Pri 1 child attacked by 5 classmates

[hapydino]

duriz:

Bo pianz Mummy hapydino.


I cannot tell someone else's child off, although it was tempting.

I told the maid (in a very stern voice) to take the girl off DD's bike. And we left the playroom shortly.

I have warned DH and MIL about the girl, her grandmother and maid. But they are much tougher than me. They'd suggested that if anything \"unsavory\" happened during their watch, they would tell the child, the grandmother and the maid off, no reservations.

My DD is the same as yours: 恶人没聸

true, but they have the audacity to climb onto your DD's bike hoh, horrible manners!! no paiseh one meh.. somemore push ur gal off her bike.. such bully..

NOD NOD NOD, 恶人没聸!!

[duriz]

Joeyz18:

duriz,

that is annoying, think i will be fuming mad if it happens to me :x

there was once i bring my boys go turb city public playground and there was two big boys with their fillipino maid. the two boys were super duper naughty, i can see while they are playing, they look ard to target on younger preys to disturb! they are be in upper pri judging from their movements and looks and height. both of them hang on the monkey bars upside down (legs hanging from the bars and swinging their heads and body to and fro), my son aged 6 and few kids were stunned by their stunts!

nevertheless, another serious thing is i discover one of the irritating boy
sitting below the slides twisting a hair pin(those metal type) and he placed the sharp hairpin thru the tiny holes on the slides, can you imagine how painful it would be if any kid step on it with bare foot!

just after a while at the other end, a mummy was complaining her small son's feets was cut and bleeding.

Yalor, Mummy Joeyz18.

I was super-duper ANGRY :x

If DD was hurt in any way and I saw blood.

THERE WILL BE BLOOD :x

But the episode you mentioned at your outing is outrageous and infuriating. What ARE the parents doing with their children, if anything at all?

My parents, although they never laid a hand on my older brother and I, made it VERY CLEAR to us that a hefty price would be paid if we would to misbehave (and be caught). My father is a very sweet man, we never once betray his love. My mommy is a dragon lady, we never once wanted to betray her love, for fear of our own safety

My PILs beat and discipline DH and BIL no end. Two very notty boys lah, I don't blame them

[chatelaine]

Yup, same here.


Maybe the school change their rules. If not, must be parents object to school public canning. I'm not too sure either, having lost touch for more than a decade. :?

starlight1968sg:

Joeyz18:

chatelaine,
in my school days was caning in the assembly hall serve as warning and also to shame the pupil that commited wrong.

Yes, during my school days too but many, many years ago!

[chatelaine]

Hi duriz


Err... Just say right in front of that kid \"How could you push my girl off her bike!\" Then quickly drag the girl off the bike return to your girl. Look at her with disgust.... hehehe So bad of me hor.

duriz:

WeiHan:

Nowaday, grandparents are in very difficult situation. Many DS and DD are making use of their parents to look after their own kids. But when even the slightest thing gone wrong, they will show their unhappy faces. How will the grand-nanny and daddy dare to to touch these young princes and princesses?

I'm not suggesting capital punishment.

How difficult is it to tell a 4 year old off, for pushing a 1 year old from her bike to the ground?

They were once parents themselves

[duriz]

chatelaine:

Hi duriz


Err... Just say right in front of that kid \"How could you push my girl off her bike!\" Then quickly drag the girl off the bike return to your girl. Look at her with disgust.... hehehe So bad of me hor.

If it was just the maid with the girl, yes I would have told the girl off. But I wouldn't touch the girl, in case she fell and the situation gets distorted.

But if there is a guardian around, I would expect them to discipline their charge. And if they didn't, I'd be upset at their behavior and not the child's.

I wouldn't like someone else to discipline my DD either.

[chatelaine]

Hi duriz


I would have shouted at that maid ... \"Hey, you come back. Do you think you own that bike?\"

To the grandmother:\"Shall I push your granddaughter on the floor and say the same time?\" At least apologize la, make such a remark.

duriz:

The maid ignored DD who was on the floor and I, who had rush to help DD up. The maid then pushed the older girl on DD's bike as if it was common property. The older girl's grandmother looked at DD and I and said:\" 不跌倒不长大!\" I retorted:\"被推倒可不一样!\"

JHMO parental guidance is vital to a child's growth, maturity, EQ & AQ.

[chatelaine]

Hi duriz


Err.. I mean carry her off the bike and let her sit on the floor.

If I hear no apologies from them or discipline their kid on the spot, I would just tell them off as I mentioned earlier.

duriz:

If it was just the maid with the girl, yes I would have told the girl off. But I wouldn't touch the girl, in case she fell and the situation gets distorted.

But if there is a guardian around, I would expect them to discipline their charge. And if they didn't, I'd be upset at their behavior and not the child's.

I wouldn't like someone else to discipline my DD either.

[WeiHan]

chatelaine:

Hi duriz


Err.. I mean carry her off the bike and let her sit on the floor.

If I hear no apologises from them or discipline their kid, I would just tell them off as I mentioned earlier.

duriz:

If it was just the maid with the girl, yes I would have told the girl off. But I wouldn't touch the girl, in case she fell and the situation gets distorted.

But if there is a guardian around, I would expect them to discipline their charge. And if they didn't, I'd be upset at their behavior and not the child's.

I wouldn't like someone else to discipline my DD either.

Can you just explain to the 4 years old that the bike is not hers and she should not push the 1 year old toddler? It is dangerous. Can you all use reasoning instead of being angry or use retarliating violence which is useless. For an adult to use violence on a 4 years old even though she was wrong for pushing the 1 year old is even more wrong. You will degrade yourselves to the 4 years old.

[chatelaine]

Hi WeiHan


Err... If they have no compassion, wouldn't the handicapped be bullied? Worst still, they have no ways to retaliate back.

Little animals... I fear for their life.

WeiHan:

I think there is no need to shame the parents but agree that there should be many creative ways to educate and inculcate these children to be gentle and loving in nature.

Why not send these bullies to look after handicapped children or little animals?

[chatelaine]

Hi WeiHan


Do you mean if I carry her off the bike is not right? That's considered violence????

Of course, I will explain to the little girl that it's not right to push other kids and is dangerous as well.

May I know which sentence/word that I comment here indicate that we use \"retarliating violence?\"

Based on duriz's comment, they neither feel remorse nor apologetic and continued to ride off with the bike + funny remark.

BTW, \"tell them off\" at my last sentence is meant for \"tell the adult off and not that kid, pls read properly\".

WeiHan:

chatelaine:

Hi duriz

Err.. I mean carry her off the bike and let her sit on the floor.

If I hear no apologises from them or discipline their kid, I would just tell them off as I mentioned earlier.
[quote=\"duriz\"]If it was just the maid with the girl, yes I would have told the girl off. But I wouldn't touch the girl, in case she fell and the situation gets distorted.

But if there is a guardian around, I would expect them to discipline their charge. And if they didn't, I'd be upset at their behavior and not the child's.

I wouldn't like someone else to discipline my DD either.

Can you just explain to the 4 years old that the bike is not hers and she should not push the 1 year old toddler? It is dangerous. Can you all use reasoning instead of being angry or use retarliating violence which is useless. For an adult to use violence on a 4 years old even though she was wrong for pushing the 1 year old is even more wrong. You will degrade yourselves to the 4 years old.[/quote]