Vexed.... wat to do?

[noobparent]

mummyJune:

noobparent= ya but he apologised after i stopped him. i did told my HOD abt this matter, she told me if he does it again she will let the big boss know.


northernstar= yes, im fortunate to ve good colleagues cos my office has more female den male, the male colleagues are not usually in the office.

Good. Since he apologised and I assume he is sincere about it, no harm giving him a second chance.

But such things should not be tolerated.

If anybody dares to do this to my dear wifey, I'll get him hanged.

[northernstar]

hi mummyJune, but after he apologised, will u feel awkward when seeing him or worried that he will do it again? is ur workin relationship with him affected?


hi noobparent, u're such a gd hubby

yesterday, that uncle did not call mi that name again.. but i guessed cos my male colleagues were around. now, when he comes into my office, i will be scared that he calls mi that cos i dun like...

[northernstar]

is blowing a virtutal kiss a kind of harassment too?

[mummyJune]

northernstar:

hi mummyJune, but after he apologised, will u feel awkward when seeing him or worried that he will do it again? is ur workin relationship with him affected?


hi noobparent, u're such a gd hubby

yesterday, that uncle did not call mi that name again.. but i guessed cos my male colleagues were around. now, when he comes into my office, i will be scared that he calls mi that cos i dun like...

now when i see him i will ignore him but he will try to find chance to talk to me & is always talk rubbish. now im more mean when i talk to him or i will show him black face when he talks to me etc. this type of person no need to give face. he's juz a supervisor, anything i can also complain to his HOD. fortunately for me, i seldom ve any work dealings with him, occassionally if there is, i will juz strictly talk business with him. when he tries to get funny i will scold him. for example there was once when he took a camera & wanted to take pic of me, immediately i scolded him loudly(loud enough for all my colleagues to hear), i told him if he dares to take pic of me i will sue him for harressment. he was abit paiseh & said softly 'no la juz joking with u only'.

hey, if tat uncle still try to disturb u, dun b too nice to him. perverts like these usually like to test water on harmless women. if he tries to be funny, u ve to voice out & protect yrself.

[northernstar]

wa e man who disturbed u is so thick-skinned. u oredy scolded him yet he stil continues 2b funni with u...


u tink i shd wait for a 3rd time? cos i oredy told him strictly i'm not comfortable wif wat he did to me

[mummyJune]

northernstar:

wa e man who disturbed u is so thick-skinned. u oredy scolded him yet he stil continues 2b funni with u...


u tink i shd wait for a 3rd time? cos i oredy told him strictly i'm not comfortable wif wat he did to me

well, cos his character is like that, abit pervert & like to disturb women. what to do, we juz ve to keep our distance from people like him. sometimes when i meet my big boss in the lift i almost want to tell him abt this man but endup never say cos i felt that such things better to inform HR 1st den trouble my big boss... unless HR never do anything den i will tell my big boss if there is a chance cos my big boss is protective towards female staff in the office.

but so far so good, even today when tat man saw me he juz smile & greet me morning, so out of courtesy i juz greet him back morning but never smile.

he still disturbing u till now? do u ve any work dealing with him? i tink its beta for u to voice out, tel him dun disturb u anymore or u will let yr boss know.

[northernstar]

oh mummyjune, ur company is so gd... will protect women if i were u, i will find its such a nuisance to see him often..


yes, i already din talk to him much but he never got e hint haiz... i din even wanna greet him back.. but when he asked mi work thing (oni related 2 stationary), i will ans him without a smile too... i had kept a distance from him, but sometimes yuan jia lu zhai leh

there's oso another sicko lor haiz... they r in e same dept..

are u disturbed if he whistled at u?

[mummyJune]

northernstar:

oh mummyjune, ur company is so gd... will protect women if i were u, i will find its such a nuisance to see him often..


yes, i already din talk to him much but he never got e hint haiz... i din even wanna greet him back.. but when he asked mi work thing (oni related 2 stationary), i will ans him without a smile too... i had kept a distance from him, but sometimes yuan jia lu zhai leh

there's oso another sicko lor haiz... they r in e same dept..

are u disturbed if he whistled at u?

dun worry so much. if he still disturbs u, best is juz ignore him if no one is able to help u. some men r like that, sickos & perverts. if he still disturbs u during yr working hrs, tel him off, tel him u r working & he is disturbing u & u will complain him if he still continues to disturb u.

if anyone whistle at me i juz ignore be it colleagues or friends, since they know ur name why should they whistle if they need to talk to u. some men r juz trying to be funny. they tink its fun to disturb women.

btw r u very young?

[northernstar]

actually, i had thought of mentioning it to my supervisor today. but he is very busy and can't even go for lunch together. but i will find a chance to do so. if not, i will send an email.


tks for ur consolation

i'm in my late 20s, haven married yet.

[mummyJune]

northernstar:

actually, i had thought of mentioning it to my supervisor today. but he is very busy and can't even go for lunch together. but i will find a chance to do so. if not, i will send an email.


tks for ur consolation

i'm in my late 20s, haven married yet.

ya, its good that u will let yr supervisor know. u r welcome hope things go well for you. :celebrate: