In-law problems?

[janet88]

CatTy 007:

Yup, very true. But i feel it's essential to still stay nearby cos good to inculcate strong family bonds to our children.

Sorry I can't bring myself to stay near in-laws as their values aren't very good. I had a tough time in first few years after marriage - issues like hygiene and wrong mindset.

[CatTy 007]

Jia jia you Ben nan nian de jing… Must be hard on u. Take care ya

[janet88]

CatTy 007:

Jia jia you Ben nan nian de jing... Must be hard on u. Take care ya

I am very particular about hygiene. That was the hardest part.

[minnie2004]

janet_lee88:

CatTy 007:

Jia jia you Ben nan nian de jing... Must be hard on u. Take care ya

I am very particular about hygiene. That was the hardest part.

same here! It seems my mil's family has v different hygiene standards from my family, and its evident that the bad habits have been passed to her 2 sons. This was also the reason she kicked me out of her house when we visited her in the US when dd was 10 months old. Hygiene was especially important for small babies and it's not something I was ready to compromise. My relationship with mil was never good in the first place and this was like the last straw.

[janet88]

minnie2004:

janet_lee88:

[quote=\"CatTy 007\"]Jia jia you Ben nan nian de jing... Must be hard on u. Take care ya

I am very particular about hygiene. That was the hardest part.

same here! It seems my mil's family has v different hygiene standards from my family, and its evident that the bad habits have been passed to her 2 sons. [/quote]To begin with, the values she passes on are wrong. I cannot accept that.
Hygiene wise, I am very particular esp with SARS and HFMD now.

[Mrs Ang]

janet_lee88:

minnie2004:

[quote=\"janet_lee88\"]
I am very particular about hygiene. That was the hardest part.

same here! It seems my mil's family has v different hygiene standards from my family, and its evident that the bad habits have been passed to her 2 sons.

To begin with, the values she passes on are wrong. I cannot accept that.
Hygiene wise, I am very particular esp with SARS and HFMD now.[/quote]I also have hygiene issue with my mil's family thus my DH is still learning to adapt to my std.

[janet88]

Tell you something which may make you puke. BIL wears underwear SIDE A and SIDE B. If he doesn't go out, he can lie on the sofa/bed and not bathe. :?:


My hubby knows I'm particular about sticky and dusty floor. Toilets must be washed daily and personal hygiene has to be observed.

[duriz]

janet_lee88:

Tell you something which may make you puke. BIL wears underwear SIDE A and SIDE B. If he doesn't go out, he can lie on the sofa/bed and not bathe. :?:


My hubby knows I'm particular about sticky and dusty floor. Toilets must be washed daily and personal hygiene has to be observed.

:faint:

[Nebbermind]

janet_lee88:

Tell you something which may make you puke. BIL wears underwear SIDE A and SIDE B. If he doesn't go out, he can lie on the sofa/bed and not bathe. :?:


My hubby knows I'm particular about sticky and dusty floor. Toilets must be washed daily and personal hygiene has to be observed.

GOSH! u even know how your BIL wears his undies!!!
:!:

[janet88]

My hubby told me lah. So you faint or not ?

So ‘clean’ leh.