In-law problems?

[Mrs Ang]

my hdb appeal for early sale is rejected!

[shine_fs]

Mrs Ang:

my hdb appeal for early sale is rejected!

Ask your MP for help.....

[Mrs Ang]

DD is sick so plan to visit MP next week. Is it better to bring DD there?

[Andaiz]

Mrs Ang:

DD is sick so plan to visit MP next week. Is it better to bring DD there?

why subject her to the wait, Mrs Ang?

[mummy of 2]

autumnbronze:

Hi mummy of 2,


Knowing buds, I think this list is 'work in progress' .... so fret not k....

I sure hope so, otherwise will be so

[Mrs Ang]

Andaiz:

Mrs Ang:

DD is sick so plan to visit MP next week. Is it better to bring DD there?

why subject her to the wait, Mrs Ang?

DH said better to bring her there....I also don't understand. Anyway DH has appt tmr nite so also cannot meet MP. Does anyone here has any experience meeting the MP. It's my first time.

[janet88]

Mrs Ang:

Andaiz:

[quote=\"Mrs Ang\"]DD is sick so plan to visit MP next week. Is it better to bring DD there?

why subject her to the wait, Mrs Ang?

DH said better to bring her there....I also don't understand. Anyway DH has appt tmr nite so also cannot meet MP. Does anyone here has any experience meeting the MP. It's my first time.[/quote]Your child is not well, why bring her along ?

[buds]

I'm so exhausted dealing with my ILs on a daily basis.

I cannot take any more excitement than i already have
the last ten years. I'm giving it my all..... all the strength
that i have left to pit for my happiness and i sincerely pray
hubs will stand up for US this time... stand for me and what
our relationship... what our marriage means to him. I want to feel
important and the centre of his life just like how he treats his mom.

The only difference is i don't bad mouth and make up stories. Yet i'm
always the black sheep. That is what i get for being too forgiving? Not tt
i don't mind or i bo chap. I DO mind & i'm extremely hurt from the 10yrs
of emotional abuse. I've come out all bruised and swollen but heck definitely
stronger.

Last heard, BIL is not keen to take them in. Finding many way outs and
excuses. But i :salute: him for taking his wife and kids into consideration
first ALL the time. He says, he must be able to handle his family first cos
if they're not happy then he won't be either. Not having the parents in
with them will help to avoid conflict. Having conflicts with his wife over
them will definitely make him unhappy. Clever hor.. Mine wud rather i
endure the conflicts & ensure they got a space to stay... even when it
meant a very emotionally straining relationship. Hubs never believes
me when i'm sad things happen.. I'm tired.. just really worn out...
exhausted... all i want is for us to live our own lives.

I sincerely hope hubs does not force me to take them in to stay with us
@ our new place cos i'm honestly done dealing with them.. i've had enuf.
I honestly cannot take any more.

[Mrs Ang]

buds, I can understand how you feel and admire how u can tolerate this for 10 years. I that your ILs will not stay with you. All the best and no matter what happen please be strong.

[tree nymph]

Oh dear Buds!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :shock: :shock:


This will be terrible!

Can your hubs and your BIL contribute some money for your PIL to buy a flat for them to stay on their own? very jialat if this is the case, reverting back to the original status!!!!!!!!!