Pls help my p4 gal....

[Jennifer]

Like banging on your bedroom door when you are upset, ok let’s take down the door.


Dun like to brush your teeth properly, ok let’s visit the dentist n pull all out.

Sometimes we must really put our foot down.

My elder boy now wakes up on his own once his alarm clock rings. Now training the younger one to do so too.

If the child really has prob waking up refreshed in the morning, one might want to check how well the child sleeps at night, any snoring, sleeping with mouth open, teeth grinding, sleep talking, etc.

[fussyMummy]

Hi,


Just sharing...

My P4 girl started to wake up by herself (with alarm clock) this Nov 10, preparing herself to school without any help or nag from me...




Perhaps I was too pampered her :? , help to do most of her things. As in my mind she just is a kid. Didn't realise that have to let her be independent.

:celebrate:

[24hr-mum]

i hv 3 kids, #2, a boy, being the most challening, whine when dun want to get up, dont want to do work, dont want to brush teeth, dont want to feed himself (he is 5), when u serve bread he wants noodle, when u serve noodle he wants bread, when we got out, he wants to buy toys, when u say cant, he will ask for other things, just to get his way.


for such behavr, its purely bad attitude. despite talkg, reasoning, etc. wont listen. just want his way. he will either whine or act - by crying or appearing like so poor thing, etc if didnt get his way.

it was worse when he was young - lie on the flr in public, run away etc but over the years of disciplining, is better now.

i hv only 1 solution n it often works to cure his bad attitude, whc many may disagree, is to show the rod - my super cane. spare the rod n spoil the child, is my motto. not that i use it immediately but he often wont budge and will test my patience until the last straw is broken.

to me, the child also need to learn what is respect, responsibility, and boundary.