Anyone accused of being a good father but lousy husband?

[autumnbronze]

BigDevil:

Sun_2010:

[quote=\"BigDevil\"] Chief is indeed Hainanese[/url].

Wow Big D, u a lawyer???
Can dig up info from the tonnes of posts here??

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Haha...no I'm not a lawyer, but AB's hubby is. Right, AB?[/quote] :faint:



omy, you managed to dig that up too

[autumnbronze]

BigDevil:

This mata now very rusty leh...so long no word game oredi.

Well then you are probably just waiting for the game to start in Nov so that you can resuscitate your rusty skills back to life again, no? :lol:

[BigDevil]

autumnbronze:

BigDevil:

Haha...no I'm not a lawyer, but AB's hubby is. Right, AB?

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omy, you managed to dig that up too

This I didn't dig up...this one from memory.

Must remember in case some day I need a lawyer mah! :lol:

[BigDevil]

autumnbronze:

Well then you are probably just waiting for the game to start in Nov so that you can resuscitate your rusty skills back to life again, no? :lol:

If I don't turn to dust before that....

[autumnbronze]

LKVM:

AB ur hubby lawyer mah??? he takes which kinda cases? must remember him if in case need anything

I never confirm leh

[markfch]

autumnbronze:

LKVM:

AB ur hubby lawyer mah??? he takes which kinda cases? must remember him if in case need anything

I never confirm leh

But the fact that you didn't deny makes it a confirmation liao

[autumnbronze]

markfch:

autumnbronze:

[quote=\"LKVM\"]

AB ur hubby lawyer mah??? he takes which kinda cases? must remember him if in case need anything

I never confirm leh

But the fact that you didn't deny makes it a confirmation liao [/quote]
*(feigning) ignorance is bliss*



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[buds]

This one's for ya, sista!


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[Angelight]

Hi Markfch,


Perhaps you do not know your wifey's love language. Everyone of us has one or two primary love languages and a 'love tank' that needs to be filled up. But if we do not know our spouse's love language, we will not be able to fill up their love tank, thus leading to dissatisfaction and complaints in our marriage.

I just posted \"What is Your Love Language?\" in my blog. Maybe you could have a read and see which 'love language' applies to your wife and which to you. Then you both can work towards a more satisfying marriage.

markfch:

DW ever mentioned to me that she rated me an 'A' as a father but 'C-' as a husband. Everything I do, I do it for ds. Occasionally my conscious will prick me and that's when I'll try to do something for dw.

Recently I bought a $2k branded bag for dw and I felt the pinch, though I tried not to show it. But I'm sure if I were do the same for ds, I would feel very very happy. I'm not sure if it's a hainanese thing cos my father is also like that.

Anyone else is guilty of the same sin?

[markfch]

Angelight:

Hi Markfch,


Perhaps you do not know your wifey's love language. Everyone of us has one or two primary love languages and a 'love tank' that needs to be filled up. But if we do not know our spouse's love language, we will not be able to fill up their love tank, thus leading to dissatisfaction and complaints in our marriage.

I just posted \"What is Your Love Language?\" in my blog. Maybe you could have a read and see which 'love language' applies to your wife and which to you. Then you both can work towards a more satisfying marriage.

Thanks angelight. Just read your blog, very interesting. Btw, I'm not complaining at all. I think when we settle down with someone, the most impt criterion is that we are comfortable with the person we're settling down with. And I am extremely comfortable having dw alongside me.

For me, I guess I expect affection in the form of a nice hot cup of coffee daily (service). And I show affection by buying gifts (material).