for our children to be better than us.. can push to max potential just push lor.. if cannot then it is fine too..we just need 1 job to feed us and family

[MrsKiasu]

Estéema\" post_id=\"2092187\" time=\"1671083054\" user_id=\"66413:

Might be 0.25. Best expected is a 0.5 increase. If 0.75 then stock mkt will shoot thro the roof. Don’t think FED will let that happen.

As little increase as possible..those with loan praying for it..today's sora rate is 1.6x.. maybe tomorrow will go up..it will be good if we could analyse it haha..

[Estéema]

MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"2092212\" time=\"1671108353\" user_id=\"43981:

As little increase as possible..those with loan praying for it..today's sora rate is 1.6x.. maybe tomorrow will go up..it will be good if we could analyse it haha..

Inflation in both Europe & the US maybe going downwards, but every country’s economic situation is different. Also, our govt also need to balance local fiscal needs. Hope US companies will slow down in retrenching staff here & relieve price pressures do food supplies, commodities & daily necessities. Housing pressures is ano inflation indicator, which is less difficult to manage if our economy need more foreign talents with housing needs & theres hot money fr regional investors.

[starlight1968sg]

lee_yl\" post_id=\"2092210\" time=\"1671106410\" user_id=\"17023:

I respect all jobs and I value everyone’s contributions but I am also realistic enough to know that life is very tough for the blue collar workers and lower skill workers.

Agree esp with prices of almost everything hv gone up.
Bus/train fares will be increased from 26 Dec (?). GST will be up to 8% from 7% from 1 Jan 2023 etc. Despite the lower income or needy folk can receive various subsidies/handouts from govt, it is always better to be indept than relying or depending on others.

It is always better to be able to give than waiting to receive.

[Liew Nga Wing]

lee_yl\" post_id=\"2092210\" time=\"1671106410\" user_id=\"17023:

All good and well in an utopian society but we are living in the real world and reality bites.

I respect all jobs and I value everyone’s contributions but I am also realistic enough to know that life is very tough for the blue collar workers and lower skill workers.

So if given the choice, for a better future of my children, I (and many parents) choose to aim high so that they could have more options on how to live their lives. A solicitor who chooses to practise pro bono and not be a general counsel in a MNC has the freedom to live the life he wants while others may not even have the right to choose.

Is the life for blue collar workers and low skill workers really tough? I and DH are one of them but our life is not tough. :scratchhead: Of course, we are not stay in condominium and travel to Europe every year or going to dine in 5 Star Hotel every weekend. But we are happy and our life is good.

It seems that you still don't get my point. I am not saying that kids no need to study hard and struggle for excellent academic achievement. I want to state is the \"attitude or 心态\" towards study. If one going to school is to equip himself/herself with knowledge so that he or she can benefit the society and serve the country, then even he/she cannot get into the top schools or any professional field due to whatever reasons, they won't be sad and disappointed because they still can find other ways to serve the community. If one's aim for study is to climb up the ladders in society, earn lots of money so that can maintenance a high standard of living or some even just wanted to show others that they are superior to others....., then he/she will be under huge of pressure for studying under any type of education system because the desire for fame and wealth is uncontrolled.